RobertCloud -> RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? (1/20/2007 8:03:38 PM)
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross quote:
ORIGINAL: RobertCloud Little girls (Koukei and dancingjade), I am one Dominant that will pass you by, will not speak to you, will block you, will think I am lucky that two pieces of TRASH like you did not come my way because it is obvious you have more concern about yourself than the lifestyle or the weak dominants that you supposedly serve because they will most assuredly allow you to top them with your attitudes. Good day, So you find the best thing to do is respond with EXACTLY the inappropriate and immature behavior you place upon them? I will never understand doms who feel it's somehow appropriate to suggest they spank/beat subs just because they dislike them or find them immature. I can only think it's because they have no other method of coping or working out their issues except direct physical violence and somehow feel more dominant by making such statements. I remember I was once told I needed a harsh spanking because I wouldn't call a dom sir in a chat room. Okay, maybe you missed my point.. I have no problem with submissives or slaves of any nature. The problem I have is that the profiles of these two and the attitude that they have shown is that they show themselves to be neither. They are in the lifestyle for the kink as someone else has stated and that I do not mind, but I hate it when they claim to be something they are not. That is when I go into the mode I have demonstrated. Show them what submission can be like, teach them the depth of the deepest submission and either let them decide it is for them and they are submissive or that it is not for them and let them call themselves what they truly are, kinksters. Which is fine, but don't pretend. I have no problem with someone not calling me Sir, or anything because they do not know me and I have yet to earn their respect. I do not believe respect is given, it is earned. You can show courtesy, you earn respect. It does not bother me, and I accept that from those that feel that Sir and Ma'am are part of respect to be earned, others feel that it is part of a courtesy to be given, I accept that as well, whatever is the way you feel about it that is fine, I am not your Dominant or Master to determine how you should address others. My little one will show courtesy when I have a little one. Now on that topic a moment.... lol.... I have always found it rude and annoying when people put the title in their name. I know it is their right to choose whatever name they wish. However, it is rude to expect someone such as a slave to call them by their full name if their Master has ruled that the only person they call Master is their own Master. So if someone has Master or Mistress in their name, and a slave's Master has ruled she can only call her Master "Master" then she would be breaking his command if she were to address this other person by their full name. She has no choice but to drop the title and call them Sir or Ma'am and then that person gets mad because she is obeying her Master. It is the same thing with all Titles in Names, I just don't see the point.. lol.. but then again, I am not the person doing it, and I did do it at one time, but later dropped it when I realized it was kind of super arrogant of me.
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