nephandi
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Joined: 9/23/2005 From: Cold and magickal Norway in a town near Bergen! Status: offline
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The wery first time i tried to ahve anal sex, it did not work it hurt badly, we used lube and the penis went in to quikly, later we tried whiout it. i never eperience mutch pain, there is always a little discomfort whit anal sex for me, one is using a hole not meant to be used that way, and that discomfort somtimes go to mild pain, but ulness i am used so many times i am sore it is not wery painful, even whiout lube. i think it wary how flexible and willing to coperate pepoles asses are, mine is tight, but it willingly opens up to entry, a person whit a bit less willing asshole probably needs lube. It is a personal choice i think, one that pepole need to figure out on their own. As for tears, there is a chance in all anal se, lube or no, and even when answering nature`s call that one will tear in the ass, unless this tear is big enough to bleed alot it is not dangerous and will at worst cause some discomfort. Even been to the toilet and you find a little bit of blood on the tolet paper after having disposed of your waste? This means there have come a little tear somere, it happens all the time.
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