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female subbies - 1/23/2007 10:22:37 AM

frz411

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I am rather new to Collarme. However, i have noticed that many Dommes are seeking female submissives. Is there something that makes female better subbies than men?

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RE: female subbies - 1/23/2007 10:24:58 AM

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No, it's strictly a matter of preference.

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RE: female subbies - 1/23/2007 10:25:53 AM

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In the lesbian--or often the bisexual it is usually the plumbing that is different than men.

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RE: female subbies - 1/23/2007 2:50:26 PM

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It isn't that they are better, it is that I like having another woman around, I know Tom would love a part-time "nanny" and Fox would adore having a "sister slave". In other words, based on my past experiences with woman I find that I miss having one around.

I'm open to it but I am not actively seeking anyone at this time unless they just happen to be there and we all flow well together.

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RE: female subbies - 1/23/2007 2:53:10 PM

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Because our boobies tend to be bigger?

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RE: female subbies - 1/24/2007 7:11:54 AM

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Mmmmmmmmmmm booooooobieeeesssss.

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RE: female subbies - 1/24/2007 11:13:57 AM

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ORIGINAL: twicehappy

Because our boobies tend to be bigger?

SADLY this is not always true... I've had plenty of male subs (usually clients, but also the slave who ran away from disresp'i'ct) with C cups or better hanging off their shoulders.

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RE: female subbies - 1/24/2007 5:25:56 PM

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Hmmm ... It's preference. Though I would consider a pre/post-op Trans if that person were post psychological therapy for the standard year (sometimes longer depending on the situation and person involved).

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RE: female subbies - 1/24/2007 7:26:15 PM

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In regards to transsexuals, "standard" as regards the Harry Benjamin Standards of Care is an old way of looking at things because it treats TS's like they have a mental disorder by requiring therapy the entire time. Some endocrinologists and surgeons don't require therapy anymore, although the majority still do and will for a while, unfortunately.

Sorry, just random info because I don't like the word "standard". If a transman or transwoman feels capable of having SRS six months after starting hormones, good for them. If they want therapy and to ease through things slowly, that's good too.

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RE: female subbies - 1/25/2007 9:54:12 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: demistress

SADLY this is not always true... I've had plenty of male subs (usually clients, but also the slave who ran away from disresp'i'ct) with C cups or better hanging off their shoulders.

Jewel and i have discussed this issue often and while the male subbie we seek is for her we have agreed that we want no male in the house who fills out a bra or looks better in our underthings than we do.

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RE: female subbies - 1/25/2007 1:03:32 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: twicehappy

quote:

ORIGINAL: demistress

SADLY this is not always true... I've had plenty of male subs (usually clients, but also the slave who ran away from disresp'i'ct) with C cups or better hanging off their shoulders.

Jewel and i have discussed this issue often and while the male subbie we seek is for her we have agreed that we want no male in the house who fills out a bra or looks better in our underthings than we do.

Or has a larger collection of high heels then me...

Seriously... I have my moments when I'll actively seek a male sub... and I talk to a few... get burned out pretty quick and go back to seeking females. I know that not all men think with the small head... really, I do know that... only the ones I run in to. That's probably why I seem to seek females more then anything...

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RE: female subbies - 1/25/2007 6:33:25 PM

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Ihappen to enjoy either male or female submissives, what counts more to me is the personality and a myriad of other things.

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RE: female subbies - 1/25/2007 10:39:41 PM

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Different Dominas have different needs and wants and desires
for their submissives/slaves. Sexual preference is one factor,
the role of the sub/slave is another and the mix of other subs/slaves
in the household is yet another part of the equation.

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RE: female subbies - 1/26/2007 12:35:10 PM

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It's merely a preference as both offer their own moments.

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RE: female subbies - 1/28/2007 9:41:37 PM

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I like female subs like others have said, to keep my male slave happy and to have company

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RE: female subbies - 1/29/2007 8:37:23 PM

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Mostly preference, but it can be for a lot of reasons. It can also be a non sexual relationship as well. It could be a desire within to dominante a female.

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RE: female subbies - 1/30/2007 8:02:09 AM

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I love women submissives because I guaranfuckintee a female submissive will never start a thread........."If any women want to see me wank off on webcam let me know!"

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RE: female subbies - 1/30/2007 8:04:40 AM

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RE: female subbies - 1/30/2007 3:39:13 PM

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quote:

RE: female subbies - 1/24/2007 5:25:56 PM
Hope my thread is ok

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Status: offline Hmmm ... It's preference. Though I would consider a pre/post-op Trans if that person were post psychological therapy for the standard year (sometimes longer depending on the situation and person involved).

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