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RE: have i made a mistake - 1/6/2007 6:24:16 PM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		Or you could just be fucking with all of us.

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RE: have i made a mistake - 1/6/2007 8:16:05 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		sighs.....COMMUNICATION!....talk with her..after all since it is an on line thing,the talking should be uppermost, especially seeing as how physicality is out for the moment..COMMUNICATION...in any event, is what forms and deepens any dynamic...wee sexual tasks..pfffttt...somehow..I am thinking that conversing and exchanging of ideas, lives,experiences between couples is becoming a lost art.............Tempting

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RE: have i made a mistake - 1/6/2007 8:18:51 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		one other thing..I know you stated you had exchanged ideas and loves and lives, about movies etc...but if you had really been COMMUNICATING..then what is happening now would not be an issue.....Tempting

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RE: have i made a mistake - 1/6/2007 8:55:42 PM   
celticlord2112


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Status: offline 		Have you considered the possibility she is pushing the limit of your submission -- expanding your horizons?

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ORIGINAL: steviemichael

a test ? this one was not aware from the outset with this Mistress that this one has too prove my gift of submission but maybe you are correct maybe there are those who require a submissive too pass a *test* thank you for your reply be well.

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RE: have i made a mistake - 1/6/2007 10:52:27 PM   
bbwdommelilith


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Status: offline 		Perhaps you are not a sub, but more of a bottom. In any case, I agree that you need to communicate with your mistress.

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RE: have i made a mistake - 1/9/2007 12:47:52 AM   
steviemichael


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Status: offline 		okay now i am really confused with th labels.
difference between a * botton * and a sub is ?

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RE: have i made a mistake - 1/9/2007 12:50:35 AM   
steviemichael


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RE: have i made a mistake - 1/9/2007 1:07:26 AM   
canupleaseme


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Status: offline 		I havent played with people online much i find it boring becuae sometimes it really is hard to think of things to make people do.  And franklyis very boring watchig someone spank themselves or just jerk off !!! Is this relationship going to become real time play? Maybe she would have more for you to do then??  Personally i have always kept discussions to what bdsm things we love most rather than films till ive had a good idea of what i want to see and what the other person needs.  On one hand yes what she desires is what you should do but on the other hand your needs should be known too.  I guess as everyone else has said re communication is the way to go, or maybe look for a new playmate?
Most bondage sites have a glossary of terms you should find the definitions of bottoms etc on there.

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RE: have i made a mistake - 1/9/2007 1:11:14 AM   
RedSavageSlave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

quote:

Since when did submitting become all about thrills, chills, and excitement???


You mean it isn't? My Daddy will have to be informed because I find it pretty thrilling personally. Maybe we are doing something wrong? But then again I get turned on by doing his laundry and organizing his place... one of those freaky service oriented types.


<kidnaps julia for an intervention>

::in a very hypnotic voice::  its all about the sub....its all about the sub.....service is for wimps...service is for wimps...

hehehe 

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