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New Female Sub In OH - 1/17/2007 12:29:49 PM   
wyldsubmissive


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Well, kind've new. I started out reading Jacqueline Carey's Kushiel series (Kushiel's Dart, Kushiel's Chosen, Kushiel's Avatar) and realised I was masochistic. Thereafter I went onto a website, started calling some guy my dom and... It went downhill from there. He gave me 3 tasks:

1. Wear my underwear inside myself all day.
    Easy enough to do, so I did. Enjoyed it.
2. Pierce my nipples with safety pins, take pics and show him.
   This is where the warning bell should've dinged. I decided to get them professionally done because if I'm going to
    mutilate my flesh it better be safe.
3. Put an uncooked egg in my vagina, wear my underwear in my ass and place a 5' long 3lb. chain on my newly pierced
    nipples.
    This is where I drew the line, great big long one, in the sand. I consulted my vanilla and BDSM buddies; all told me
    the same thing: bad plan.

So I politely thanked him for the experience, left and went to a Yahoo! chat. A guy by the name of russmeister (also his CM name) told me I should be in CM, and that began my search. I started out with a very specific profile, and after browsing my friends list I saw a dom had added me but never sent me a message. I wrote him, and the rest as they say is history.

Save for the fact that here I am almost two years later... I no longer viewed that man as my dom, nor my Mate. Just a really good friend. And now I hunt once more... After all I am...

The Wyld Submissive
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RE: New Female Sub In OH - 1/17/2007 12:46:33 PM   
bardtothebone


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Sorry to hear of your bad experiences, Wyld. The people here
are rather less unbalanced, but seek out your fellow subs and
get some advice on whom to trust. They've been there, done that
and washed the T-shirt, and their experience and counsel could
save you a lot of undeserved pain.

Be happy, be careful,

The Bard.


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"Always do right. This will gratify some people and astonish the rest."' Mark Twain.

Why the Ice Cream? Read this...

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RE: New Female Sub In OH - 1/17/2007 7:12:34 PM   
CelticPrince


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wyld,

unfortunately you came upon a newby Dom that thought is was all about orders etc.

Be patient, at 19 you have a ton of time to wait and be cautious.

Good Fortune!

CP

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RE: New Female Sub In OH - 1/17/2007 7:15:52 PM   
bandit25


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It seems like your instincts are working well.  Keep on following them.

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RE: New Female Sub In OH - 1/18/2007 10:31:08 PM   
Jobsdone


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quote:

ORIGINAL: wyldsubmissive

Well, kind've new. I started out reading Jacqueline Carey's Kushiel series (Kushiel's Dart, Kushiel's Chosen, Kushiel's Avatar) and realised I was masochistic. Thereafter I went onto a website, started calling some guy my dom and... It went downhill from there. He gave me 3 tasks:

1. Wear my underwear inside myself all day.
    Easy enough to do, so I did. Enjoyed it.
2. Pierce my nipples with safety pins, take pics and show him.
   This is where the warning bell should've dinged. I decided to get them professionally done because if I'm going to
    mutilate my flesh it better be safe.
3. Put an uncooked egg in my vagina, wear my underwear in my ass and place a 5' long 3lb. chain on my newly pierced
    nipples.
    This is where I drew the line, great big long one, in the sand. I consulted my vanilla and BDSM buddies; all told me
    the same thing: bad plan.

So I politely thanked him for the experience, left and went to a Yahoo! chat. A guy by the name of russmeister (also his CM name) told me I should be in CM, and that began my search. I started out with a very specific profile, and after browsing my friends list I saw a dom had added me but never sent me a message. I wrote him, and the rest as they say is history.

Save for the fact that here I am almost two years later... I no longer viewed that man as my dom, nor my Mate. Just a really good friend. And now I hunt once more... After all I am...

The Wyld Submissive


I have to smile because you seem wonderfully impatient. I believe it's going to be a wildly impetuous ride. Slow your a roll a bit. Seek the opinions of others at the "dance". Follow your heart. Times on your side. Welcome to the board.

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slaps and tickles,

Jobsdone

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RE: New Female Sub In OH - 1/22/2007 10:13:05 PM   
hardspanker70


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welcome to the site.  im a pretty experienced kinky and open minded dom but where in the hell did the egg idea come from?  did he just watch cool hand luke?  good move passing on that idea.  if you want to correspond with a sane dom feel free to email me.  take care and good luck.

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