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Male Submissives - 1/5/2007 2:30:34 AM   
QuietMistress


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RE: Male Submissives - 1/5/2007 3:24:50 AM   
LotusSong


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ORIGINAL: QuietMistress

What attracts you most about a male's submission?


Easy one! Their eagerness to learn and LISTEN  (at least the ones I have been honored to know)
 
 

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/5/2007 4:40:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		Their willingness to be vulnerable, emotionally, mentally and physically.... and their ability to give up masculine archetypes and trust me.

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/5/2007 4:47:41 AM   
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RE: Male Submissives - 1/5/2007 4:50:24 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Jasmyn

Their willingness to be vulnerable, emotionally, mentally and physically.... and their ability to give up masculine archetypes and trust me.


Oh I do agree with this...with the right sub forme it is the way they look up into your eyes if only fora moment with a mix of confusion at thier possitions, anticipation, and desire...the forms of thier body through bondange or in classic slave positions, the contrast of chains and flesh... I can take that away with me for weeks and feel energized...

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/5/2007 5:01:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		Their ability to be themselves and not care (or they shouldn't) what society dictates. The way he loves me, serves me and is devoted to me. He feels freer to communicate and thats a big plus, as alot of men seem to have problems in that department. He takes care of me and serves me. For me its a win-win situation.

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/5/2007 5:13:33 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Jasmyn

Their willingness to be vulnerable, emotionally, mentally and physically.... and their ability to give up masculine archetypes and trust me.


That, and the devoted attentiveness that means that you are the cherished centre of their world, for whom they will do anything to please, and anything to avoid displeasure. Add in helpless lust that is held back only until its wanted, and.....

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/5/2007 5:16:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		Lady Lupine mmm for me that's the heat that keeps the fire intense ... the burning, the yearning... knowing I could crush him (mentally, phyiscally, emotionally) at anytime ... his trusting that I won't ... hoping that I won't ... not knowing that I won't... and it's that 'fleeting moment' that gets me everytime ...when it occurs to him ...that he doesn't actually know... but gives himself to me despite this ... it's the only time I every consider 'submission' a gift ...

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/5/2007 7:47:10 AM   
thetammyjo


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ORIGINAL: QuietMistress

What attracts you most about a male's submission?


I don't know. It just touches something inside of me.

By the way, it effects me the same why when I meet a submissive woman.

However I'm not affected by all so-called submissives the same way. There is something there that I see and feel but I don't have the words to describe it.

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/5/2007 7:55:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		This is a good question. I usaully ask the dominants that I know why they feel that they are dominant. I get some insight to what type of dominant they are by asking them this. Yet, this is a reverse of the question almost asking them what they like in a submissive. I look forward to seeing more answers to this.

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/5/2007 7:56:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		It is something in their eyes. A yearning need and fear. They so want to please and learn. They allow me to be me.

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/5/2007 9:44:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		The same thing that attracts me about anyone's submission. The joy in watching them learn and grow and become more...through service. That being said, I don't find everyone who "submits" to be attractive, because not everyone who submits is following this kind of path. Most are using it as a manipulation tool to simply get what they want.

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/5/2007 2:47:24 PM   
KaramelGoddess


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It is something in their eyes. A yearning need and fear. They so want to please and learn. They allow me to be me.


Yessssssss the eyes...the longing and the tinge of fear.
 
I also look upon submission as a gift - and I know that as much as he cherishes me, I cherish him the same way.  As mam said - we allow each other to be.  And I think that is a profound delight.
 
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RE: Male Submissives - 1/5/2007 2:51:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: QuietMistress

What attracts you most about a male's submission?


What a wonderful topic! This section has been marvelous lately, let's keep it up!

The fact that he is submitting to me on all levels.  The feeling of power and control.
 

< Message edited by MzMia -- 1/5/2007 2:55:29 PM >

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/5/2007 3:25:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		they aim to please and I  LLLLLLLLOVE the look in their eyes when they get their rewards 4bing good. That about sums it up

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/7/2007 2:40:57 AM   
FourInchHeels


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Status: offline 		What attracts Me most is his eagerness to make Me happy, and his willingness to put his happiness in My hands.

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/7/2007 6:35:11 AM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear QuietMistress, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
What attracts me about male submission; is that I have a man who wishes me to access the 'boy' in him, the 'warrior' in him, the 'girl' in him, the power in him, the weak in him.  The control and mastery of him, that he gives to me by his authority, to do as I wish, to be without guilt or reservation in using all of him, as to permit him to be used without guilt or reservation in being subserviant to a woman.  It is as close to being a Goddess, Monarch, Nobility, General and or any other arch-types of surpreme power and authority, earthbound empowered by her servants on earth and 'her' will enforced and controlled through protocol, obedience, respect, trust and understanding.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/9/2007 3:08:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		 i have been trying for years to find a mistress that would enable me to act out those qualities they desire and deserve. maybe someday one will consider me. golfguy

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/9/2007 3:15:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jasmyn

Their willingness to be vulnerable, emotionally, mentally and physically.... and their ability to give up masculine archetypes and trust me.


That, and the devoted attentiveness that means that you are the cherished centre of their world, for whom they will do anything to please, and anything to avoid displeasure. Add in helpless lust that is held back only until its wanted, and.....

E


Damn Girl, get a room!!!!    LOL

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/9/2007 5:54:42 PM   
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