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In Regards To Slavesrs'S Rant - 1/12/2007 9:01:59 PM   
slavesrs


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I thank A/all for there comments, however some where very rude! But that is okay as I did ask for opinions. IF some are and were offended I am deeply sorry, I was NOT bashing sub/slave Men nor Dom woman I was simply stating my thoughts and opinions. Regardless of what I think and feel I still show the same respect to everyone unless of course they do not show it back. Again, my previous post was perhaps a tad harsh and may have came across wrong and I am sorry to those I may have offended.
 
With Regards;
 
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RE: In Regards To Slavesrs'S Rant - 1/12/2007 9:06:33 PM   
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I thank A/all for there comments, however some where very rude! But that is okay as I did ask for opinions. IF some are and were offended I am deeply sorry, I was NOT bashing sub/slave Men nor Dom woman I was simply stating my thoughts and opinions. Regardless of what I think and feel I still show the same respect to everyone unless of course they do not show it back. Again, my previous post was perhaps a tad harsh and may have came across wrong and I am sorry to those I may have offended.
 
With Regards;
 
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RE: In Regards To Slavesrs'S Rant - 1/12/2007 9:11:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm afraid that simply saying "It's just what I feel" doesn't excuse a person from being wrong, being rude, or being excusable.

And creating a new thread to respond to your old thread doesn't make much sense either unless you're just being an attention slut.

One can only hope you'll think about this BEFORE you start a thread next time and save yourself the need to apologize.

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RE: In Regards To Slavesrs'S Rant - 1/12/2007 9:47:24 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavesrs

I thank A/all for there comments, however some where very rude! But that is okay as I did ask for opinions. IF some are and were offended I am deeply sorry, I was NOT bashing sub/slave Men nor Dom woman I was simply stating my thoughts and opinions. Regardless of what I think and feel I still show the same respect to everyone unless of course they do not show it back. Again, my previous post was perhaps a tad harsh and may have came across wrong and I am sorry to those I may have offended.
 
With Regards;
 
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RE: In Regards To Slavesrs'S Rant - 1/12/2007 9:55:40 PM   
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Sir, as I had mentioned. I did ask for opinion and even so no matter how rude some where I did in fact ask. I am not offended at all by what some had to say as each IS intitled to there OWN OPINIONS ... smiles. Thus I may think the way I do about Men being more superior to woman does not mean I am closed minded. It is just the way I feel and think, I happen to be a very open minded individual and I am proud of that. " I " feel that the people that looked down on me for my feelings and thoughts are the ones that are truly closed minded.
 
With Regards;
SRS

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RE: In Regards To Slavesrs'S Rant - 1/12/2007 10:00:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		No harm no foul....thanks for the appology though....you know the whole coming in on a rant thing is a rookie mistake, yours was not all that bad to be honest, seen way worse ones in my time...
 
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RE: In Regards To Slavesrs'S Rant - 1/12/2007 10:01:12 PM   
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Sir, as I had mentioned. I did ask for opinion and even so no matter how rude some where I did in fact ask. I am not offended at all by what some had to say as each IS intitled to there OWN OPINIONS ... smiles. Thus I may think the way I do about Men being more superior to woman does not mean I am closed minded. It is just the way I feel and think, I happen to be a very open minded individual and I am proud of that. " I " feel that the people that looked down on me for my feelings and thoughts are the ones that are truly closed minded.
 
With Regards;
SRS



I agree with this and I dont think it's ok to be rude in retaliation.  Thats no more excusable than what they're accusing you of.  That bullshit aside....

What makes me wonder is that you didnt continue to converse with the few people who offered their viewpoints in a respectful way.  Stephann had a great post and also LotusSong asked a good question to get dialogue going, along with a couple others.   I mean, if you are truly interested in other thoughts and conversation about this topic etc, why did you not reciprocate to the polite and helpful posts?

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RE: In Regards To Slavesrs'S Rant - 1/12/2007 10:07:43 PM   
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marieToo,
 
I did not respond to any of the post's as I was simply seeking out opinions and thoughts as well as feelings and as you did see I indeed got what I wanted. It was NOT a matter of seeking attention it was a matter of seeing how others felt and thought. However, I do feel that I could have said it in a more respectful  manner but no matter how I would have worded it I most likly would have gotten the same types of responses. People pnly want to hear what they want to hear and when someone new comes along and say's something they are not prepared for it is apparent some are intimadated by it. " I say what I think and I say what I feel; always" that is the motto I live by and if one cannot and will not accept it or respect it then that is there problem and not mine.
 
With Regards;
SRS

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RE: In Regards To Slavesrs'S Rant - 1/12/2007 10:13:05 PM   
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RE: In Regards To Slavesrs'S Rant - 1/12/2007 10:16:52 PM   
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Hmmmm, I have been told that I have a familiar face so to speak. I have posted here before but under my old nic and I have not used that in a year, I am pretty sure it has been deleted.
 
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SRS


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RE: In Regards To Slavesrs'S Rant - 1/12/2007 10:23:22 PM   
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RE: In Regards To Slavesrs'S Rant - 1/12/2007 10:35:05 PM   
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Honestly, I don't recall as it has been so long.


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RE: In Regards To Slavesrs'S Rant - 1/12/2007 11:05:06 PM   
catize


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quote:

 , I was NOT bashing sub/slave Men nor Dom woman I was simply stating my thoughts and opinions. Regardless of what I think and feel I still show the same respect to everyone unless of course they do not show it back.  


Your initial post was disrespectful to dominant women and submissive men.  You hinted that women have no right to be dominant and you blatently stated men who submit to women are 'disgusting'.  How is that respectful?  How is that not bashing them?
To say you meant no offense after blatently offensive statements is like the person who says something hateful or bitchy and then laughingly says "Just joking!"  I don't buy it from them and I don't buy it from you either. 
You say that you did not mean to be offensive, you say that you didn't post for attention, 'just interested in other's thoughts' you say.
My thoughts are that if your going to be rude, then own your actions and words. 



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RE: In Regards To Slavesrs'S Rant - 1/12/2007 11:13:07 PM   
slavesrs


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catize,
Apparently you have not read a word I said and that is fine. When I said "I" I was refering to me and not you. When I said " I feel,beliefs,I think" I was also refering to me and not you. As I said, you can accept or reject my apology that is your perogative. I said what I wanted to say , how I felt, what I thought and so on so forth and that is that.


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RE: In Regards To Slavesrs'S Rant - 1/13/2007 1:55:35 AM   
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catize,
Apparently you have not read a word I said and that is fine. When I said "I" I was refering to me and not you. When I said " I feel,beliefs,I think" I was also refering to me and not you. As I said, you can accept or reject my apology that is your perogative. I said what I wanted to say , how I felt, what I thought and so on so forth and that is that.



Just something to think about srs... if someone were to come on here and say "It's my opinion, my belief or I think that all Jewish people should have been killed by Hitler"... it would be a highly offensive remark to a very large group of people and extremely inappropriate in ANY context on a forum open to the general public. Perhaps in the future you may wish to replace your chosen subjects with a particular race first... decide if that would be appropriate to say in an open forum and go from there. What you may find as just a simple opinion may in fact be just as bad as the statement I used above as an example. Of course, I'm saying that like I believe that you were raised to understand that racial slurs are highly inappropriate... and that's pretty much what you did. Prejudice is an ugly thing, isn't it?
 
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RE: In Regards To Slavesrs'S Rant - 1/13/2007 7:23:46 AM   
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quote:

slavers
I did not respond to any of the post's as I was simply seeking out opinions and thoughts


Yes, you did respond to a post- #48 to slavejali


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RE: In Regards To Slavesrs'S Rant - 1/13/2007 8:51:16 AM   
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Just something to think about srs... if someone were to come on here and say "It's my opinion, my belief or I think that all Jewish people should have been killed by Hitler"... it would be a highly offensive remark to a very large group of people and extremely inappropriate in ANY context on a forum open to the general public. Perhaps in the future you may wish to replace your chosen subjects with a particular race first... decide if that would be appropriate to say in an open forum and go from there. What you may find as just a simple opinion may in fact be just as bad as the statement I used above as an example. Of course, I'm saying that like I believe that you were raised to understand that racial slurs are highly inappropriate... and that's pretty much what you did. Prejudice is an ugly thing, isn't it?
 
Jewel


Well said.  Thank you.

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RE: In Regards To Slavesrs'S Rant - 1/13/2007 9:25:49 AM   
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Please don't do it again.

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RE: In Regards To Slavesrs'S Rant - 1/13/2007 9:32:20 AM   
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RE: In Regards To Slavesrs'S Rant - 1/13/2007 10:02:06 AM   
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