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RE: this may sound silly but I am confused - 1/22/2007 10:12:34 PM

hisannabelle

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i agree that to most, 24/7 probably means live-in. we define our relationship as 24/7 though it's not live-in, because of the fact that i am still submitting to him all of the time (or doing my best to!) and because he has full control over me, as much of it as he wishes to exercise. we are progressing towards live-in at some point.

as has already been posted...everybody has their own definition! definitely be sure to ask about things like this when you're exploring new connections, because a potential partner's definition of a 24/7 could be way off the map from yours.

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RE: this may sound silly but I am confused - 1/28/2007 2:48:40 PM

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To me 24/7 is a total and committed relationship. *Reminds myself to check with my Dom*

as He is moving here, but not here yet...and seeing that there are so many differing opinions of what it means. And remember..the only silly question is the one never asked! ~Smiles~

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RE: this may sound silly but I am confused - 1/28/2007 3:11:07 PM

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~Fast Reply~

To me, 24/7 means that I am always his kitten at any time of the day regardless of where either of us are. I realize that not everyone agrees with this.

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RE: this may sound silly but I am confused - 1/28/2007 5:43:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: thaimeeuppppp

to those of you with experience this seems stupid I am sure and I apologize.I am new to the lifestyle angle of BDSM and I have a question. When someone says they are looking for a 24/7 it seems to me they want someone in their house to attend to all their needs. Or if they say they will add you to their house it means live with them doesn't it? Or is this a code for simply being available. I just read a post from a female Domme who said she wanted a 24/7 but they needed to be discreet around her husband and children,So i got confused. I wasnt interested in finding a female Domme, I was just reading through these posts to obtain an understanding of this lifestyle.
Thank you

well when i am involed in a 24/7 vanilla relationship to me it measn that we are available to each otehr all the time.....i suppose I mean the same in a bdsm setting as well.. and there you go

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