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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/24/2007 5:58:29 AM   
agirl


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ORIGINAL: thaimeeuppppp

susie. I am new to the lifestyle but not new to being submissive or wanting to be a slave. I am not posting on here to impress any masters nor to make anyone agree with me or like me. If the majority of folks might disagree with me about something its just fine. What I am perceiving here is its like there is some unwritten rule that in Neo BDSM there are alot of hard limits for people that allegedly want to surrender. Its yuppie shite really. I am not depending on this site to find a Master at all. Its just a way of reaching out. I live 10 minutes from san francisco and I am young and fine as hell. 


And what I'm *reading* from your posts is that you want to *serve and surrender* in a particular way. That is something that YOU want.

Aren't you exactly like many others?....... and looking for something YOU would like?

Aren't YOU looking for a dominant that will provide the type of situation where you can be provided with the opportunity to do so?

Perhaps you would find a *limit* if it came in the shape of a dominant that didn't require you to *serve* ?

agirl



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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/24/2007 8:21:56 AM   
mbes


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Status: offline 		thaimeeuppppp, you've indicated that you already know what you consider to be your ideal, and so it's hard to see your "curiosity" as to others' methods. I wish you well in your search for your ideal.
As for whether or not I "need" a flogging, mine is quite capable of determining that need, and I'm sure I'll know when he decides I do. He does indeed have his hands full, though, and he prefers it that way. :)

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/24/2007 2:47:31 PM   
kyraofMists


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Status: offline 		Our daily life looks much like the daily lives of any number of people.  The majority of the protocols and behaviors that demonstrate our M/s structure are subtle and most people will not notice them for what they are.  What most people will not notice is that he is the one with the authority.  Whatever he wishes, wants, asks for or demands, alandra and I will make it happen.  That is the heart of our relationship.  The rest is just a way to outwardly demonstrate our devotion.

Knight's kyra

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/24/2007 7:45:24 PM   
destinykitty


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Status: offline 		Master gets up at 5am, I usualy wake up at this point we have a conversastion then he leaves me to go back to sleep while he goes off to work.

I get up usualy around 9 or 10am and check emails and my diary. In my diary Master writes any chores/jobs that he wishes me to do for that day.

Attend to tasks Master has left me

Have lunch around 1pm and make note of what i eat and drink in dairy for Master.

Spend the afternoon reading, doing craft work or studing.

In the evening when Master gets home I am waiting for him on my knees in the bedroom, he will put his stuff down, come in, get changed then I am to kiss his feet until he pulls me up. I then wait on my knees for his next instuctions usualy he puts me through some position training, then we will talk about our days before he goes off to check email and play on the computer and I will cook dinner.

We eat dinner together sometimes me at his feet sometimes sitting up next to him depending what he wants. After dinner we will spend time together sometimes doing normal vanilla things other times doing scenes or training

He goes to bed at about 9.30pm i go in to the bedroom and kneel by the bed asking permission to enter he usualy makes me kiss his feet for a while before giving me permission to enter. We then snuggle and chat for a while before he goes to sleep. Once he is asleep I am allowed to get back up and am usualy up until about 2am.


Thats a typical day when i am at home when I have uni its still mostly the same i just go out to uni instead of doing crafts and reading.

kitty

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/24/2007 9:47:36 PM   
slavegirljoy


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Status: offline 		Dear thaimeeuppppp,

Thank you for the kudos.  i appreciate it, but  i will say this, while i am fully comitted to serving my Master as faithfully and diligently as i can, within the constraints that living a "normal life" in this society will allow, i would emphatically say that my slavery, while very real for my Master and i, is not "The Real Thing" to all.  What i listed as a schedule of my "typical day" as a 24/7 salve just happens to be what works well for the two of U/us and is, in no way, meant to be considered a template for all.  And, i doubt that you took it that way, but your complimentary note may have been construed by some that you did.

i would also like to add that the way my Master and i have set up our daily lives together is very comfortable for U/us, but it is far from being ideal.  In an ideal world, for U/us, i would be wearing  my big, black, leather slave collar with it's 4 D-rings and 3 O-rings around my neck all the time, all day and all night wherever i went, including to the grocery store, the soccer games and the PTA meetings.   i would call Him "Master" in front of everyone and never use His given name.  i would love nothing more than to be able to walk through any store with my collar on and a leash attached to it and the handle in my Master's hand.  i wouldn't fear anyone seeing the bruises and welts that Master puts on my body.  i would prefer to sit on the floor (with a personal mat under me) at His feet in a restraunt rather than at the table, being treated as if i were His equal (which, for my own personal feelings, i don't consider myself to be). 
 
But, W/we don't live on "Fantasy Island" and W/we have needs that require U/us to "fit in" with the general population when W/we are in public.  Also, W/we have no interest in letting everyone know O/our personal business.  So, for these reasons, W/we live O/our lives the best W/we can, without comprising O/our personal relationship of Master and slave and still live within the accepted boundaries of "polite society" (while in public view, anyway).  i hope this makes sense and helps to clarify how i answered your original query about the "hour by hour" daily life i lead with my Master.
 
Oh, and my Master reminded me that i failed to include two other very important duties that i have:  i shave my Master's face and throat every 2 or 3 days, as He needs, and i clip His toe nails, when He needs it.
 
i am, as you said, a "real" slave, but i am not the only "real" slave.  There are many, many "real" slaves that are nothing like me and live very different lives.   i am an owned servant for my Master to use as He sees fit.  i came to Him as a slave and nothing more.  i am fully comitted to fulfilling my duties and to having Him maintain complete control over me and my life because i am a slave, not because i need to please Him.   i serve because i have a need to serve, plain and simple.  i am just very fortunate to have been found by a truly wonderful Master.

slave joy
Owned property of Master David


quote:

ORIGINAL: thaimeeuppppp

WOW SLAVE GIRL JOY. you are the real thing.
I salute you for your committment



< Message edited by slavegirljoy -- 1/24/2007 9:51:54 PM >

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/24/2007 10:08:36 PM   
slavemaia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

quote:

ORIGINAL: thaimeeuppppp

I am very curious how people weave their daily vanilla and not so vanilla life together. Hour by hour


::shrugs:: I don't have 'daily vanilla' in my life with Himself so there is nothing to weave together.

Celeste


Yup - what she said. Anything i do whether with Master or not is in service to Him. There is no dividing line i.e. this is vanilla and this is D/s.

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/24/2007 11:10:02 PM   
hisannabelle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavemaia

quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

quote:

ORIGINAL: thaimeeuppppp

I am very curious how people weave their daily vanilla and not so vanilla life together. Hour by hour


::shrugs:: I don't have 'daily vanilla' in my life with Himself so there is nothing to weave together.

Celeste


Yup - what she said. Anything i do whether with Master or not is in service to Him. There is no dividing line i.e. this is vanilla and this is D/s.


i think that this, more than anything, is what characterizes a 24/7 relationship :)

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/24/2007 11:37:38 PM   
adaddysgirl


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From: Syracuse, NY
Status: offline 		Well here's my typical day (LOL):
 
MAN Of THE HOUSE!

The husband had just finished reading a new book entitled,

"You Can Be The MAN Of Your House."

He stormed to his wife in the kitchen and announced, "From now on, you
need to know that I am the man of this house and my word is Law.  You
will prepare me a gourmet meal tonight, and when I'm finished eating my
meal, you will serve me a sumptuous dessert.

After dinner, you are going to go upstairs with me and we will have the kind of sex that I want.

Afterwards, you are going to draw me a bath so I can relax.
You will wash my back and towel me dry and bring me my robe.
Then, you will massage my feet and hands.

Then tomorrow, guess who's going to dress me and comb my hair?"

The wife replied, "The fuckin' funeral director would be my first
guess."


DG 

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/25/2007 6:04:36 AM   
TwoSeekOne


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ORIGINAL: aSlavesLife

Uncage her, bathroom, breakfast, sexual training, near orgasm masturbation, objectification, cage her again, milker/nipple sensitivity training ( caged ), near orgasm masturbation ( caged ), uncage, bathroom, chores and cleaning, lunch, objectification, exercise, near orgasm masturbation, more sexual training, bathroom, mental and physical conditioning, objectification, near orgasm masturbation, dinner, more chores, bathroom, more mental/physical conditioning, 2 hours of leisure time, near orgasm masturbation, snack, bathroom, caged for sleep.

There is always room for some variation, but that is a typical day in my pet's life.  
 


When do you go to work? Persue other interests? Live a life?

Personally, I'd find that (as a Master) highly limiting of my freedom and time. I don't have time to do that much to my slave on a daily basis. I've got things to do.

Rick 

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/26/2007 8:08:13 AM   
dawntreader


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quote:

ORIGINAL: adaddysgirl

Well here's my typical day (LOL):
 
MAN Of THE HOUSE!

The husband had just finished reading a new book entitled,

"You Can Be The MAN Of Your House."

He stormed to his wife in the kitchen and announced, "From now on, you
need to know that I am the man of this house and my word is Law.  You
will prepare me a gourmet meal tonight, and when I'm finished eating my
meal, you will serve me a sumptuous dessert.

After dinner, you are going to go upstairs with me and we will have the kind of sex that I want.

Afterwards, you are going to draw me a bath so I can relax.
You will wash my back and towel me dry and bring me my robe.
Then, you will massage my feet and hands.

Then tomorrow, guess who's going to dress me and comb my hair?"

The wife replied, "The fuckin' funeral director would be my first
guess."


DG 


 
This is hysterical!!!

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/26/2007 9:14:34 AM   
Sunshine119


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ORIGINAL: MistressYlwa

This was a typical day in my family.
 
Boys get up early. One cooks, the other makes coffee. Coffee boy brings in a cup and wakes me up. Breakfast arrives. After breakfast, coffee boy does the dishes and B boy bathes and dresses me.
 
B boy showers, dresses, and goes to work, C boy starts cleaning the house, I check my emails and schedule for the day. If I have patients, then I go to my office and get ready, then work begins.  After my patients are gone, C boy brings lunch and I either go to the house or stay for another patient. Once my last patient leaves, I go to the house and rest. C boy starts dinner. If I have not had clients, then I might play with C boy or ignore him. My choice. B boy gets home and tells me about his day. He serves dinner and both boys clean the kitchen. During the week, play is limited to make sure that the boys are not too tired for work the next day. Weekends, the day is the same. Except instead of work, we PLAY, PLAY, PLAY.
 
*Details omitted to frustrate the wankers.


Damn....I really need a boy to dominate!


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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/26/2007 9:21:25 AM   
orfunboi


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Status: offline 		Mostly it consisted of -
Get up
Go to work
Come home
Cook dinner and eat
See if Mistress needs anything done
Watch tv or play on computer.

On weekends i would do most of the cleaning and shopping. Sometimes we would go out to a munch or party depending on what was happening in the community.

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/26/2007 9:32:20 AM   
orfunboi


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ORIGINAL: Wolfspet

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

quote:

ORIGINAL: thaimeeuppppp
WOW SLAVE GIRL JOY. you are the real thing.
I salute you for your committment

Sigh Thai, so much to learn.


Amen LA, amen.

Yea, what they said

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/26/2007 9:36:11 AM   
orfunboi


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Status: offline 		Well, lets hope they don't base reality on some of the posts i have just read.....

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/26/2007 9:43:57 AM   
orfunboi


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ORIGINAL: thaimeeuppppp

susie. I am new to the lifestyle but not new to being submissive or wanting to be a slave. I am not posting on here to impress any masters nor to make anyone agree with me or like me. If the majority of folks might disagree with me about something its just fine. What I am perceiving here is its like there is some unwritten rule that in Neo BDSM there are alot of hard limits for people that allegedly want to surrender. Its yuppie shite really. I am not depending on this site to find a Master at all. Its just a way of reaching out. I live 10 minutes from san francisco and I am young and fine as hell. 


You are an arrogant little pup, aren't ya. If you didn't come to CM to find a master, why does your profile say "I am new to this scene and humbly seek a patient master to take control and show me the ropes" Maybe you should take a moment out of your day to look up the word "humble", might help.

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/26/2007 9:50:31 AM   
aSlavesLife


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ORIGINAL: TwoSeekOne

quote:

ORIGINAL: aSlavesLife

Uncage her, bathroom, breakfast, sexual training, near orgasm masturbation, objectification, cage her again, milker/nipple sensitivity training ( caged ), near orgasm masturbation ( caged ), uncage, bathroom, chores and cleaning, lunch, objectification, exercise, near orgasm masturbation, more sexual training, bathroom, mental and physical conditioning, objectification, near orgasm masturbation, dinner, more chores, bathroom, more mental/physical conditioning, 2 hours of leisure time, near orgasm masturbation, snack, bathroom, caged for sleep.

There is always room for some variation, but that is a typical day in my pet's life.  
 


When do you go to work? Persue other interests? Live a life?

Personally, I'd find that (as a Master) highly limiting of my freedom and time. I don't have time to do that much to my slave on a daily basis. I've got things to do.

Rick 


I work from my computer, at home. My interests are mostly academic, involving research and note taking. Should I need to be away from home, she does have a cage to be left in.

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/26/2007 10:03:33 AM   
Sunshine119


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Status: offline 		For me, we have only a few "ritualized" times, but at every moment I am aware that I am his, regardless of what I am doing.

We wake at 7 am
Followed by some short play and sex....every morning
I then get up to draw his shower and make his breakfast
He leaves for work by 8:30
I clean up, make the bed, shower and am off to work by 9
He emails me several times a day and calls me on his lunch break
After work, we engage in activities that include the gym, hiking, dog walking, etc.
Returning home, I make him at least a three course dinner, taking into consideration special foods that meet his diabetic and low cholesterol needs.
After dinner, I clean up, then depending upon the time, we engage in other activities ;) or just chill out and watch tv or read.
I am required to lie in his lap.

When getting ready for bed, I get his medication ready and get into the bed to warm it up for him
All in all, we look pretty vanilla to the outside world.  I know I am his, but we are required to spend the bulk of our awake time dealing in this reality.

Sunshine



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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/26/2007 10:07:38 AM   
hammernhoney


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Status: offline 		wow scratching my head,some of theses post are out there aren't they...a slave laying around all day writting and getting up at 10 yeah buddy welcome to our world...DIANE is up at 4 am and wakes me around 5 with a cup of coffee and a kiss..she is off to the barn wirh a girl to help her with the chores.I am up around 7 checking my mail on the computer umtil 9, then its off to the kennel to feed and take care of my hounds.not to mention cutting fire wood working on the farm equiment and then maybe a few hours to relax before dinner and bed..YOU see we are just like a family sharing work and fun...when they serve they serve well and always devoting their lifes to their owners..

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/26/2007 11:39:18 AM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		hammer if you get up that early that's fine. But not every one has to be up so early to be considered productive. It's not "way out there" to get up later.

And I haven't seen one person say they sit around allday. They may have some free time to "sit around" but most I've seen post are busy a lot of the day.

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RE: If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in yo... - 1/26/2007 12:03:31 PM   
Mercnbeth


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ORIGINAL: thaimeeuppppp
If you are in a 24/7. what does a typical day in your life with your slave or Master look like? I am very curious how people weave their daily vanilla and not so vanilla life together. Hour by hour


It "looks like" and IS a lot of fun!

The most vanilla aspect of our day, even while separated as I work, has a sprinkling of flavor. The "rituals", "rules", and "routine", function in the background. Important and essential, but at the same time as natural at this point as blinking our eyes.

Sorry to disagree with no many, but to us it is living a fantasy. It is a daily fantasy fulfilled. After a lifetime of desire I think we'd both be very disappointed if it wasn't.

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