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Fre Labor or D/s - 1/13/2007 7:14:50 PM   
Bubblicious


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Status: offline 		Dec. 2006, we moved to our new home on 3+ acres of land in close to Winchester, VA but it's in WV.  We are now West of Winchester off Rt. 50W.
A sub/slave could be needed to help clear our land, doing external work, in yard, garden, workshops; internal work - some cooking, laundry & cleaning house ...  could live in our 'slave quarters' ... which is an 8" X 31" permanatley connected travel trailer

recently read this
can someoe tell me the differance in wanting free labor as opposed to a D/s relationship
this woman didn't make any bones abou t it she just wants her new place in W Va clearded and cleanined.

No wonder so many are seen as just users and gamers

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RE: Fre Labor or D/s - 1/13/2007 7:16:25 PM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		To some, giving (and receiving) service is sufficient.

It's not for everyone.

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RE: Fre Labor or D/s - 1/13/2007 7:17:44 PM   
Daddysredhead


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Status: offline 		*could you use a darker font?  I got eye strain trying to read this.*

Interesting post though...  was this in a profile?

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RE: Fre Labor or D/s - 1/13/2007 7:22:11 PM   
BDSM05478


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Status: offline 		I can't remember if I sw that or just heard someone ranting about that same thing but I know it sounds damned familiar.

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RE: Fre Labor or D/s - 1/13/2007 7:34:58 PM   
reticence


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Status: offline 		Daddysredhead.....i had to highlight the OP to make it readable, did you try that?




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RE: Fre Labor or D/s - 1/13/2007 7:47:15 PM   
Daddysredhead


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RE: Fre Labor or D/s - 1/13/2007 7:58:03 PM   
toservez


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Status: offline 		Depends on the intent in my eyes if D/s or someone just looking for free labor. If the person looking accepts that they are just looking for a person who enjoys just serving and finds someone like that then that is fine with me. There are a percentage of people in this world looking for this type of service, just a small percentage though.

If the person then writes anybody on here and pretty much goes “if you are a slave, then it should not matter what you do to please your Master and Mistress type crap” then I have a very low opinion of them. It is unfortunate but there are many on these sites looking for nothing more then free labor and this includes many people living and/or experienced in the life.

I remember once talking to a couple at a local event and all the female wanted to know about me was literally my cooking and cleaning skills and if old people bothered me. When I told them I was looking for more of a complete relationship she got all pissed and did the “you are not really a slave” BS. It is those people I have no respect for.


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RE: Fre Labor or D/s - 1/13/2007 8:01:27 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		Why knock this?
Some people actually ENJOY serving others and are not doing it as a
means to an end.
It may not be "your" kink, but believe it or not, there are others that
enjoy serving others, period.

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RE: Fre Labor or D/s - 1/13/2007 8:08:37 PM   
justheather


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ORIGINAL: reticence

Daddysredhead.....i had to highlight the OP to make it readable, did you try that?





Ouch! That just made it even more painful on my screen.



Regardless of the intent of the couple, an individual may, for whatever reasons, be attracted to the situation they offer. And, if they (the couple) are "in it for" the free labor and that happens to be a major aspect of the meaning/spirituality of someone's kink, or even something they find tittilating enough to dwell in for a while, then I don't particularly see a reason why it couldnt be a win-win situation.
Once again, what matters is that people communicate about their desires and expectations. The particular way all the pieces happen fit together does not have to match the way I'm used to, the way I value, or a way that I think is fair or good, as long as it's a fit that all parties involved are satisfied with.

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RE: Fre Labor or D/s - 1/13/2007 8:25:10 PM   
slavegirljoy


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Status: offline 		This seems like a perfectly good offer to me and, if i wasn't already owned, i would be interested in finding out about taking this position.  i have served others as a live-in domestic servant (with and without any D/s relationship involvement) in exchange for a rent-free room and nothing more.  i have done housework, yardwork, laundry, cooking, errands and animal care.  i enjoy being useful and being used by others, even without a D/s relationship being there. 

my current Master has made available to Dommes for the purpose of cleaning their homes and/or doing yardwork for them and, if they wanted, also to use me sadistically, but with no other relationship involved.  Unfortunately, it has been nearly impossible to find a Domme near Charlotte, NC to take advantage of my Master's offer of loaning His slave out for this purpose.  i don't understand why that is.

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RE: Fre Labor or D/s - 1/13/2007 11:59:41 PM   
UtopianRanger


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ORIGINAL: Bubblicious

Dec. 2006, we moved to our new home on 3+ acres of land in close to Winchester, VA but it's in WV.  We are now West of Winchester off Rt. 50W.
A sub/slave could be needed to help clear our land, doing external work, in yard, garden, workshops; internal work - some cooking, laundry & cleaning house ...  could live in our 'slave quarters' ... which is an 8" X 31" permanatley connected travel trailer

recently read this
can someoe tell me the differance in wanting free labor as opposed to a D/s relationship
this woman didn't make any bones abou t it she just wants her new place in W Va clearded and cleanined.

No wonder so many are seen as just users and gamers

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It sounds exploitative to me. But then you have to remember that 'exploitation ' in and of itself, is a kink for many here.



I'll take a pass.



- R

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RE: Fre Labor or D/s - 1/14/2007 12:23:01 AM   
MysticFireTopaz


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Bubblicious

Dec. 2006, we moved to our new home on 3+ acres of land in close to Winchester, VA but it's in WV.  We are now West of Winchester off Rt. 50W.
A sub/slave could be needed to help clear our land, doing external work, in yard, garden, workshops; internal work - some cooking, laundry & cleaning house ...  could live in our 'slave quarters' ... which is an 8" X 31" permanatley connected travel trailer

recently read this
can someoe tell me the differance in wanting free labor as opposed to a D/s relationship
this woman didn't make any bones abou t it she just wants her new place in W Va clearded and cleanined.

No wonder so many are seen as just users and gamers

[Mod Note:  font color changed to one that's a bit easier to read]


I see nothing wrong with it, as she is being very upfront about what she expects and what she has to offer, which sounds like room and board.  There are service-oriented submissives or slaves who might find this situation appealing, though I suspect the number would be small.  If it is not what someone is seeking, they can certainly ignore her ad and go onto the next one.
 
Lady Topaz

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RE: Fre Labor or D/s - 1/14/2007 12:30:56 AM   
HCWT1


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Status: offline 		If you read it as its written,it seems like they want free labor.Over the years ivé seen plenty of these,but they are not always what they seem.A few years ago ,in a local newspaper,there was an ad like this one.Nobody touched it for some time,untill one lad on the edge of the group rang and took the position.
Five weeks later,he turned up at the local munch sporting a very nice collar.
It turned out to be a test.
So never judge a book by its cover. 

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RE: Fre Labor or D/s - 1/14/2007 7:35:18 AM   
blmtrsne


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Status: offline 		I guess that once you got to know each other and the slave gives himself to his Mistress, that it's not abuse: the slave will want to serve His Mistress for the best, and should be interested in how to serve better.

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RE: Fre Labor or D/s - 1/14/2007 7:42:06 AM   
orfunboi


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Status: offline 		I see nothing wrong with it. I am sure there are plenty of submissives who would see it as a wonderful opportunity. She is honest in what she is looking for and what she is willing to give in return. If your interested call, if not move on.

Note to mod 11....thanks, much easier on the eyes.

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RE: Fre Labor or D/s - 1/14/2007 7:46:41 AM   
MaryT


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Status: offline 		Not my bag, but whatever floats your boat ...

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RE: Fre Labor or D/s - 1/14/2007 7:49:22 AM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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Status: offline 		we make no bones about what we seek,to live here on the circle c you will work as hard as we do if not harder and if neccessary you will hold out side employment.NO free rides here,we are blue collar hard working folks and expect ours to be the same...william

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RE: Fre Labor or D/s - 1/14/2007 7:53:35 AM   
demistress


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Status: offline 		I have always wondered why in this lifestyle that is supposed to be about freedom of choice would so many people choose to condemn those who are upfront and honest about what they have/want/need etc. 

I have men contacting me constantly asking if they can come serve me, clean my house, etc.  Some are truely sincere, and would be happy just doing that, but MOST are full of BS and see it as a way to 'get in the door' to more.  Man are they disappointed and pissed if I accept their offer at face value.  LOL

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RE: Fre Labor or D/s - 1/14/2007 9:13:58 AM   
MistressMelissa


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Status: offline 		Greetings Bubblicious,

BDSM is a very wide umbrella. One segment that is often misunderstood is the service sub/slave. While the vast majority believe this lifestyle is about leather and kink, both of which I thoroughly enjoy, some want something more. They find it in service. There is an old saying "that it's better to give, than receive". The thought being that the act of giving, brings us more pleasure than receiving a gift. There are many in this world that wish to be of use, rather than being used. Honestly, there are not enough details in this post to know. Since they are suppling "slave quarters" they are making an effort to provide what appears to be a Ds environment.

There are slaves, granted a very select few, who seek service above sex and who wish nothing more than to live life in a structured environment at the will of an owner. They find freedom and peace in this style of life. That the "owner" should benefit from this arrangement I see no issue.

So while a slave might clean my house and cook my meals, they are provided with housing, food, clothing, a safe environment to be a slave. Then there is the dungeon for my relaxation.

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RE: Fre Labor or D/s - 1/14/2007 9:51:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Bubblicious
can someoe tell me the differance in wanting free labor as opposed to a D/s relationship


Intent behind the actions.

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