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RE: Is BDSM play sexual ? Yes or no - 1/22/2007 7:02:39 AM

LadyEllen

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ORIGINAL: Gauge

BDSM play is only sexual when it involves a large bucket of chicken from KFC. At least that was what I read in this month's issue of "Ground Control to Major Dom"

Gauge, as ever you are a source of inspiration to me!

Now to write new lyrics to the Bowie song.......!

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RE: Is BDSM play sexual ? Yes or no - 1/22/2007 8:15:48 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

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ORIGINAL: Gauge

BDSM play is only sexual when it involves a large bucket of chicken from KFC. At least that was what I read in this month's issue of "Ground Control to Major Dom"

Gauge, as ever you are a source of inspiration to me!

Now to write new lyrics to the Bowie song.......!

E

*Shakes head* That's unsolicited humor in the "Polls and Random Stupidity" Section, you two. Not cool. For that, you both get a banana.

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RE: Is BDSM play sexual ? Yes or no - 1/23/2007 12:21:19 PM

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It's a question where the answer is both yes and no, depending on the one answering.

For me, personally, no it is not sexual. I get no sexual pleasure from any aspect of my play.

Receiving physical pain play causes a "runner's high" for me and/or relaxation of the sort a good massage gives, I don't get turned on or any sexual stimulation from it. The opposite is true: when indulging in my masochism any sexual contact is absolutely repulsive to me.

Topping someone else is the same, I can enjoy the control and the creativity involved in alterring their sensations and mindstate, but there is no sexual stimulation from it for me. Again, it is the opposite; I am turned off utterly.

For me, BDSM activities are an expression of my personality and a hobby, depending on what aspect is being addressed. It's one of the few parts of my life that doesn't turn me on.

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RE: Is BDSM play sexual ? Yes or no - 1/23/2007 2:44:59 PM

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speaking only for myself; no, there is nothing sexual about it at all

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RE: Is BDSM play sexual ? Yes or no - 1/23/2007 3:25:45 PM

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hmmmmmmmmm... I've been 'around' for about 4 years now...and have played with a handfull or two of very experienced people. I'm not at all comfortable with having sex with that many people, but find the Power Exchange is a delight. I also learn a lot.

Sure...play IS more fun when sex is not excluded; but, in that I don't want to be that sexually active...I like that I can still experience BDSM, submission, the exchange of power, etc...with out it being included.

(yeah, and I still choke on the word 'slut') LOL

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