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Advice for lonely men lol - 1/18/2007 3:25:38 PM   
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The volunteers first looked at photographs of four young men wearing neutral expressions and looking directly at the camera.
The men were shown in pairs, and the women had to judge which of the two was the more attractive, apportioning their preference a score on an eight-point scale.
The same faces were shown again to the volunteers. This time, though, the male faces were flanked by a female face -- a woman, shown in profile, who either looked neutrally at the man or smiled at him.
After this, the volunteers took another look at the paired faces, as in the first step of the experiment, and were asked to give another attractiveness rating.
Many of them revised sharply downward their initial grading of the man, by more than 10 percent on average, if his picture had been next to a woman with a neutral expression.
But they sharply revised upwards their grading, finding the man more attractive by an average of at least 15 percent, if the woman looking at him had a smile on her face.
But the reverse held true for men, the researchers found.
Twenty-eight young men volunteers took part in the same experiment -- and their rating of the likeability of the male faces plummeted if the man was being smiled at by a woman.
But if the woman had a neutral look, the rating went up.

So who of you guys is gonna be paying some women to smile at him?


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RE: Advice for lonely men lol - 1/18/2007 6:36:03 PM   
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Makes complete sense though, just like taken individuals can be perceived as more attractive than singles, for the mere fact that they're getting more (positive) attention.


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RE: Advice for lonely men lol - 1/18/2007 6:39:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't even have to pay.  When I walk into the room, women actually burst out laughing.  No idea why, but I think I should be a comedian.

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RE: Advice for lonely men lol - 1/18/2007 6:45:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		LOL, how many women go after guys whom have a woman all over him at the pub, then the next night he's there alone and no chick will even glance at him?

Thanks for the post, just proves women are just as messed up as lads, just in different ways, but all is equaly fair and unfair, brillaint and rock fucking stupid.

I once hung out with a film guy doing  a film experiment in which he approached women in the same pub on 2 nights, a friday and then the friday AFTER that, forst nigh wearing glasses and dressed "not that much $", then the next week, contact lenses and higher end clothing.

same club.

two women on the first night that he spoke to over 15 minutes?  same kina women that bitch about a guy not recalling their name or only looking at their "attributes"?  They couldn't get away from him fast enough.

They were back on night 2, when he had no glasses and his clothes said "I got money".

Same 2 chicks spoke to him and flirted for over FORTY MINUTES EACH.

SLAGS.

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RE: Advice for lonely men lol - 1/18/2007 7:04:47 PM   
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LOL, how many women go after guys whom have a woman all over him at the pub, then the next night he's there alone and no chick will even glance at him?

Thanks for the post, just proves women are just as messed up as lads, just in different ways, but all is equaly fair and unfair, brillaint and rock fucking stupid.

I once hung out with a film guy doing  a film experiment in which he approached women in the same pub on 2 nights, a friday and then the friday AFTER that, forst nigh wearing glasses and dressed "not that much $", then the next week, contact lenses and higher end clothing.

same club.

two women on the first night that he spoke to over 15 minutes?  same kina women that bitch about a guy not recalling their name or only looking at their "attributes"?  They couldn't get away from him fast enough.

They were back on night 2, when he had no glasses and his clothes said "I got money".

Same 2 chicks spoke to him and flirted for over FORTY MINUTES EACH.

SLAGS.

Memetics is not a soft science, it's a REALITY.


Oh, don't blame them.  They've just been brainwashed by modern culture and given the gift of tunnel vision.  They can't help it.


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RE: Advice for lonely men lol - 1/18/2007 7:10:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: deathitivity

quote:

ORIGINAL: HatesParisHilton

LOL, how many women go after guys whom have a woman all over him at the pub, then the next night he's there alone and no chick will even glance at him?

Thanks for the post, just proves women are just as messed up as lads, just in different ways, but all is equaly fair and unfair, brillaint and rock fucking stupid.

I once hung out with a film guy doing  a film experiment in which he approached women in the same pub on 2 nights, a friday and then the friday AFTER that, forst nigh wearing glasses and dressed "not that much $", then the next week, contact lenses and higher end clothing.

same club.

two women on the first night that he spoke to over 15 minutes?  same kina women that bitch about a guy not recalling their name or only looking at their "attributes"?  They couldn't get away from him fast enough.

They were back on night 2, when he had no glasses and his clothes said "I got money".

Same 2 chicks spoke to him and flirted for over FORTY MINUTES EACH.

SLAGS.

Memetics is not a soft science, it's a REALITY.


Oh, don't blame them.  They've just been brainwashed by modern culture and given the gift of tunnel vision.  They can't help it.



How come it's always the nerdy, no money losers that say this? 

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RE: Advice for lonely men lol - 1/18/2007 7:16:30 PM   
HatesParisHilton


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Status: offline 		how come it's always the chicks that have "
I'm unavailable
and
I'm not looking.
I don't accept chat invites.


My visits here are strictly for the message boards and the people that I've met over there. 
 
That say what YOU SAID?  HA HA HA!
 
Also, how do you know anyone is nerdy and no money?
 
how do we know you actually are not married to a vanilla and not 250 lbs, over 60 years old etc.?


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RE: Advice for lonely men lol - 1/18/2007 7:24:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

quote:

ORIGINAL: deathitivity

quote:

ORIGINAL: HatesParisHilton

LOL, how many women go after guys whom have a woman all over him at the pub, then the next night he's there alone and no chick will even glance at him?

Thanks for the post, just proves women are just as messed up as lads, just in different ways, but all is equaly fair and unfair, brillaint and rock fucking stupid.

I once hung out with a film guy doing  a film experiment in which he approached women in the same pub on 2 nights, a friday and then the friday AFTER that, forst nigh wearing glasses and dressed "not that much $", then the next week, contact lenses and higher end clothing.

same club.

two women on the first night that he spoke to over 15 minutes?  same kina women that bitch about a guy not recalling their name or only looking at their "attributes"?  They couldn't get away from him fast enough.

They were back on night 2, when he had no glasses and his clothes said "I got money".

Same 2 chicks spoke to him and flirted for over FORTY MINUTES EACH.

SLAGS.

Memetics is not a soft science, it's a REALITY.


Oh, don't blame them.  They've just been brainwashed by modern culture and given the gift of tunnel vision.  They can't help it.



How come it's always the nerdy, no money losers that say this? 


Sorry, can't help it.  I've been brainwashed too.


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RE: Advice for lonely men lol - 1/18/2007 7:31:09 PM   
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RE: Advice for lonely men lol - 1/18/2007 7:39:50 PM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		Hey...that profile took me hours and hours to write.
I could have just said  "Fuck off"
You did see my wink after my words up there, right?

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RE: Advice for lonely men lol - 1/18/2007 7:44:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

I don't even have to pay.  When I walk into the room, women actually burst out laughing.  No idea why, but I think I should be a comedian.

Yours,


benji


My first sub posted once that she had never laughed as hard or as long as she did around me.

I responded that looks are not everything, and the it was difficult finding a submissive who was
accepting of the goofball I am.

Sinergy 

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RE: Advice for lonely men lol - 1/18/2007 7:46:37 PM   
HatesParisHilton


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Status: offline 		yes I saw the wink, but I'm older than you and been online long enough to know that winks are often abused in order to "snark", which is to make a slagging/put down comment then add an emoticon just to say "I can get away with this because I added an emoticon".

which you may or may not have been doing, we cannot tell.  That is a pitfall of the net.

Also there is no way to verify how desirable you might be in counterbalance to "nerdy/no $ in pocket" males etc.

So I am not slamming you, but I am flagging (to stay within context of this thread) that what you PRESENT in your profile means nothing RE reality, that there is a discrepancy and wide berth between reality and PERCEIVED reality, which is all about what the OP posted.

and RE what I posted in return.

fair enough?


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RE: Advice for lonely men lol - 1/18/2007 7:49:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		by the way, Sinergy, are you gonna reply to poor ol' reamer in his streetwalker thread, since he wrote a nice big ol' hulkin' honest reply from the heart to you?
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Or are you gonna just let that one slide?

which in many ways is on topic for THIS thread...  LOL

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RE: Advice for lonely men lol - 1/18/2007 7:57:19 PM   
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by the way, Sinergy, are you gonna reply to poor ol' reamer in his streetwalker thread, since he wrote a nice big ol' hulkin' honest reply from the heart to you?
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Or are you gonna just let that one slide?

which in many ways is on topic for THIS thread...  LOL


I have not read it, HatesParisHilton.

My whole life/real job thing sometimes prevents me from responding in a timely manner.

Sinergy

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RE: Advice for lonely men lol - 1/18/2007 8:16:34 PM   
HatesParisHilton


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Status: offline 		well, I see that you've read it and replied.

so you know from what he said, SO DOES HIS JOB.

as does mine.


so fairplay and alla that.

but you replied and in a very fair genteel manner, so I applaud you.  well done.

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RE: Advice for lonely men lol - 1/19/2007 3:18:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: HatesParisHilton

LOL, how many women go after guys whom have a woman all over him at the pub, then the next night he's there alone and no chick will even glance at him?

Thanks for the post, just proves women are just as messed up as lads, just in different ways, but all is equaly fair and unfair, brillaint and rock fucking stupid.

I once hung out with a film guy doing  a film experiment in which he approached women in the same pub on 2 nights, a friday and then the friday AFTER that, forst nigh wearing glasses and dressed "not that much $", then the next week, contact lenses and higher end clothing.

same club.

two women on the first night that he spoke to over 15 minutes?  same kina women that bitch about a guy not recalling their name or only looking at their "attributes"?  They couldn't get away from him fast enough.

They were back on night 2, when he had no glasses and his clothes said "I got money".

Same 2 chicks spoke to him and flirted for over FORTY MINUTES EACH.

SLAGS.

Memetics is not a soft science, it's a REALITY.


I'm a little shocked but i have to agree with you here. I once chatted to a guy in a club, scruffy hair, glasses, not well dressed and cudnt get away fast enough. A few weeks later said guy was in my bed bcos hed smartened up his appearance etc etc. In fact i hadnt even recognised him at first. So i believe you do have a fair point.
However it doesnt make me a slag ..... or does it?

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RE: Advice for lonely men lol - 1/19/2007 3:19:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

I don't even have to pay.  When I walk into the room, women actually burst out laughing.  No idea why, but I think I should be a comedian.

Yours,


benji


I don't even have to see you to laugh at you. I  smile when i see your posts and usually end up giggling when i read them.

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RE: Advice for lonely men lol - 1/19/2007 3:26:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		I responded that looks are not everything, and the it was difficult finding a submissive who was
accepting of the goofball I am.

I agree looks aren't everything but i have to say that i am far more willing to talk in a club or whatever to a guy i consider good looking that i am a guy who i consider not. In a club our first means of gaining opinion of  someone is by how they look and i think everyone does it. Now on the internet all that changes if a person doesnt have a picture. You can only gain opinion by what they type etc. You have the luck of getting to know them as a person rather than by what they look like. Ive heard of singles nights where everyone sits in the dark so you cant see who you are talking to and think they are a great idea. I dont like to be judged for how i look but accept that it happens and nothing will change that.

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RE: Advice for lonely men lol - 1/25/2007 5:03:51 AM   
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RE: Advice for lonely men lol - 1/25/2007 7:15:03 AM   
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