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RE: Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 7:01:36 PM

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i personally don't like to swallow however i will do it for Daddy (and thank goodness He hasn't asked me do it that yet). i do find tasting myself on my fingers to be fun and enjoy doing it to get myself aroused but i don't expect or want Him to go down on me.

i do know one male sub who enjoys tasting and swallowing his own cum

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 10:46:30 AM

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Interesting. I am not into getting oral sex either. But I don't mind my taste. It is surprisingly sweet and a tad fruity.
But after my divorce, I was perfectly ok swallowing my bf's cum. And with this last dom, I often found myself spitting it out (on his command) and lapping it back up. I find that some guys have a fascination with their own juices. But no way in freakin heck would he so much as kiss me after, in case I had a store of some in my cheeks to give him a little return investment.

My former dom was very much a homophobe, as am I. I considered that maybe guys like that are too freaked out it is like being a guy lover. But it looks like more guys have this phobia than I thought.

I just don't get it.
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ORIGINAL: mymasterssub69
i do find tasting myself on my fingers to be fun and enjoy doing it to get myself aroused but i don't expect or want Him to go down on me.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 11:30:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

So why do so many men run like heck when asked to tasted their own jism?
If the thought makes you run, what is the reason?
If you do like it, have you ever considered what is the appeal?

*Curiously*
Kyst

From my view, many men do have the idea of tasting their own juices could be seen as an indication or hint they may be gay.
I have tasted my own in the pst and sometimes I still do. The appeal developed from teenage curiosity and got to enjoy the taste and texture. In my opinion, tasting another man's juices is from curiosity and my way of showing the other person exactly how much I enjoy accepting his essence and the connection between us.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 11:43:07 AM

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I deep kiss my girl after she swallows, no big deal about the taste. And I expect her to not waste a drop.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 11:51:10 AM

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Ok, this is going to sound sooooooooo unsublike, but what the hell? Obviously, I know what it mean when someone says they don't want their submissive to "waste a drop" or something like that. What I don't understand is what's the benefit of swallowing? By that I mean, if she does "waste a drop" it's not like she's going to have a vitamin deficiency or something. This is more or less tongue in cheek, I just wonder how not wasting a drop came to be associated with swallowing.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 11:51:55 AM

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A guy I work with tasted his buddies sperm. We were all at a bar after work and his girlfriend blew his buddy in the bathroom and swallowed and then started kissing him. Word got around at work the next day and he had a army of people asking him, how did his buddies sperm taste lol.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 12:08:57 PM

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I'm sure it's been said before but it's all about the diet. I guess i'm fortunate.

On the other hand, sometimes the things we do for our Masters/Mistresses aren't pleasurable, ideal, pleasant - it seems such a tiny thing in comparison to some activities. At least for me.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 12:10:07 PM

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LOL.. yeah I can see how that might make a person uncomfortable.

But ya know.. maybe those guys that asked him really wanted to know, so they could try some
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ORIGINAL: ElectraGlide
Word got around at work the next day and he had a army of people asking him, how did his buddies sperm taste lol.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 12:13:02 PM

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I might be able to see that if someone was depositing that in the usual receptacle, for baby making purposes, it might appear to up the odds. LOL.. but I agree, it makes no sense for other locations. Except for the idea that by doing so you are not rejecting anything he offers.
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ORIGINAL: bandit25

Ok, this is going to sound sooooooooo unsublike, but what the hell? Obviously, I know what it mean when someone says they don't want their submissive to "waste a drop" or something like that. What I don't understand is what's the benefit of swallowing? By that I mean, if she does "waste a drop" it's not like she's going to have a vitamin deficiency or something. This is more or less tongue in cheek, I just wonder how not wasting a drop came to be associated with swallowing.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 12:14:46 PM

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Yeah, I'm sure that's it. It just seems like an odd way to phrase it.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 12:29:44 PM

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I have swallowed, and been kissed by the two men that I have done that for,afterwards. I always break off the kiss rather quickly for some inner reason that I'm still not entirely sure of. Part of it was perhaps my own dislike for it, and not wanting to make my partner feel as weirded out by it as I was. Obsurd, I know. They chose to kiss me after, right?

Those cases where I swalled were very few and VERY far between. I tried it because I thought that it would please them, and over the years for some reason it was hard for me to get over the stigma that all guys want their girls to swallow their cum. My last boyfriend helped me get over my fear? disgust? distaste for blowjobs (due to the boyfriend previous to him, that would make me do it despite my complete hate of it compounded with a spastic gag reflex). He never expected it from me, we talked about it and it didn't bother him at all that I didn't like to do it, as he wasn't an avid fan of going down on females, either. Over the years that we were together, that slowly changed for both of us, but not to a large degree.

Towards the end of my relationship with him, we both started to realize just how wet I would get when performing oral on him, and he more often than not could not wait for me to finish and would just pull me up and fuck me senseless, much to my enjoyment. The act of fellatio is very tiresome for me, and something that I still struggle with.

Thankfully my current boyfriend is also very understanding and did not ask it of me until we got to the point where I truly enjoyed it and would do it often of my own urging, and he took the queue and brings it into our play. Another thing that helps is that he as a spot that I can concentrate on with my tongue that is hypersensitive for him and works better than the whole, bobbing wackyness that seems to be the norm when it comes to bjs. Makes my mouth a lot happier and a lot less sore

Wow...I've totally digressed!

Oh yeah....I've never liked the taste of cum, they've never minded kissing me afterwards, but they've never seemed to have an inherant curiosity to really taste themselves as in dipping their finger in it and sucking it off.

The act of swallowing it has always been hard for me, not only because of the taste, but because of my spastic gag reflex. There are times that I have a hard time swallowing anything that isn't food or drink (depending on the food and drink because there are some things that I just can't choke down).

Personally, I just can't see the appeal. I would like to...but it's something that I can't seem to get past. I much more prefer to see it as it's expelled and feel it. Not that I play fingerpaints with it on my body or anything...I always get that giggly grossed out feeling if I accidentally stick my fingers in it as I am cleaning up/being cleaned up. I'm weird.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 12:36:16 PM

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Actually, I think you're prolly the norm. I can relate to a lot of what you've said. I have that gag reflex too and it's next to impossible to get past it. And I mean on foods also. There are times that I just cannot get the food down no matter what the hell I do. I swallow and swallow and it just stays in my throat. Yuck! Now I am squicking myself out!

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 12:37:15 PM

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As a submissive male i have been ordered to lick up my mess many times. i hate doing so and have never gotten used to it. i do it becaues i am told to do it...

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 1:20:56 PM

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Quite honestly, I am very surprised at the responses here. Though I have been told many many times (by several men, not just one) that a lot of women don't like to give oral sex, much less swallow (both of which I absolutely love doing), but I still didn't think that was true. Now... I know.

Thanks for opening my eyes to the truth.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 4:48:50 PM

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Yeah, honestly it surprises me too. While I was pretty convinced men do not as a rule, taste their own, let alone someone elses. I was really surprised to hear that women were not accustomed to sucking and swallowing. I assumed we all did it.

I myself, don't get into it with relish as some of these ladies say they do, but I don't find it distasteful when I do. I prefer giving a BJ if I am in Maso mode, rather than romantic.

Hmmm....
Kyst

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ORIGINAL: afeathr

Quite honestly, I am very surprised at the responses here. Though I have been told many many times (by several men, not just one) that a lot of women don't like to give oral sex, much less swallow .

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 4:54:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

Seems a good a time as any to ask since it is a topic someone brought up in another thread..
But, why DO men find it thrilling, or appalling to taste their own cum?
This is a serious question, not one meant to bash males, or proclaim female superiority in any way.

This is something I have noticed for years. Women are expected to swallow cum. Some guys out there enjoy seeing it wiped on our faces, want us to lick it off your bellies, ect. Guys even encourage us to even taste ourselves. It seems guys like females to experience and preferably to enjoy male and female juice.

So why do so many men run like heck when asked to tasted their own jism?
If the thought makes you run, what is the reason?
If you do like it, have you ever considered what is the appeal?

*Curiously*
Kyst

I can't imagine a good reason why a man would be "into" this. I can imagine a variety of kinks as to why men might be inclined....but none where a man would be interested.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 4:59:23 PM

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i don't mind it at all. depends on my mood though how it will taste. But if it makes her happy, that's a very small effort to make. i even have a special martini glass for it now, though i haven't used it in a while /sigh. Then again, i am more feminine than masculine (not sissified, it's just how i am), so maybe that's a bit of bias?

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 5:07:50 PM

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Now, why is a woman SUPPOSED to or EXPECTED to "like" it??

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 6:57:46 PM

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It just seems Discusting to me, like SNOT.....and that's Snot funny. I just can't bring myself to drinking it. Just one of my Hard Limits I guess.

Strange but True, Sub BalletBob

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 6:59:57 PM

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It just seems Discusting to me, like SNOT.....and that's Snot funny. I just can't bring myself to drinking it. Just one of my Hard Limits I guess.

Strange but True, Sub BalletBob

As I have been known to say "It's just like swallowing snot... someone ELSE'S snot..."

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