LadyAngelika
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ORIGINAL: subrob1967
In a SSC relationship, one cannot be "forced" into anything, but they may be coerced into trying something that goes beyond a comfort level, or "soft limit".
If you have a relationship with safe words, or gestures, one can always opt out.
I know very little about "official SSC game rules". I simply know that I am safe in the way I play, I am a sane individual and only play with sane people and I never do anything that is not consensual.
That said, I think our purpose in life is to grow and discover new things. I would not be the person I am today if I was not pushed to go beyond my own limits (and I'm talking way beyond any limits in the realm of wwiitwd). I have pushed myself and I have been pushed by my parents and certain teachers and mentors.
When I take on a submissive, I believe that I have as much to learn from them as I have to teach them. But learning occurs when we allow ourselves to go further, deeper, etc. Once trust is established between my submissive and I, I will push soft limits. I also usually end up at some point pushing my own limits.
As for safe words... well that's a whole other conversation all together. I'm not a big fan of them. I'll give them to someone I'm simply "playing" with. When I'm involved with someone, I tend to find them useless. I usually can tell when someone I'm in tune with has truly had enough.
- LA
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