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swtnsparkling -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/5/2007 1:20:01 PM)
Bill Engvall, Love that guy "Heres Your Sign"

MmakeMme -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/5/2007 2:19:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressMaamNH Damn, must have been one hell of a profile....it's been taken down/revamped. Couple said it was entertaining reading, I'm disappointed I didn't get to share in the chuckle. Muuuuhther FUCKER! Me too!!!!

drawntothedark -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/5/2007 2:27:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MmakeMme quote: ORIGINAL: MistressMaamNH Damn, must have been one hell of a profile....it's been taken down/revamped. Couple said it was entertaining reading, I'm disappointed I didn't get to share in the chuckle. Muuuuhther FUCKER! Me too!!!! everybody calm down. It was not that amazing. Plus......his new profile will be up tomorrow ;)

littleone35 -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/5/2007 5:09:51 PM)
Well i don't know about the pain part Master is not a sadist and pain does not get me off. As for the tying up an being helpless so he can do anything he wants. he can always do anything he wants anyway but know i am helpless and have no way whatsoever in stopping him (not that i would anyway) i find that very very hot and erotic. That just me though. Matt's littleone

AquaticSub -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/5/2007 5:11:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: notgotitall Someone please make me understand why a woman would willing want to submit her body to a man's lust to cause pain? Why would she let him slap, bite, and twist her nipples and, and torture her clit and vagina in a hundred different ways. Why would she want to be flogged just for someone else's pleasure and arousal? Why would she willing submit to being forced to try to swallow a man's cock, and hold it down her throat for as long as she can hold her breath and then get slappped for pulling it out? Why would a woman want to be tied and cuffed so as to put herself completely at a man's mercy to do anything...absolutely anything...that came to his mind to do to her for his pleasure? Why would she force herself to lay still while a man used a crop to whip her clitoris until it became too sore to touch? Someone tell me why? notgotitall Because what you just described turned me on. A lot. Damn it, I need to go home and play. Being home for the holidays is evil...

AquaticSub -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/5/2007 5:12:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth Being the sadist I am, I'll add to the dismay at those who didn't get to read the profile - It was an amazing! [sm=evil.gif] Evil... pouts

Sweetlovnone -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/5/2007 5:22:58 PM)
submition is a part of trust and loss of control...this is a good thing. As the switch i am i enjoy the control from time to time but then i love it when i have no control. the feeling of raw emotions the pain to me is a way of proper disopline. the forcing or pushing of limits makes one find new light in something they normaly would not enjoy.... but thats just my opinion and u know how thats is....

proudsub -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/5/2007 6:01:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: notgotitall Someone please make me understand why a woman would willing want to submit her body to a man's lust to cause pain? Why would she let him slap, bite, and twist her nipples and, and torture her clit and vagina in a hundred different ways. Why would she want to be flogged just for someone else's pleasure and arousal? Why would she willing submit to being forced to try to swallow a man's cock, and hold it down her throat for as long as she can hold her breath and then get slappped for pulling it out? Why would a woman want to be tied and cuffed so as to put herself completely at a man's mercy to do anything...absolutely anything...that came to his mind to do to her for his pleasure? Why would she force herself to lay still while a man used a crop to whip her clitoris until it became too sore to touch? Someone tell me why? notgotitall I wish He would do all those things but it just isn't Him. What's that quote I think from the Charge of the Light Brigade: "Ours is not to reason why, ours is but to do or die" (not sure if that is exactly right) Take out the "die" part and that describes some of us subs and slave.

sweetnurseBBW -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/5/2007 6:07:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: notgotitall Someone please make me understand why a woman would willing want to submit her body to a man's lust to cause pain? Why would she let him slap, bite, and twist her nipples and, and torture her clit and vagina in a hundred different ways. Why would she want to be flogged just for someone else's pleasure and arousal? Why would she willing submit to being forced to try to swallow a man's cock, and hold it down her throat for as long as she can hold her breath and then get slappped for pulling it out? Why would a woman want to be tied and cuffed so as to put herself completely at a man's mercy to do anything...absolutely anything...that came to his mind to do to her for his pleasure? Why would she force herself to lay still while a man used a crop to whip her clitoris until it became too sore to touch? Someone tell me why? notgotitall Because some of us enjoy pain and cannot get enough. It is called a masochist. I enjoy pain and will take as much as I can or Master sees fit. I just like pain and thats all there is to it.

mynded -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/5/2007 6:11:45 PM)
If you need to ask why, you're in the wrong room. This is BDSM right? Oh, I need a spanking now.

BDSM05478 -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/5/2007 7:44:37 PM)
Forgive me if someone already said this as I just had to answer before I read the whole thread...... You ask why? cause it's fun! it fullfills something deep inside myself and frees that part to be whole and compleat. It creates a special level of trust and communacation that most people are not as lucky to find. I wish everyone was as content as we are in our life, sadly it is quite the opposite. Why or how can one ejoy "toture" because it hurts in that good way.... "Sex w/o pain is like food w/o taste" so the button says. Why subject ourselves to someone elses fantasies, desires and cruel requierment? Why does seeing someone in distress, tied and gagged (willingly of course) One word: Power. That is the best spanish fly around.

IvyP -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/5/2007 8:40:01 PM)
it would go against my true nature if i didnt at Masters Behest....and anyother thing you failed to mention, for that matter.........why dont you read about why before you ask...i'm sure right after the tissues were thrown away smirk there was time to pull up a submission site and learn why for yourself http://leathernroses.com/submission/journeysub.htm in the words of Mr. Mackie....."their are no stupid questions....Only stupid ppl :)

Manawyddan -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/6/2007 6:04:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mynded If you need to ask why, you're in the wrong room. This is BDSM right? Oh, I need a spanking now. Wait ... what? I thought that stood for 'Bible Discussion and Study Meeting'! <looks around, sees all the scary people in leather, runs and hides>

sublizzie -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/6/2007 7:30:10 AM)
I've been in Bible Discussion and Study Meetings that were FAR more scary than being here! You've not seen scary until you've watched a couple of theologians from opposite sides of a topic go after each other. {shudders and runs back to the safety of perverts!} quote: ORIGINAL: Manawyddan quote: ORIGINAL: mynded If you need to ask why, you're in the wrong room. This is BDSM right? Oh, I need a spanking now. Wait ... what? I thought that stood for 'Bible Discussion and Study Meeting'! <looks around, sees all the scary people in leather, runs and hides> edited because my brain is mush today

behindmirrors -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/6/2007 11:58:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: notgotitall Someone please make me understand why a woman would willing want to submit her body to a man's lust to cause pain? Why would she let him slap, bite, and twist her nipples and, and torture her clit and vagina in a hundred different ways. Why would she want to be flogged just for someone else's pleasure and arousal? Why would she willing submit to being forced to try to swallow a man's cock, and hold it down her throat for as long as she can hold her breath and then get slappped for pulling it out? Why would a woman want to be tied and cuffed so as to put herself completely at a man's mercy to do anything...absolutely anything...that came to his mind to do to her for his pleasure? Why would she force herself to lay still while a man used a crop to whip her clitoris until it became too sore to touch? Someone tell me why? notgotitall On the reverse side, you could ask why a man would do this to a woman, or any partner to their partner, for that matter. To answer one part, you must also be able to answer the other- and from my point of view of the question, it's "because it compliments the other who does these things to them, and makes both feel pleased and/or gratified in some way." So, ask yourself why you would be gratified from causing this- and then look at the questions you ask again about who would enjoy recieving this- you'll find the answer to be very similar- because it fulfills something the other wants or needs in some way. Just my thoughts on the subject- behindmirrors. (edited for clarification)

Palaceofwinds -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/6/2007 2:52:12 PM)
I think your post boils down to one question: what kind of people are drawn to BDSM? If you're really interested, a good starting point might be to research the literature and the manifold journals on sexual behaviour and psychology. There may be a role for psychoanalysis in BDSM, but personally, I've given up on trying to analyse what has made me submissive, so regarding BDSM, I adopt the "It is what it is" school of thought. Submission is what fulfils me sexually, but ask me why so, and I'm pretty much at a loss.

RedSavageSlave -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/6/2007 4:21:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Manawyddan quote: ORIGINAL: mynded If you need to ask why, you're in the wrong room. This is BDSM right? Oh, I need a spanking now. Wait ... what? I thought that stood for 'Bible Discussion and Study Meeting'! <looks around, sees all the scary people in leather, runs and hides> Do you think if I made that a T-shirt I could wear it to church?? [&:]

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/6/2007 9:08:34 PM)
Why ask why?...just be glad that for every hand there is a glove that fits it...Tempting

syreena -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/7/2007 12:39:15 AM)
Someone please make me understand why a woman would willing want to submit her body to a man's lust to cause pain? Why would she let him slap, bite, and twist her nipples and, and torture her clit and vagina in a hundred different ways. Why would she want to be flogged just for someone else's pleasure and arousal? Why would she willing submit to being forced to try to swallow a man's cock, and hold it down her throat for as long as she can hold her breath and then get slappped for pulling it out? Why would a woman want to be tied and cuffed so as to put herself completely at a man's mercy to do anything...absolutely anything...that came to his mind to do to her for his pleasure? Why would she force herself to lay still while a man used a crop to whip her clitoris until it became too sore to touch? Someone tell me why? notgotitall To answer these questions is like answering why do some people like roller coasters and sky diving and other people like to cross stitch and form organizations to help others. Everyone has a passion, everyone has a reason and the lifestyle is not any different. Why would a woman and or male choose to submit? Why would a man or a woman choose to Dominate? i choose to submit because it is a need and want within me. i choose to submit to my Owner because W/we have built a relationship that involves cyclical trust and motivation to grow. i choose to submit to His pain because i need it. There are times where my Owner is begged to take the cane, whip, etc to me because it is during that time that i am free to let go of my internal pain, of my external worries and or my imperfections. There are times where my Owner is begged to do those things because i need to refocus and redirect my energies. There are times where my Owner does those things because He needs to give the pain and or He needs that release. There are times where W/we both need to just be with each other in a powerful moment and exchange the energy between U/us. i treasure those moments and the reminds that often come after to remind me of my place and the relationship i have with my Owner. i can not answer for others nor do my opinions reflect A/anyone else.

Celeste43 -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/7/2007 10:39:02 AM)
The same reason some people like food made with very hot chili peppers. Might burn my mouth but they interpret the sensations differently. That's all it is, sensation and how you interpret it. As for the nonsensation part, ask why someone would push themselves to run a marathon, causing shin problems, muscle aches etc. Because they enjoy proving something to themselves. It isn't necessary to run 26 plus miles to be fit, 2 miles a day would do that.

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