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RE: How do you know when you find your true Master? - 1/11/2007 8:17:10 PM

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This statement is very true and quite beautiful. ty

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A twin flame is more akin to the "one true love", for they were born a part of our soul. When we meet them, we know them and remember them forever. Even if our encounter was a brief second.

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RE: How do you know when you find your true Master? - 1/11/2007 8:18:18 PM

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seeing as your 'new to the lifestyle' as your profile states, then i must wonder how you come to this opinion?

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ORIGINAL: subsidize

you will know a true master by his skill level. all real masters can braid whips, perform all aspects of shibari and have a vast knowledge of all aspects of bdsm. anyone else is as they say...a jack of all trades!

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RE: How do you know when you find your true Master? - 1/11/2007 8:21:03 PM

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i agree totally with your post. i have 'my one true' on my profile because i seek someone who will take the time to really know me and not just use me. the right Master will and i'll know it.

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There is no supposed "One" True" Master for each submissive. That's like saying there is only one person for us in the world. Be Realistic.

There are many people we fit and meld well with. Some better then others. But just because someone seems perfect in every way, it still might not mean they are the one for you.

You know you are with a good partner when the chemistry is right, when you have more in common then just your kinks, when everyday you just want to be with them, near them, talk to them. But even then, it's not a guarrentee that you're meant to be together long term.

being kinky doesn't mean anything more then being vanilla when it comes to finding the right partner. Life is life and that never changes.

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RE: How do you know when you find your true Master? - 2/27/2007 6:11:36 AM

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He walked up to me in a restaurant, sat down beside me, put His feet in my lap...and claimed me.

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RE: How do you know when you find your true Master? - 2/27/2007 4:15:21 PM

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Is it by luck, by the intimate connection of the heart and soul, is it some magical paradigm? Is it the wings he creates for you to fly that only he alone could? Is it the spark of fires in his soul that ignites you to become one with him?

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RE: How do you know when you find your true Master? - 2/28/2007 10:20:39 AM

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well now most of that was not encourageing .......... poof went the fairytale ......

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RE: How do you know when you find your true Master? - 2/28/2007 10:55:02 AM

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agrees with Archer...

the journey continues...

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RE: How do you know when you find your true Master? - 5/31/2007 7:29:25 PM

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I'll let you know when I find him... LOL

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RE: How do you know when you find your true Master? - 5/31/2007 7:38:59 PM

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pretty much the same way you know you have found your true love....you don't know till you death do you part...other than that you take a leap of faith when all the feelings are right...you know the old saw: ya pays yer money and ya takes yer chances (said in my best hillbilly accent ~ which is not one of the accents i do well....so its not very good)

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RE: How do you know when you find your true Master? - 5/31/2007 7:41:04 PM

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The right one who you should be with right now or the right one for life? only time tells we are who we are ment to be with at the time. Same goes for any other relationship.

No matter what lifestyle

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RE: How do you know when you find your true Master? - 5/31/2007 7:56:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

When you feel like you have met your true master, then you have found him. He will be your true master until he isn't anymore. If your true master and you part ways, there will always be someone else come along to master you truly too.

My point is only this, you may meet the master of your dreams tomorrow, spend a year or two together, part ways, would that make the time you spent any less? Enjoy each moment for what it is, for it is real and true in the moment it exists.

Sounds good to me julia,

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RE: How do you know when you find your true Master? - 5/31/2007 9:05:58 PM

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When defenseless, vulnerable and bare, you still feel safe and secure.

When, no matter how many bumps and twists the road takes, the journey always feels worth it.

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RE: How do you know when you find your true Master? - 5/31/2007 9:09:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: Archer

Personally I think the One true Master/ soulmate stuff is crap.
Now that will upset a few folks, but it's my view.
Personally I think there are several really good matches for each of us out there people who we can form viable loving fulfiling relationships with, rather than a single "soulmate".

Bravo!
Agreed. Now where the hell are my "several"?

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RE: How do you know when you find your true Master? - 6/1/2007 3:21:08 AM

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For me I just knew, within hours.

I don't believe there is just one though, but while he holds my heart, I will exclude all others.

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RE: How do you know when you find your true Master? - 6/1/2007 5:52:09 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Archer

Personally I think the One true Master/ soulmate stuff is crap.
Now that will upset a few folks, but it's my view.
Personally I think there are several really good matches for each of us out there people who we can form viable loving fulfiling relationships with, rather than a single "soulmate".

Ditto
edit : and good luck on your journey! Consider asking your friends in the lifestyle to pick people for you to meet, that worked out well for me. Sometimes they can see a different perspective on what you actually need, over what is familiar to you and comfortable. It's a remarkable thing to have someone suddenly meeting needs you never actually knew you had..

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RE: How do you know when you find your true Master? - 6/2/2007 1:12:43 PM

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To the OP..one true soulmate..humm...I do not think so.To any and all that enter into your life there is a season and a reason. Forever??..sighs..I highly doubt..of course this is coming from one whos only constant in her life has been her family, otherwise friends, men et al..come and go....Tempting

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RE: How do you know when you find your true Master? - 6/2/2007 1:33:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: sapphireC

Is it by luck, by the intimate connection of the heart and soul, is it some magical paradigm? Is it the wings he creates for you to fly that only he alone could? Is it the spark of fires in his soul that ignites you to become one with him?

Whenever I hear such fancy talk, I always think of the song from "Hello Dolly".

"Don't look for shooting stars
For love is only love"

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RE: How do you know when you find your true Master? - 6/2/2007 1:44:37 PM

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ORIGINAL: subsidize

you will know a true master by his skill level. all real masters can braid whips, perform all aspects of shibari and have a vast knowledge of all aspects of bdsm. anyone else is as they say...a jack of all trades!

You are kidding right?

That's a master who happens to have a lot of experience with making whips and shibari. Some people don't even like shibari. Why should they bother to learn it, to submit to someone else's notion of what a master is?

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