adaddysgirl
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Merc, Without reading this entire thread, i have to say i am in complete agreement with you. So where does it end? From what i saw, some are saying that education is important....and what about parental responsibility? We raise our kids eating certain foods. From 1-5 years of age, we feed them every meal and if by chance they are in day care, we either place them where they serve nutritional meals....or we supply the food. i did both when my kids were young. Then when they go to school, if you don't like the school lunch, you pack them a lunch of what you want. Admittedly, financially some have to utilize the free lunch program. i won't judge that and while that may not be their preference, they just have to take what they can get at that point. That's what i would have done if i had to....and then control their other food intake as i could at home. No kid can go in and buy McD's at 5 years old.....and even at say 10, they still need to get the money from somewhere to do so. So for many years, kids should be eating what their parents provide for them and if that is overall healthy, then that is what they learn. But i also realize that when kids gain some autonomy in their teen years, things change and perhaps what you have taught them falls by the wayside....and that goes for eating, sex, smoking, drugs.....whatever. That is the point where you can't be with them every free moment and they have to make their own decisions, and you can only hope that you have taught them well. And even then, depending on the kid, that may not matter an iota at the time. i have no qualms with educating kids about the dangers of anything....drugs, smoking, unprotected sex, even food, but for God sake, leave the choice to me, as the parent, to choose what they are exposed to....not the government. If i am not a 'good parent', then i may not raise 'good kids' but if every person should do it the same exact way, then maybe we should just be forced to send them all to Catholic school.....lol. i'm sure many will argue that is the way to go. Ah, but parents are lazy....they want someone to intervene for them where they can't. If you do not believe in feeding your kids McD's then don't. If they see 6 zillion commercials for it and beg for it, too bad. You are the parent....that is your job. If you can't say no, that's your issue....and not one that should be regulated by the government because you can't take control of a 5 year old. The same with computers and internet porn. Hello....you are the parent. There are ways to ensure your kid does not view internet porn: Don't have a computer; Put a password on it so they do not have free access to it; When they do get on, sit and watch what they do. Or do as my brother did and get one of those 'watch' programs where you can see every site they visited. Oh gawd......that would take too much work! Now again, if at 15 they go somewhere, to a friend's house or something where they can see such things...well, there's not much you can do unless you know about it and forbid them to see that friend and we all know how that works. In short, you teach them the best you can, take the steps you can, then hope for the best. But please, don't succumb to allowing the government to regulate all those things so you don't have to. When i see parents who want to abdicate authority to the government to regulate what we, as parents, should be teaching our kids, i see lazy parents. If you don't want to raise your kids the way you want, exposing them to what you feel is right (as opposed to what the government thinks is right for them).....then either don't have them or put them in some government institution where everything will be regulated for them. But anyhoo....your link was a blast! i'd really much rather see commercials explaining to kids why certain foods are not good for them....and then at least the kids can make some decision on what they should do when they get older rather than someone making that decision for them. But i really think we need to start a list of acceptable and unacceptable food for kids...so i start with hot dogs. Bad, bad hot dogs! And Kraft macaroni and cheese, because it contains the ill-fated cheese product. Doritos. Any potato chips. No twinkies (or the like). No pies or cakes. Acceptable: all fruits and veggies and their by-products. Maybe bread? Boiled and baked potatoes (no sour cream nor butter, too fatty). i don't know...i guess i have to think about this one for a minute.... Edited to add: Anyone else? DG
< Message edited by adaddysgirl -- 1/9/2007 9:19:26 PM >
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