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HatesParisHilton -> RE: pics of slave's (1/30/2007 3:39:41 PM)
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visual judgement is gonna happen anyway, online or at "first meet". Yes, people should not simply go for looks, yes they should look at what is written in a profile first, but just as those points are valid, so is the fact that some of us want a certain look (not necessarily glamourous; some of us want to avoid that), or even we want to avoid meeting with someone whom looks too much like an ex and we don;t want someone new to be disappointed by "emotional detritus".
And if a woman can say, "I was with a guy that drank and smoked so if you drink or smoke, do not apply", then a guy can say, "I was with a nutbag Goth Bettie whom looked like (fill in blank), please do not apply or send a pic just so I can play it safe".
As for myself, I tried immediately to have a pic of myself on this site, it was rejected. When I have the fredom to post one that I feel is HONEST RE how I look now (and sorry, collarme, no complaints but my EYES are a big part of me and when a woman kisses you she sees your face in close up, so "no eyes to clearly"/"no close ups" means although I bow to your discretion, any pic I try to put up for sincerity's sake is gonna be rejected).
And most subs I have known feel the same way about their face and eyes, what makes apic "honest", so maybe some subs are simply sick of soing the right thing RE posting a pic and having it rejected out of protocol (again, I am NOT complaining about the pic policy of this site, merely flagging a catch 22).
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