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How often do you have intercourse?


never
  21% (30)
once a month
  12% (17)
a couple times a month
  12% (17)
once a week
  20% (28)
every day
  21% (29)
more than once a day
  12% (17)


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RE: How often do you have intercourse? - 2/10/2007 9:12:00 AM   
lateralist1


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Status: offline 		I think men need intimacy just as much as women do it's just that they often don't understand that they do.
Of course I maybe wrong it has happened before.
I think all people need the same things it's just that in general men and women have been taught to express or not express their needs in different ways.
I would suggest that security in a relationship is actually far more important than fidelity.
I also think that rather than there being too much sex going on there is far too little.
However the people who expect to get it right the first time or who think that a different partner is going to make everthing in the garden so much better are fooling themselves.
Good sex takes as much effort as anything else and it is often more successful within a loving relationship.
I would imagine that people who pay for sex have many different reasons to do so.
I would imagine that for some the security of knowing they will get what they want with someone who has experience is a relief. Of course it probably doesn't always work out that way.
Esecially if you can't communicate what you want or don't really know.
I would think it's a bit like going to a pro Domme. How do you explain to a perfact stranger what it is you hope to get from the experience?



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RE: How often do you have intercourse? - 2/10/2007 10:58:22 AM   
deeddlit


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Status: offline 		Averages about once a week I guesstimate.  Not enough for my taste but we have 4 kids and are very busy a LOT.  If we never got tired and did NOT need sleep we would probably have sex at least once a day if not more.  Sleeping...what a waste of time!! ;)  lol



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RE: How often do you have intercourse? - 2/10/2007 12:07:20 PM   
Tslaveboy


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Status: offline 		It depends who I'm with. Some are a few times a year. Others weekly, some others daily.

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RE: How often do yo have intercourse? - 2/10/2007 12:14:27 PM   
DominaSmartass


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessMarissa

No, I'm talking about real.


Isn't that excluding any of the people here who don't have real penises or vaginas to use? Are you saying lesbians never have intercourse if they use a strapon or their intercourse doesn't count? I'm not trying to be sarcastic here, really.

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RE: How often do yo have intercourse? - 2/10/2007 12:40:57 PM   
BobtheSubBuilder


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass


quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessMarissa

No, I'm talking about real.


Isn't that excluding any of the people here who don't have real penises or vaginas to use? Are you saying lesbians never have intercourse if they use a strapon or their intercourse doesn't count? I'm not trying to be sarcastic here, really.


an excellent point! The gay community not being taken into account here lol. i think we need a 'looser' definition of sex here.

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RE: How often do yo have intercourse? - 2/10/2007 1:44:41 PM   
sleazybutterfly


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Status: offline 		I would agree.  I think that its very reasonable to call what lesbians and gay mean have.."real".  I lost my virginity to my girlfriend at the time, with a strap-on.  To me, the time I was with a man after that was just the time I was with a man...the time with her before him was special and very real.

What "real sex" or intercourse is to one, it isn't to another..to each their own.

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RE: How often do you have intercourse? - 2/10/2007 4:26:20 PM   
LadyIce


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Status: offline 		I am glad I am not the only one that had to say, NEVER.
It has certainly been over a year for me.

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RE: How often do yo have intercourse? - 2/10/2007 5:57:23 PM   
Tslaveboy


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Status: offline 		I almost forgot that I also enjoy being penetrated by women with strap-ons. I guess that would count as intercourse too.

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