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akisha -> RE: anal? without lube? (1/9/2009 10:12:48 AM)
Oh geez I just realized this is 2 years old [sm=oops.gif][sm=bury.gif] quote: ORIGINAL: Quivver I think this is a preference thing. Like CreativeDominant said I too would guess that most want lube. In my personal experiance having tried both ways a little lube can be your friend depending on (cough) size. But too much is horrible! I'm with Quivver on this one. I little is great to ease the initial entrance but too much is just a friggin mess. Now let me reiterate though If you are not anally experienced, or you can't or don't relax easily I would never say to cheap out on the lube. In the begining I used lots, but now my body, when aroused, just automatically relaxes and becomes ready to accept anal with out too much fuss. Not every one is like that tho.

Amaros -> RE: anal? without lube? (1/9/2009 12:14:52 PM)
In some of the no lube replies, speed of entry seems to be a factor - presumably, the use of lube might result in the temptation to rush it, and this is the only reason I can think of for being dead set against it, although sensation might be a factor as well. One of my recent partners had to have it shoved right in or nothing, and I am of the opinion that this is one sex practice where one size definitely does not fit all, and preferences are highly subjective.

ViperProductions -> RE: anal? without lube? (1/9/2009 1:42:55 PM)
I don't generally go right for the anal. As a Top, I generally will perform other things with my sub, like tickle torture, oral, and vaginal, long before thinking about anal. That way, I am lubed up nicely from her natural arousal, and anal becomes more pleasurable for both of us since we're both intensely fired up already.

subboi3382 -> RE: anal? without lube? (1/10/2009 12:55:02 AM)
usually my master allows me to use lube, if i am ready and do it before he is ready. sometimes he doesnt let me use lube though and sometimes i purposely dont

Owner59 -> RE: anal? without lube? (1/10/2009 8:50:26 PM)
A little spit goes a long way.

IronBear -> RE: anal? without lube? (1/10/2009 10:42:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: willingsub18 whenever i see a pornstar having anal sex, it always appears as if there is no lube used. sure in some cases you see them use some lube, but usualy the toys or whatever is to be used, does not have any lube on it... this scares and intrigues me all at the same time[:D] Plastic surgery is such a wonderful thing these days with female porn stars toting breasts of the mammoth proportions defying the natural laws of gravity, how hard do you think it is to have four brass grease nipples modified to allow the flow of grease outwards, surgically inserted at the anal sphincter with pressure sensitive nerve endings rewired so that any dry object starts to enter, shots of the best silicon grease is emitted internally lubricating the orifice? Just means she needs regular lube jobs done to top up the reservoir of grease.

suhlut -> RE: anal? without lube? (1/10/2009 11:04:56 PM)
Reading this thread brings tears to my eyes.. lol Seriously though, it brings back to mind a time awhile back that one of my lovers did a "sneak attack" from vaginal, right wham, into anal. It rests in my mind as one of the single most painful times in my life, I screamed at the ripping pain, before very nearly passing out.. But once I got my bearings, that lover got punched in his face..and a screaching end to his fun. So, no thanks.. never again! (well.. hrm.. maybe?) Not to say that I don't enjoy anal sex now, because I do, but, for me, it needs to start out nice and slow and with LUBE. Not too much, not too lil, just enough so that he can ease it in and let my body adjust. And thats the point, a girl should be given plenty of time to adjust, and relax, and it really doesnt take that long, before speeding back up nice n fast is possible. mmm hmm..

pdv99 -> RE: anal? without lube? (1/11/2009 3:49:11 AM)
Well - health and safety warning - (yep, I'm a Brit) - anal without ANY lubrication can cause some internal injuries, so only do it if you are prepared to live with them for a while afterwards...but what that lubricant might be and whether it's applied to insertable, or ass, or both is pretty open - an ass isn't a pussy, so won't lube itself, (unless my anatomy is a bit outdated), but if there's a wet pussy available nearby, I find popping in there can provide enough lubrication without bottles of goo. A relaxed subject also reduces the lubrication needed. Of course if it's my own ass on the line, plenty of science's finest slippy stuff on both surfaces is called for please.

MistressRouge -> RE: anal? without lube? (1/11/2009 4:04:10 AM)
Friction pain, is a sensation many enjoy, so lube is just a "nice" option, for a more comfortable violation [:D]

RainydayNE -> RE: anal? without lube? (1/11/2009 4:09:09 AM)
have i ever replied to this? i can't remmeber, it's early as far as no lube goes, it sounds a little scary and a little intriguing. there was one "accident" that i haphazardly caused by shifting position in the dark and not making him aware that i'd done it =p and well i just remember this blinding whiteness and not hearing anything even though he said i was screaming my head off =p but then weirdly enough, it turned into this insanely glorious sensation, and i felt like i'd had about 7 JD and Cokes it was and shall always remain an accident; turned out okay in the end, but it was indeed an accident. stupidly awesome, though. RIDICULOUSLY awesome. but that experience makes the "idea" of lubeless anal intriguing to me, but i don't know if i could be useful for that and be aware of it =p if i was aware of it, i'd probably freak out too much. =p i find plenty of sensation in regular "pro-lube anal" so i'm not in any hurry for any change, though if it was an interest of his, that would be different. anyway, i noticed some new sort of "automatic relaxation" the other day after various activies, like akisha refered to in her post. i'd never noticed it before so who knows. i suppose, as with anything, experience makes things easier. i guess as long as you know what you're doing, and you've got your body figured out, you can get away with alot of things =p the only thing i'd be concerned with would be tearing/internal injury, since i assume the interesting "owiness" is part of the allure. we really don't hear about fistulas much over here, but lots of rape victims in the Sudan and such suffer with them afterwards. not saying lubeless anal is automatically akin to rape, just that as EVERYONE (hopefully) knows, not every person is sturdily built, some people can be hurt by simple things, some can take a bullet and keep on going. =p something may work perfectly fine with one person but not at all with another, blah blah blah, etc etc etc. there are lots of creepy things that can happen to your body (prolapse, fistula, etc etc) but as long as you're aware of the risks, whatever works works, i guess =p

eyesopened -> RE: anal? without lube? (1/11/2009 4:30:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: willingsub18 whenever i see a pornstar having anal sex...... Whenever I see a movie where someone catches a bullet with their bare hands I wonder if this could be safe. sigh Porn movies are not documentaries. They are, um, movies. Complete with special effects that even someone with moderate experience with Photoshop could create. sigh

Icarys -> RE: anal? without lube? (1/11/2009 4:54:27 AM)
quote: her enjoyment Confused[sm=dunno.gif]?

FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: anal? without lube? (1/11/2009 6:54:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RainydayNE as far as no lube goes, it sounds a little scary and a little intriguing. there was one "accident" that i haphazardly caused by shifting position in the dark and not making him aware that i'd done it =p and well i just remember this blinding whiteness and not hearing anything even though he said i was screaming my head off =p [sm=rofl.gif] quote: but if there's a wet pussy available nearby, I find popping in there can provide enough lubrication without bottles of goo Rough talk from a brit, isn't this? where's the little face with the dropped jaw expression? M

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