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RE: love - 1/25/2007 7:37:53 PM

beltainefaerie

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I'm not a master (Mistress, though, when I'm feeling dominant), but wanted to put my 2 cents in. I find that it is my love that motivates me to punish/shape behaviour. While I do enjoy just giving a good beating for the fun of it, there is something special about corrective measures given in love.

As a submissive, I often feel more loved after being punished, when it was necessary, than if the person were to let behaviours slide. I feel loved and cherished to be worthy of the time and effort to reshape my behaviours/attitudes, etc. I hope that makes sense.

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RE: love - 1/25/2007 9:39:13 PM

AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: MasterHXB

Do you let your feelings of love for your female slave get in the way of controlling her and punishing her.

I asked my dominant this question. He said no and then with a smile "That's a silly sort of question."

If he didn't love me, I doubt he would have any interest at all in being my dominant.

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