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PAsextoy4u -> RE: PREDATOR WARNINGS????? (1/25/2007 9:41:18 PM)
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ORIGINAL: simplyangelic1
PA have you read her profile? I have and it sounds like someone pitching a fit cause things didn't go her way. So based on her post here and her profile, I'm left to draw the conclusion that she is pissed off at someone and this is her way of venting. Unfortunately her chosen route has made her the villian and not the victim she was looking for. Her post and profiledoesn't sound like she was the victim of an assault, rape or any other real crime. She sounds like she came across a Dom or two that played a few head games and disappeared on her, or he made her think she was the only one only to find he was talking to a harem full of subbies. She said nothing about assault but did specifically mention liars and game players. So now that I pointed out the clues, do you still think she's talking about sexual assault?
No I dont see the "clues" you are pointing out. Perhaps you and others have spent WAY too much time interpreting her message and profile, too much time analyzing YOUR interpretation of her message and profile, and too much time trying to create a scenario that fits YOUR interpretation. Maybe your talents for reading clues would be better spent writing stories, writing good long FICTION stories!
One woman asked about predators and warning other women, and now after over 100 posts, you have decided she is a villian. HUH??? Now where did THAT come from??? You said she wanted to be a victim, but is the real villian here. Can you send us the flow chart that took you from her original message to you declaring her a villian???
I have not posted to most threads because I didnt feel called to respond. Even when I disagreed with things said, even when I thought most posters on some threads were wrong, LOL I just let it go and moved on to reading another thread. But THIS thread has kept me replying because I have seen so much ignorance, so much judgment, so much ASSuming and conjecture, etc on what I think is a very important issue for women that I felt such a strong need to keep sharing MY thoughts on this.
What most have done with her post is what happens when women speak up or even question what has happened to them. Even if she was used, jilted, lied to, played, dumped, whatever, doesnt she have the right to ask questions to find a way to understand what happened and to put things into perspective??? Had most posts simply tried to help her understand things, I think some of us could have learned from that kind of thread. But this thread instead showed newbies what happen if you bring up a topic some of you dont want to deal with or read here. And this thread has shown newbies its better to not ask any questions or to have any doubts about what has happened in a D/s relationship. And I wonder how many women will be less likely to mention anything "bad" happening to them???
If you have never been preyed upon, or if you liked it, then you are lucky I guess because other women have been preyed on and did NOT like it. If you have never fought off a rapist then do not pass judgment on what other women have done in that situation. If you have never been confused or not sure if something going on in your relationship is appropriate then again you are lucky, but dont mock or judge those of us who do get confused and need to ask for feedback.
Not all of us are the Grand Wizards of the Universe with all of the knowledge, experience, answers, and psychic abilities to know everything about everyone. Some of us are still learning and still need to ask questions and some of us are not perfect in how we ask those questions. Bear with us, and some of the time, bare us LOL
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