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RE: Controlling your slave - 1/24/2007 1:54:55 PM

AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: LeatherBentOne

Thanks for your post but I was just kidding about the age thing.

I figured but just felt like adding my two little cents

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RE: Controlling your slave - 1/25/2007 9:51:43 PM

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I control everything, However there is much in her life that I allow her to deal with, She is not a brainless subbie out of a book but a real person with real opinions, thoughts and concerns.
My taks is to make desisions on questions or issues but not to micromanage.

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RE: Controlling your slave - 1/25/2007 11:11:02 PM

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He controls anything he wants to, which is pretty much everything. Sometimes that control means entrusting me to handle something myself, and sometimes handlng something myself means seeking his guidance on it. But he rules my personal world, so I'd say everything.

Something to point out, however. My Master has reshaped my thinking so that he knows how I will respond to various situations in life. To this effect he has full control. For if I were not handling something well, he would work with my mind until he had confidence that I had learned what was necessary to handle what comes my way. He may not be able to control the variable, but he can control the constant. And indirect control is still control.

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RE: Controlling your slave - 1/26/2007 1:40:34 PM

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I agree with leatherbent. Everything else is up for grabs..................................

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RE: Controlling your slave - 1/27/2007 1:28:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: RavenMuse
Control? Or ACTIVE control? I have control over every part of My girls life, there is nothing, no part off limits to Me. ......

..... There is a big diffrence in what I COULD do given the amount of control I have in our relationship and what I DO do ....

..... I have a person in My collar, not a mindless robot. she can function well making her own decisions ......

Again, i find myself agreeing with RavenMuse.

For Captain and i, it is a similar arrangement. He has total control and say in all things, however, in many areas He chooses to not micromanage or turns the control over to me, for different reasons.

Sometimes He has taken control of things I normally do or decide on my own, just for His playful pleasure or for training purposes. He can of course at anytime, and the areas He has given back to me to manage are still under His review and approval.

His control includes the “Big 3 F’s” finances (& work), family and friends.

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RE: Controlling your slave - 1/28/2007 10:04:04 AM

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MasterHXB and LeatherBentOne, I have referenced your question and your answer on my thread about "Tying the knot - bondage marriage." I sensed that the conversations converged, at least in my mind.

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