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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/23/2007 4:41:32 PM   
Rayne58


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Master has to have His insulin around the same time each morning, so on dialysis days (Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday mornings) the alarm goes off at 6.30, other days it's 7am. I test His blood sugar, give Him 20 units of insulin and if it's a dialysis day it's a quick cuddle and kiss and then out of bed. If not we usually snuggle back down for a while. I make His breakfast and set out His meds, then sit down with a coffee and 3 crackers just to start my metabolism.

Out the door around 7.30, a few minutes drive to the hospital and up to the 4th floor where I start setting up the machine. I take His blood pressure, temperature and pulse, He weighs Himself and I write it all in His notes. After He is on the machine I will sit with Him for a while and then go home, or sometimes I get the grocery shopping out of the way. I get on the computer or watch TV, or if we've had a bad night I will go back to bed. I usually eat again about 10am.

Master is on the machine for 4 1/2 hours so I usually leave for the hospital about 20 minutes before He is due to come off. He is always glad to see me - He has a hard time with back pain but refuses meds. I disconnect Him from the machine and we will hold a spot each (where the needles go in His arm) for 10 minutes until they stop bleeding. Then I tape them with gauze/tape, the blood pressure etc is done again and then we go home to rest - He is usually very tired afterwards. Lunch when we get home, again He is served first and more meds doled out.

Afternoons He sometimes has a nap, other times He is on the computer. I will watch TV/video or read, sometimes I go to the gym if He is happy for me to do so. Blood sugar is checked regularly and more insulin given if needed. Dinner is usually about 7pm, I ask what He would like but sometimes He will just tell me to cook something and He will eat it Supper at 10.30 with yet more pills, I swear He rattles!

Much the same on other days, except we don't get up as early and sometimes have time to play before breakfast. Because I do not work outside the home we can play whenever we feel like it. Summer Saturday afternoons/evenings are taken up with Master's beloved speedway, He is on the fire/crash crew and we usually leave at about 3.30pm and don't get home until around midnight or later.

I have a woman come in for 2 hours a week to do the heavy cleaning. Oh yes I know I am spoilt but Master would rather have a well rested sub and housework is a hard limit for me - I don't mind cooking or laundry or dishes but vacuming and mopping yuk. Plus we have to be particular about cleanliness cos Master's immune system is compromised because of His illness. We would rather spend our time together doing things we enjoy

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/23/2007 4:56:36 PM   
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Our days vary quite a bit depending if Hubby is working at home or at a clients, or if it's a golf day.

Serve Him coffee in bed; make breakfast or we often go out to eat; do dishes and clean; exercise is mixed in throughout the day; make lunch and clean up; work on His company books or other aspects of His business; yard work (we live on acreage), or play golf or driving rangeor shopping; make dinner and clean up; computer games for me and tv for Him but i wait on him all evening; bed or play time or hot tub.

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/23/2007 5:53:55 PM   
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O/our typical day is that if I am not working (I do temp work) I have a list of things I need to do for the day.  For example:
6am - Get up and get ready
8am - Leave for the gym
9am - done with workout, put butt plug in
9:30 - arrive home and put cuffs on, call agency and see if they have anything for me
10:am - clean house as needed or run errands as needed
noon - go for walk down to village or to beach or both
When I am all done with this I am free to do whatever until He gets home, then I get Him a beer or drink and fix dinner and W/we watch tv.  Sometimes He will have me service Him, sometimes other ... uh...stuff
He is usually up and gone to work earlier than I am.  He will call at 6:15am (or so) to make sure I am up. 
Aside from getting up and being done with my workout, I do have leeway to move times around.  For example if one of the errands I have to run is picking up Masters clothes from the cleaners, I can swing by on my way home from the gym.  Or, for example what happened today, I was waiting for the maintenance guy to come and do some work so I did not wear my cuffs.  
On weekends W/we go out to dinner, go hiking, see friends and relatives, but He plans them, He handles all the finances so I have to ask for money for anything I want.  I do the weekly shopping, He gives me a budget.
Cordially,
minxy


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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/23/2007 6:14:21 PM   
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I wake up at 4:30 and pack my Master's lunch and his bag with his combat boots, BDUs (uniform) as well as PT uniform.  At 5 am I wake him up and and put on his socks, shoes and shorts and send him out the door with a coke in his hand.  

He calls me at 7:15 after he has PT and morning formation to tell me to get up (this doesn't happemn till about 10 or 11 though, hehe).  He leaves me a chore list on the kitchen and he secretly texts me throughout the day for updates. 

He will call when he leaves base and heads home.  I am to be showered, have makeup on and to be dressed in something nice, kneeling by the door waiting for him with dinner started.  i serve him dinner and get him drinks while he relaxes.  afterwards we watch tv, cuddle, play on the computers, etc. 

Everynow and then I am caged or we have sessions and i get some *tough* love.  At bed time I shower with him, washing his hair and body and drying him off.  We then climb in bed and I give him a massage until he falls asleep.  Then I sneak out and watch tv and chat or IM until it's time to get him up again.

And just to throw this out there ... he has been gone for 6 months and I really miss taking care of him and waiting on him (which I never thought I would).  So I am looking forward to him coming home in August so so much.

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/23/2007 6:50:22 PM   
thaimeeuppppp


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in response to mbes. Of course I am curious. I have never been in a 24/7 relationship and i do not know how people enact it

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/23/2007 6:57:23 PM   
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BabyNyla,

I and my slave would like to thank you and your Master for your dedicated service to our country.  Being a dedicated slave to a soldier is very honorable.  From two former soldiers of a distant war to a current soldier and his slave, I and my slave salute you both and wish your Master Godspeed in a safe return home from his deployment.

David and joy

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/23/2007 7:22:46 PM   
MasterGremlin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: thaimeeuppppp

WOW SLAVE GIRL JOY. you are the real thing.
I salute you for your committment



That is quite an insult for all the rest of U/us here. 

I have a question for you.  How would someone who is "new to the scene"  and "never been in a 24/7 relationship" know what the "real thing" was?
Sincerely,
minxy

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/23/2007 7:52:27 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterGremlin

quote:

ORIGINAL: thaimeeuppppp

WOW SLAVE GIRL JOY. you are the real thing.
I salute you for your committment



That is quite an insult for all the rest of U/us here. 

I have a question for you.  How would someone who is "new to the scene"  and "never been in a 24/7 relationship" know what the "real thing" was?
Sincerely,
minxy

I must agree. There is no set anything that is the "real" thing. My day consists of what needs to get done. That varies day to do. The only thing we do consistently is that I always wash him in the shower. Just because a slave/submissive has rigid routine doesn't make them "real". The only thing that can make a sub/slave "real" is their desire to please/serve their master/dominant and that can be expressed in countless ways.

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/23/2007 8:04:00 PM   
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So bad, my bad - I confused posts.

< Message edited by MaryT -- 1/23/2007 8:05:51 PM >

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/23/2007 8:32:23 PM   
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probably resembles any other 'nilla married folk with a family..we haven't had the time or energy since the twin aliens arrived to do anything but sleep between feedings...lol

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/23/2007 8:35:05 PM   
thaimeeuppppp


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It is very humorous to me that because i compliment one persons dedication it is assumed i m critisizing others. Your Doms must really have their work cut out for them. I think some of u need a nice flogging tonight! HAHAHAHA

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/23/2007 8:35:34 PM   
BabyNyla


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quote:

ORIGINAL: NControlofU

BabyNyla,

I and my slave would like to thank you and your Master for your dedicated service to our country.  Being a dedicated slave to a soldier is very honorable.  From two former soldiers of a distant war to a current soldier and his slave, I and my slave salute you both and wish your Master Godspeed in a safe return home from his deployment.

David and joy


Thank you, it's very appreciated.  I just learned today that he will be home for 2 weeks R & R the first two weeks of March, so I am beyond stoked :D

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/23/2007 8:36:52 PM   
aSlavesLife


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quote:

ORIGINAL: darksdesire

quote:

ORIGINAL: aSlavesLife

Uncage her, bathroom, breakfast, sexual training, near orgasm masturbation, objectification, cage her again, milker/nipple sensitivity training ( caged ), near orgasm masturbation ( caged ), uncage, bathroom, chores and cleaning, lunch, objectification, exercise, near orgasm masturbation, more sexual training, bathroom, mental and physical conditioning, objectification, near orgasm masturbation, dinner, more chores, bathroom, more mental/physical conditioning, 2 hours of leisure time, near orgasm masturbation, snack, bathroom, caged for sleep.

There is always room for some variation, but that is a typical day in my pet's life.  
 
 


Does she ever get to orgasm?


On 3 seperate occasions since December 1st.

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/23/2007 8:47:49 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: thaimeeuppppp

It is very humorous to me that because i compliment one persons dedication it is assumed i m critisizing others. Your Doms must really have their work cut out for them. I think some of u need a nice flogging tonight! HAHAHAHA


Someone pointed out that subs/slaves without rigid routines are just as real as those who do have one. Since you are new to the lifestyle and looking to learn perhaps you should appreciate the lesson instead of making infantile assumptions about the relationships with our dominants. Unless you subscribe to the theory of "They don't agree with me, therefore they aren't real/are bad subs". If that is the case, I wish you many happy days and thought-provoking discussions. With other people.

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/23/2007 8:48:02 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: thaimeeuppppp

I am very curious how people weave their daily vanilla and not so vanilla life together. Hour by hour


::shrugs:: I don't have 'daily vanilla' in my life with Himself so there is nothing to weave together.

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/23/2007 9:50:22 PM   
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On the days when Master rises hours before me, slips out of bed, and readies Himself for His day. (It is Master's idea that i get as much sleep as possible because i work more hours each week than He does, in addition to maintaining the household.) He kisses me before leaving, and orders me to bring Him honor in my day, then orders me back to sleep. When i rise i go through my own morning routine, but for Him i fetch the newpaper and leave it on the table, when possible. If it has not arrived before i have to leave, then i bring it in with me as i return from work. i feed the birds and animals outside. On the days i must leave for work, Master always prefers to sleep in, so i rise silently, and ready myself for work in complete silence (this is an art... try it sometime... complete silence as you go about your needed routine). If the newpaper has arrived before i leave, i leave it on the table for Him. i do not feed the birds and animals as Master will have a better group show up if they are hungry when He feeds them an hour or so later. Master requires that i wake Him to say good bye before leaving, at which time He approves of the way i am dressed, or orders any adjustments as He sees fit. He reminds me it is my duty to bring Him honor in all i do, and kisses me. Master and i talk at least once while one, or both of U/us is at work. Sometimes He will leave instructions for me on my voicemail, sometimes in an email, sometimes in direct conversation. After work, If Master is home, i slip into a surrong, adjust my hair and make up to His liking, and put on the kinds of earrings Master prefers. This is often the time Master will have me serve Him sexually. When the time comes, i must be mindful of what He is doing as i clean and cook. O/our home has a great room that combines the livingroom, kitchen, and dinningroom, so there are no walls to absorb noises. i must time my loud activities (such as using a blender, or garbage disposal) during a commercial break if Master is watching TV. Sometimes instead of cleaning, Master may order me to cuddle with Him on the sofa, or sit at His feet. This ritual is followed almost nightly, without fail... My surrong is lowered to expose my breasts. i bring a bowl of warm water and a cloth to wash Master's hands. Sometimes He has me wash His feet at this time as well. Once Master is washed He seats Himself at the table, where a charger plate, a folded cloth naptkin, and His drink is waiting. Dinner is served in as many courses as possible, and presented as beautifully as i can make them. Master is hand fed every bite. There are many details regarding how He is fed, and if anyone would like to know them, i am happy to share them on the other side. After dinner i put water out for the animals, clean the kitchen, finish any chores that need to be done, and spend as much time as possible with Master. Sometimes it is sitting at His feet, other times He prefers me snuggled up next to Him. Many evenings i will offer Master a massage, facial, pedicure, or to bathe Him. Anything He choses is carried out with extreme pampering. He usually allows me to have some time online, as He is eager to find one who will serve with me. On many evenings He walks with me, either before or after dinner. On most nights Master orders me to bed when He goes to bed. In the event i am not accompanying Master to bed, He instructs me with a bedtime. Once in bed, i am not permitted to leave His bed for any reason without permission until my alarm wakes me in the morning. This means i must ask for permission to use the bathroom in the night, usually around 3AM... On weekends i fetch His newspaper, His tea, and feed the animals for Him. i spend time on a pillow beside Him as He reads His paper, or W/we watch the birds and animals outside together. If there is alot of activity with the animals, He may allow me to sit next to Him in a chair. Eventually i prepare breakfast which is sometimes served the same as dinner, but is usually more casual, though i still hand feed Him. There are rules about how i behave when W/we are in public, how i speak to Him on the phone, and tons of other little ways W/we keep it real, but this is pretty much the basics of my days and nights. Master's dorei

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/24/2007 12:03:44 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: thaimeeuppppp

It is very humorous to me that because i compliment one persons dedication it is assumed i m critisizing others. Your Doms must really have their work cut out for them. I think some of u need a nice flogging tonight! HAHAHAHA


As you say you are new to the lifestyle with much to learn. I suggest you take the time to read and learn from the many people here before posting childish comments like that. As many have said before and many will do again, there is no "true way". I am in a 24/7 Master / slave relationship but I work and Master runs his own company so, shock horror, sometimes when I get home he has cooked dinner for us or has done some things around the house. Does that make him any less my Master. No. At the end of the day he has done things because he decided to do them. THAT is the whole point of this. HE decides what happens.

As I have said on other posts, prospective Masters are likely to read your posts on the forums so they say as much about you as your profile does. You would do well to remember that.

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/24/2007 12:52:18 AM   
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susie. I am new to the lifestyle but not new to being submissive or wanting to be a slave. I am not posting on here to impress any masters nor to make anyone agree with me or like me. If the majority of folks might disagree with me about something its just fine. What I am perceiving here is its like there is some unwritten rule that in Neo BDSM there are alot of hard limits for people that allegedly want to surrender. Its yuppie shite really. I am not depending on this site to find a Master at all. Its just a way of reaching out. I live 10 minutes from san francisco and I am young and fine as hell. 

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/24/2007 3:32:51 AM   
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Thaimeeuppppp,
     Your profile says you have respect and that you are seeking a Master.  You seem childlike in your words and furthermore rude.  Your newness shows, You should be humbled at the fact that a Master took the time to respond to your words with constructive, and helpful advice.  You bring shame to yourself  and if you are reaching out then be respectful of the Masters and others on this site you are reaching out to show you the error of your ways....    
 
Don't cut off your nose to spite your face

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/24/2007 3:39:42 AM   
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I was wondering if anyone in that relationship works...

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