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ORIGINAL: ADomDoc

HOW DOES YOUR DOM/ME RATE?
based on the ABC News Poll

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SCORING
1 = Needs Significant Attention        2 = Needs Some Attention    3 = Almost Acceptable
4 = Acceptable
5 = More Than Acceptable                6 = Strength                            7 = Significant Strength

quote:

ORIGINAL: ADomDoc

HOW DOES YOUR DOM/ME RATE?
based on the ABC News Poll

SCORING
1 = Needs Significant Attention        2 = Needs Some Attention    3 = Almost Acceptable
4 = Acceptable
5 = More Than Acceptable                6 = Strength                            7 = Significant Strength

Communication & Listening
Is patient with household members                  7
Takes time to have personal conversations      7

Problem Solving
Solves problems without getting angry or keeping silent   6

Fair Partnership & Respect
Shares & distributes home chores fairly                            N/A

Demonstrates Concern & Caring
Says "I love you" (or equivalent mutually valued phrase) often enough      7
Uses a kind voice when speaking                                                                6
Talks with household members about their important events & activitives   N/A

Integrity
Keeps promises                                                                                                       6
Apologizes when he/she has done something wrong or has hurt others' feelings    N/A

Sense of Purpose
Helps create enjoyable household traditions & rituals       5
Demonstrates responsibility & accountability                   6

Compliments, Builds, Encourages
Compliments household members for their personal achievements                                                       7
Encourages household members to keep trying when they are having trouble accomplishing a task    6

Additional Questions
List 3-5 things you appreciate most about this Dom/me:
1) pushes me to achieve my full potential
2) understands when i'm having a bad day
3) there when i need a shoulder to cry on
4) is a one-daughter type of Dom
5) thinks i'm sexy inside as well as outside

List 2 things you want this Dom/me to do less (or stop doing):
1)
2)

What counts
Is your Dom/me willing to take this feedback & take personal changes to improve the relationship?  no need for improvement in our relationship
Show him/her & find out.

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