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eyesopened -> RE: need some advice again (1/9/2007 3:05:43 AM)

my aunt gave me this sage advice:  "Love whomever you will.  Just remember any man [woman] who will cheat on their wife [husband] won't think twice about cheating on their girlfriend" [boyfriend]. 





RedSavageSlave -> RE: need some advice again (1/9/2007 7:21:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

Perhaps she told him about you,maybe she pretended to be the husband to see if you are honorable(LOL)...in any case the rabbit is out of the hat.



yeah..see now that is what I was thinking was happening here.




MasterGremlin -> RE: need some advice again (1/9/2007 9:36:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GoreanGuy

the last post I am going to add to this thread is you guys must really be grasping for insults  I have known leigh for 4 years and have heard her on voice so keep thinking you might get something right someday


With all due respect, if she really wanted to leave her husband, don't you think she could have figured out a way in 4 years?

You wanted advice, well here is some.  Stay away from the computer for a while, learn how to relate to real people in the real world and don't mess around with someone who is married, virtually or in real time.  Life isn't a RPG and you aren't a kid anymore.  Life is too short to waste it this way. 
Just my humble opinion,
minxy




Malkinius -> RE: need some advice again (1/9/2007 8:14:25 PM)

Greetings GG....

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ORIGINAL: GoreanGuy

ok my leigh and I had a confrontation today. well actually just Me. I seen her log on to MSN messenger and I said "smiles seeing his girl" and her husband, who she isnt very close to, said it was not a she but it was him. he was reading through her logs and stuff. as the conversation progressed he asked who the person she was calling "Master" and I knew her wishes about not disclosing the information to him for she has no place to go.

he had threatened the "Master" with bodily harm if he ever finds him, I gave him a name of a person I have hated for years, and he seemed happy with that in the end of the conversation he said "its good she has a friend like you"  boy would he be mad if he truly found out who he is talking to

my question is knowing she would rather be with you then her current guy, what would you tell her? break it off with him and move close to you? or you need to break it off with her because of her husband?


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ORIGINAL: GoreanGuy

for all of the posts that have been made

the reason he had access to her account was because he hacked into the computer

I have only been 1 name on this site since I started coming here

as for the  Gorean community commenting on this particular thread, theyre more worried about how badly their eyes hurt from reading colored texts and kartaing

brokentoy you are wrong cosidering I have been on her account once I doubt she had me under the Master category in MSN, WHICH THERE WASNT ONE. that was in yahoo and he couldnt hack the account or think of the password. and if he did, he wouldnt have gotten anywhere there either since he didnt have the screen name correct when I asked him which one she uses

and he isnt much of a man to sit there and not flat out say that he knows about Me


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ORIGINAL: GoreanGuy

and you want to talk about ME being immature what kind of people are you to sit there and totally criticize a Man for coming to the boards wanting help    


These seem to be the relevant posts. They are certainly enough for me to comment on. Leonidas made his comment but he is nice and gentle and sweet tempered as Goreans go. Those are things that I have never been accused of.

My assessment and suggestion about your situation is summed up in the following suggestion. Change your nick to cowardlyplayerboy. That sums up you and your situation very well. As you may have gathered from 5 pages of posts in two days, this pretty much sums up what the general BDSM community thinks of you. Many Goreans are not nearly so gentle in their assessments of people such as you. You admit to lying. That makes you a liar and your word not to be trusted again. You gave the name of someone else to avoid taking responsibility for your actions. That is a coward. You tried to steal another man's wife. That would classify you as a thief. Liar, coward and thief. Those are three of the common penalty brands mentioned in the books.

From everything I have seen from you, online player certainly fits you. Now...that by itself is not as damning as the other three. Many to most of us started out that way. It is, however, usually pretty obvious. I did notice from your profile that your announcement of collaring her was the first of the year so it sounds like things haven't been going on all that long. Certainly a half year or less per your CM journal entry.

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5/14/2006 8:01:40 AM [Report Entry]
well isnt the world peachy, I keep finding out that there arent any REAL people who will honor Me all I get are players and wanna bes


You are right. There aren't any real people who will honor you. It doesn't work that way. You don't deserve it. You have to earn the respect of others. It is by how you act and what you say that gains you respect and shows that you are honorable. At this point, it looks like you don't have to worry about either. As for your comment about players and wannabes....yep....as they say, you get what you deserve. I wish that most people online weren't one or the other or both.

But...back to your problem. If you did what you said, you played the coward. You acted like a child. You certainly didn't act like a man. You then came here expecting help or advice for doing something stupid and your nick giving them more ammunition with which to insult Goreans as you become their example of what a "Gorean guy" is. You didn't even have the guts to post this in the Gorean forum. This also proves what you are not.

I am certain that the rest of the posters here will have a lot of fun reading my comments. As I said above, I am not the sweet gentle type that some other are. Be glad that you didn't post this on the real Gorean boards or lists. If you had, you would have found that my comments are as gentle as Leonidas' are to mine. But....you don't go to those places, do you? I admit that I haven't checked.

Be well....

Malkinius




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