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RE: You always hear about pro domme's how about pro subs - 3/3/2005 9:00:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: outlawrider
i replied to an ad from 'a' domme at collarme and she said i insulted her because i said i need someone woman enough to handle me.
evidently she aint it.....!!!!!!

Wait you said these exact words, and she declined? It may be me, but that would sound to me like "are you able to deal with this 51yo challenge? Prove yourself!" My reply, even if I were looking for a 51yo slave would definitely be no thanks.

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i have yet to find any domme anywhere that handle a full grown man that does not ask for rewards,...or sex......or play.....or romance.....
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If you're a slave, why are you saying what you shall be used for?? What if she does want romance and play? Maybe describe yourself as a sub?
Just my opinion, I could be wrong. M

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RE: You always hear about pro domme's how about pro subs - 3/3/2005 11:46:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

quote:

ORIGINAL: outlawrider
i replied to an ad from 'a' domme at collarme and she said i insulted her because i said i need someone woman enough to handle me.
evidently she aint it.....!!!!!!

Wait you said these exact words, and she declined? It may be me, but that would sound to me like "are you able to deal with this 51yo challenge? Prove yourself!" My reply, even if I were looking for a 51yo slave would definitely be no thanks.

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i have yet to find any domme anywhere that handle a full grown man that does not ask for rewards,...or sex......or play.....or romance.....
outlaw

If you're a slave, why are you saying what you shall be used for?? What if she does want romance and play? Maybe describe yourself as a sub?
Just my opinion, I could be wrong. M

LOL, I had the exact same reaction. My preference of sub had (till this one) always been men about 50. There is no way I'd have touched one with that come on line with a 50 ft pole. After reading that entry, I looked over at my sub and said.. "and he wonders why he can't find anyone. Maybe if he checked that ego at the door....." I'd have not bothered to actually get on here and say anything- because if they can't figure out how to attract a Domme, perhaps they aren't really suited for one- but since you said something, I decided to add my two cents.

Guys, this is marketing. If you make yourself look like a lemon car, you're never going to get past the front door. Your choice of words means something to us. While you may decide someone isn't "woman enough" to handle you, which is your right, basing it on the fact that she wasn't willing to deal with you trying to challenge her sounds a lot like sour grapes to me. I'd have probably sent you back a one liner saying something like.. um, right. Good luck ELSEWHERE. Women are not men. We're not going to respond to the challenge a way a male would. We're more likely to laugh and decide you're an arrogant fool. We don't have testosterone and we don't need to prove ourselves to you or anyone else. Go read http://www.jaggery.com/meetdomm.htm and see how well the statement of " i need someone woman enough to handle me." fits in with the other wanker statements... (the one about being available for the RIGHT Domme.. if you didn't figure it out yourself.)

I don't expect a sub to be a doormat, nor do I expect slobbering respect from a stranger. I do however expect someone to bother to get to know me before they start asking if I'm woman enough to handle them. If that is one of the first things out of their mouths, I'd roll my eyes and move on. You just proved by treating the Domme as an object rather than a person to get to know, that you're not worthy of time. If you guys put more time into getting to KNOW someone, and less time posturing about how hard it would be to deal with you, you'd do a lot better finding someone.

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RE: You always hear about pro domme's how about pro subs - 3/4/2005 6:07:05 AM

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there is such a thing I think. I'd link to resources, but I have no idea.

It's not as common as Pro Domme, but Pro Subs exist. I'd try an escort site such as bigdoggie.net for those who are interested. Browse for a while to get a flavor, but if you're seriously interested, break down and get a membership, so you can read the full reviews. Even a cheapskate like me did. (Although I'm not looking for Pro Subs.)
(No, I'm not on commission from them.)

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RE: You always hear about pro domme's how about pro subs - 3/4/2005 7:35:22 AM

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http://www.sub-merged.net/about.html is a classy operation and a nice woman (at least on e-mail)

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RE: You always hear about pro domme's how about pro subs - 3/4/2005 9:10:11 AM

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like i said..you are allowed to hate me.
i do not care.
but i thought maybe someone would understand. i fail to grasp it.
i try to be supportive of others yet it doesnt happen for me. i am used to it.
one way ticket i see.
its okay.
enjoy yourself.
i added my side to 'a' topic. i am as i feel a pro slave. i can do it all alone.
not many i met can. but i do.
\its all i tried to convey.
nothing else.
i didn't know i would be attacked because ads. that wasn't the topic.

okay........so much for that.
and how was your day?
ahhhhhhh i digress yet again.

take care folks.
i'm done for this topic. as ole jack said in the movie...."you can't handle the truth"

later
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RE: You always hear about pro domme's how about pro subs - 3/4/2005 10:38:52 AM

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Scooter,

A lot of people say that going pro is just like earning money from any other talent or skill a person may have. They liken it to massage therapy or doing arts & crafts for sale. I liken it more to a musician or an artist that goes pro. You lose all your creative freedom, and your craft becomes more about pleasing others than pleasing yourself. Those of us who purchase their wares, however, are exceedingly grateful to them for bending and molding their art to suit our tastes.

Just my humble opinion.

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RE: You always hear about pro domme's how about pro subs - 3/4/2005 5:46:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: fullokinks

Scooter,

A lot of people say that going pro is just like earning money from any other talent or skill a person may have. They liken it to massage therapy or doing arts & crafts for sale. I liken it more to a musician or an artist that goes pro. You lose all your creative freedom, and your craft becomes more about pleasing others than pleasing yourself. Those of us who purchase their wares, however, are exceedingly grateful to them for bending and molding their art to suit our tastes.

Just my humble opinion.

Paul

extremely well put. :)

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RE: You always hear about pro domme's how about pro subs - 3/4/2005 5:54:09 PM

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If I can interject something here, I noticed the subject of Pro before a Domm'mes name implies they are in for the money, because they are that good--to be able to charge. On the other hand, I have used this "Pro" to imply skill, and knowledge. Nobody has ever asked me what my "Tribute" would be, and I wouldn't accept one if offered. But, I am now truly in a quandry not knowing how many just take for granted I ask for a tribute? There is a big difference in doing something you have done for years, and have become good at it and injoy the sensual nature of it; rather than trying to make a buck!

From the American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language:

pro·fes·sion·al
Pronunciation Key (pr-fsh-nl)
adj.

1.
1. Of, relating to, engaged in, or suitable for a profession: lawyers, doctors, and other professional people.
2. Conforming to the standards of a profession: professional behavior.
2. Engaging in a given activity as a source of livelihood or as a career: a professional writer.
3. Performed by persons receiving pay: professional football.
4. Having or showing great skill; expert: a professional repair job.

So, the term can be used either way. Generally, imx, the term professional refers to someone who gets paid to do something, while an amateur does it for free. That's not necessarily a reflection of skill level - the Olympics used to be restricted to amateurs (no professionals allowed - no one was allowed to compete who got paid for doing their particular sport) and they were generally the best of the best.

Figure skaters, for example, used to "retire" from the amateur competitive circuit and go on professional tours. Generally their skill level waned and they weren't expected to be as good as they had been when they were amateurs.

When i first saw your name, I figured that the "pro" part must refer to something other than professional, like maybe a local abbreviation for Providence or something. I couldn't imagine that someone would claim to be an expert at shitting! Or that someone would pay them to do that! It takes all kinds, I guess.

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RE: You always hear about pro domme's how about pro subs - 3/5/2005 10:25:13 PM

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Well I will check out those links thank you for the ones who had something to contribute.

As for someone's commet about it being like any other profession but some loose their creativity, I can see how that would happen. It'd prolly make you jaded to a dominant if you wanted to take one personally because in work you see the stuff all the time so there's no wonder left.

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RE: You always hear about pro domme's how about pro subs - 3/8/2005 12:11:39 PM

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there are pro slaves some are working in the pro dungeons others are rented and/or auctioned off by their owners. the produngeons are usually non sexual while the rentals and auctions usually are
pro dungeons usually safe rentals and auctions can be riskey unless rented or auctioned to known individuals.
pro slaves usually bring a very good price as they are expected to take quite a bit. the dungeons negotiate what is to be done marking brings a high premium
rentals and auctions are different a rental is much like dungeon difference being no one is there to protect slave/sub the auctions no negotiations no protection anything goes

am not talking of rentals and auctions within group you know but rather public

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