DominicsJoy -> RE: Why would a woman? (1/10/2007 8:29:25 AM)
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Evidently the author is not acquainted with S/m. Nor have they tried to understand the subtle interplay that takes place between participants. I am far from a pain slut, and not a whipping post, but... that said, a bit of pain here and there to add an edge to play is very erotic. Arrousal is unique to each participant, but it would be the height of martyrdom to place yourself upon a cross to be whipped sensless for only your partner's enjoyment. Personally, I have never encountered that myself. I think that with a bit more practical experience you may find that through actually speaking to the other party and negotiating desires and goals you will find that many women have hidden desires that they have been forced to ignore. This life style gives them an outlet to explore and vindicate them. I cannot speak for the other side of the flogger... but I can tell you that Master and I are very pleased with the amount of pain in our relationship, and it by no means hampers or encumbers me as a woman. Thank you, Master's girl- joy
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