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GrizzlyBear -> RE: Actual Punishments-Not Defining it... (1/22/2007 12:18:19 PM)

Spend a few hours kneeling in the corner, hands bound behind back, being ignored.  Rice under the knees, or perhaps a washboard, can add something extra as a reminder of their offense.

Instead of sleeping in my bed, or on the thick pad at the foot of it, with a nice warm comforter and pillow, they sleep in a cramped cage in the cold basement, with a hard floor, a thin blanket, and no pillow.

Of course these would not work with any sub who actually liked them...



MasterBKM -> RE: Actual Punishments-Not Defining it... (1/22/2007 1:31:25 PM)

very usefull info



CollaredCat -> RE: Actual Punishments-Not Defining it... (1/22/2007 2:41:15 PM)

My former Master used the terms discipline and atonement rather than punishment. I much prefered those as they emphasized to me that my actions were mistakes or errors that needed to be corrected not bad deeds that needed to be punished. It's the attitude I take with my slave now.

IMO if you need extreme punishments in an attempt to correct repeated offenses, there is something seriously wrong with the dynamic of the relationship. I prefer that my slave WANTS to please me.

Something else was mentioned about the problem being not paying attention or getting distracted, losing focus. There is a very good book on Adult Attention Deficit Disorder that has some wonderful coping / correction mechanisms which perhaps could address the underlying problem.




RedSavageSlave -> RE: Actual Punishments-Not Defining it... (1/22/2007 6:10:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

I think there can be no more extreme punishment than serving someone who is so clueless as to give you the quest you are currently on. 


<snickers> so glad someone else thought of this



LeatherBentOne -> RE: Actual Punishments-Not Defining it... (1/23/2007 4:35:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CollaredCat

My former Master used the terms discipline and atonement rather than punishment. I much prefered those as they emphasized to me that my actions were mistakes or errors that needed to be corrected not bad deeds that needed to be punished. It's the attitude I take with my slave now.

IMO if you need extreme punishments in an attempt to correct repeated offenses, there is something seriously wrong with the dynamic of the relationship. I prefer that my slave WANTS to please me.

Something else was mentioned about the problem being not paying attention or getting distracted, losing focus. There is a very good book on Adult Attention Deficit Disorder that has some wonderful coping / correction mechanisms which perhaps could address the underlying problem.




Would you mind posting the name of the book you mentioned regarding Adult Attention Deficit Disorders?

My sub has been "officially" dignosed with ADHD about a year ago at my suggestion.  She is taking medication, practising yoga and attenting relaxation classes.  All the credit to her, she has made remarkable improvements and Im hoping this book includes tips for me to make this process more effective and easier for both of us.

Thanks for introducing the ADD factor. 

LBO



goodpet -> RE: Actual Punishments-Not Defining it... (1/29/2007 5:18:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

Hand write in #2 pencil every post made on one day at CM while kneeling on uncooked rice.

If you are really bad you have to correct all the spelling and grammar errors too.


Oh, thaet just, krossed the line to adbusive!



RavenMuse -> RE: Actual Punishments-Not Defining it... (1/29/2007 5:26:15 PM)

Worst 'punishments'?... if she is a girl who has truely submitted, nothing will punish her worse than the gut wrenching realisation that she has truely disapointed her Master. Sometimes the Master has to give her somekind of cathartic event to stop her emotionaly tearing herself apart for having failed him badly enough to disapoint Him to that degree.

If she really gets THAT bad............. Dismissal!
If she learns from it then just maybe she will make her NEXT Master happy.

Don't go looking to earn punishments... they might be worse that you could deal with and NOT in a manner you will consider fun or will 'scratch your fetish itch"!



windchymes -> RE: Actual Punishments-Not Defining it... (1/29/2007 5:31:15 PM)

What about being forced to read every CM thread from start to finish and then composing a reply to each.  Or would that just be too inhumane for even the most masochistic masochist?



goodpet -> RE: Actual Punishments-Not Defining it... (1/29/2007 5:32:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
I have to admit I'm often stunned to hear of people making elaborate punishments and wondering what on earth it has to do with whatever behavior they are attempting to change?  Life is too short, punishment is a dismal enough affair that makes me doubt, revise, re-plan and do a lot of clean up already.  Why make the actual punishment any longer than absolutely necessary?

Also- I have to wonder about being in relationships that require so many different punishments.  Are the slaves really so ill-behaved and unable to discipline their behavior?

But then I think a lot of people have a kink for punishments or enjoy "punishments as play" which would explain the circumstances.


I'm with you on this one LA, i don't understand the need for lots of punishment, nor do i understand the subs who seek out punishment (real punishment, not a play scene).







RavenMuse -> RE: Actual Punishments-Not Defining it... (1/29/2007 5:32:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CollaredCat

My former Master used the terms discipline and atonement rather than punishment. I much prefered those as they emphasized to me that my actions were mistakes or errors that needed to be corrected not bad deeds that needed to be punished. It's the attitude I take with my slave now.

IMO if you need extreme punishments in an attempt to correct repeated offenses, there is something seriously wrong with the dynamic of the relationship. I prefer that my slave WANTS to please me.


Tis by far the best aproach... certainly for My style and nature.If My girl wants the cane or whatever, she can ask or beg... if I am in the mood I might just indulge her.... what she doesn't do is misbehave in order to control Me in getting Me to give her what she wants. Misbehaviour gets DISCIPLINE (Which starts with communicating about what happened, why it happened and what is going to be done to avoid it happening again) not punishment..... and if behaviour is consistantly bad with no effort to improve..... dismissal starts to be a viable final option in the approach to that discipline.



lighthearted -> RE: Actual Punishments-Not Defining it... (1/29/2007 5:47:59 PM)

I had to eat sushi.  I hate sushi.  it worked.



windchymes -> RE: Actual Punishments-Not Defining it... (1/29/2007 6:08:36 PM)

Eww, gawd.  Now THAT'S punishment![:D]



DavidsBabyGirl -> RE: Actual Punishments-Not Defining it... (1/29/2007 6:24:19 PM)

Worst punishment?  I totally agree with the following.  When daddy is disappointed with me, i couldnt feel worse. I love pleasing daddy. His happiness, his smile, and his affection are my daily rewards. His distance, quietness, and overall disappointment in me is more torture than anything he could make me do as a punishment. Granted, some stuff i hate to do, but it doesnt touch my heart and soul like the way his disappointment does.

quote:

ORIGINAL: RavenMuse

Worst 'punishments'?... if she is a girl who has truely submitted, nothing will punish her worse than the gut wrenching realisation that she has truely disapointed her Master. Sometimes the Master has to give her somekind of cathartic event to stop her emotionaly tearing herself apart for having failed him badly enough to disapoint Him to that degree.

If she really gets THAT bad............. Dismissal!
If she learns from it then just maybe she will make her NEXT Master happy.

Don't go looking to earn punishments... they might be worse that you could deal with and NOT in a manner you will consider fun or will 'scratch your fetish itch"!




Archer -> RE: Actual Punishments-Not Defining it... (1/29/2007 9:04:19 PM)

Simple severe punishment is loss of all but subsistance level life.
Bland food diet
Perform all chores with technology circa 1850

When term is over they might realize just how good they have it.

But then again I'm a mean man





SirDarkside357 -> RE: Actual Punishments-Not Defining it... (1/30/2007 12:30:07 AM)

Punishments in what sense?  Actual punishment for wrongs done, or punishments as a form of play?  For wrongs done, why get creative?  It's not suppose to be fun.  If it's for fun, it's not really punishment, no matter how much pain or discomfort it causes.  Let your mind open up. I'm sure your Master would prefer they come from you..... I know I would.

Darkside



eyesopened -> RE: Actual Punishments-Not Defining it... (1/30/2007 2:32:47 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: aSlavesLife

I try to tailor the punishment to fit the transgression,  and also use a lot of humiliation and objectification to drive home a point.  But here are a few generic ideas.

6. Make her watch Teletubbies for 6 hours straight.
 
8. Force her to masturbate while listening to William Shatner songs.
 


i hope to all gods that i am never, ever, that bad.



blinkingababy -> RE: Actual Punishments-Not Defining it... (1/31/2007 1:38:43 PM)

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blinkingababy -> RE: Actual Punishments-Not Defining it... (1/31/2007 1:43:56 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: aSlavesLife

I try to tailor the punishment to fit the transgression,  and also use a lot of humiliation and objectification to drive home a point.  But here are a few generic ideas.
 

 
6. Make her watch Teletubbies for 6 hours straight.

 
8. Force her to masturbate while listening to William Shatner songs.
 

 
 



those are by far the worst punishments I have ever seen or heard of...besides the dressing badly for a year...:( ...... those are just crule and unusual...



SlaveSubtoserve -> RE: Actual Punishments-Not Defining it... (1/31/2007 2:25:21 PM)

Shackle her, bit gag her and place her in small cage in basement.
Allow her out every morning to clean all floors while shackled wrist to ankles with the Stockman toothbrush attachment.
Put her through one hour per day of forced exercise, push-ups, etc. while shackled.
Allow her 3 bathroom visits per day.
Require her to take an arctic shower/bath daily.
Modify her diet to comprise solely of very basic foodstuff and liquids mixed as you wish.
Keep her shackled and caged with air permeable covering over cage.
Modify temperature as desired in area.
Continue for as long as necessary .......



CollaredCat -> RE: Actual Punishments-Not Defining it... (2/1/2007 1:15:05 PM)

The book is 'Driven to Distraction' (Recognizing and Coping with Attention Deficit Disorder from Childhood through Adulthood) by Edward M. Hallowell, MD and John J Ratey, MD.

It was very informative and I appreciated the fact that they don't advocate the 'only one way is the right way' approach. I hope you find it useful.



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