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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 7:10:03 PM   
Powerman40


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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

Seems a good a time as any to ask since it is a topic someone brought up in another thread..
But, why DO men find it thrilling, or appalling to taste their own cum?
This is a serious question, not one meant to bash males, or proclaim female superiority in any way.

This is something I have noticed for years.  Women are expected to swallow cum.  Some guys out there enjoy seeing it wiped on our faces, want us to lick it off your bellies, ect.  Guys even encourage us to even taste ourselves.  It seems guys like females to experience and preferably to enjoy male and female juice.

So why do so many men run like heck when asked to tasted their own jism? 
If the thought makes you run, what is the reason?
If you do like it, have you ever considered what is the appeal?

*Curiously*
Kyst

In an amature comedy bar one night my lady was on stage and asked:
If  a man could suck his own dick... would he swallow?
The resounding answer was : hell no!
She asked.. then why should women?
the almost all male audience replied:
Because you fall for it.

I don't mind tasting myself and her together. It drives her wild to have a lick and a suck after making her orgasm a few times.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 7:17:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ElectraGlide

A guy I work with tasted his buddies sperm. We were all at a bar after work and his girlfriend blew his buddy in the bathroom and swallowed and then started kissing him. Word got around at work the next day and he had a army of people asking him, how did his buddies sperm taste lol.


Damn!

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 7:25:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: afeathr

Quite honestly, I am very surprised at the responses here.  Though I have been told many many times (by several men, not just one) that a lot of women don't like to give oral sex, much less swallow (both of which I absolutely love doing), but I still didn't think that was true.  Now... I know.

Thanks for opening my eyes to the truth.


i am surprised too - i enjoy swallowing especially when it is sweet.It is preferable to having cum squirted on my face and i just find it an important finale to a job well done :-) i have been made to taste myself - i did not seem to have much taste and i have tasted another woman; again not a bad taste. 

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 7:33:10 PM   
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I think a lot of it comes from porn and sexual expectations to conform. Now, in fairness, I have known more men willing to taste their own than woman. I've known a few woman that wouldn't kiss their man after he gave oral until he'd brushed his teeth. I think a lot of it is the idea of masculinity and homosexuality.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 7:33:32 PM   
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LOL.. ok, you just made me very glad I am currently unattached!
*shudders*
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It just seems Discusting to me, like SNOT...


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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 7:34:39 PM   
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LMAO!
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Powerman40
She asked.. then why should women?
the almost all male audience replied:
Because you fall for it.


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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 7:35:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: dawntreader

quote:

ORIGINAL: afeathr

Quite honestly, I am very surprised at the responses here.  Though I have been told many many times (by several men, not just one) that a lot of women don't like to give oral sex, much less swallow (both of which I absolutely love doing), but I still didn't think that was true.  Now... I know.

Thanks for opening my eyes to the truth.


i am surprised too - i enjoy swallowing especially when it is sweet.It is preferable to having cum squirted on my face and i just find it an important finale to a job well done :-) i have been made to taste myself - i did not seem to have much taste and i have tasted another woman; again not a bad taste. 

Nods,
What she said... Lots of Iced tea for a week helps too.. *S*

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 7:36:22 PM   
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I agree with most of the females who have posted, cum is gross, but its also very fascinating.
For a scientific point of view, it takes sometimes more then 40 million sperm (an average ejaculate) to fertilise one giant ovum (egg), thats like sending the whole population two times the population of Australia to look for one building (bad example i know, just got off work). Plus, each of those 40 million spermatozoa (correct name), have spent more then 70 days maturing within the male..

Taking in account all that, what your swallowing (or taking inside you) is a pretty big part of a male (not to mention being literally half of him... i.e. half of his genetic 'blueprint').

I admit i do swallow and occasionally deep throat, but i think sometimes its more in respect of the noble little spermatozoa who battles through the perilious conditions just to get to one ovum (although if you swallow, i doubt it will make it :P) although i cant say that guys hate it, because all of the guys i have been with have absolutely loved it and were pleasantly surprised that i wasnt disturbed being giving blowjobs or swallowing cum. Granted i dont particularly like the taste (has anyone noticed that different people taste different?.. suppose it could be the different ratios of prostate, seminal and bulbourethreal gland secretions.... i still do it because it appears to make guys happy (even though i have never really been with a Dom... i suppose my submissive nature doesnt really turn on and off depending who i am with).

Hope my babble made sense!

- Ania.

P.S. None of my 'nilla' friends like giving blowjobs or cum.. so its probably not something that most females do yet seems to be something which males automatically expect from females.

EDIT - I forgot to mention, i have tasted my own on several occasions and i dont really find it repulsive or attracting, i know guys seems to like the thought of it. I havent had a chance to taste another females as yet.


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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 7:41:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SeveredNeuron

I agree with most of the females who have posted, cum is gross, but its also very fascinating.
For a scientific point of view, it takes sometimes more then 40 million sperm (an average ejaculate) to fertilise one giant ovum (egg), thats like sending the whole population two times the population of Australia to look for one building (bad example i know, just got off work). Plus, each of those 40 million spermatozoa (correct name), have spent more then 70 days maturing within the male..

Taking in account all that, what your swallowing (or taking inside you) is a pretty big part of a male (not to mention being literally half of him... i.e. half of his genetic 'blueprint').

I admit i do swallow and occasionally deep throat, but i think sometimes its more in respect of the noble little spermatozoa who battles through the perilious conditions just to get to one ovum (although if you swallow, i doubt it will make it :P) although i cant say that guys hate it, because all of the guys i have been with have absolutely loved it and were pleasantly surprised that i wasnt disturbed being giving blowjobs or swallowing cum. Granted i dont particularly like the taste (has anyone noticed that different people taste different?.. suppose it could be the different ratios of prostate, seminal and bulbourethreal gland secretions.... i still do it because it appears to make guys happy (even though i have never really been with a Dom... i suppose my submissive nature doesnt really turn on and off depending who i am with).

Hope my babble made sense!

- Ania.

P.S. None of my 'nilla' friends like giving blowjobs or cum.. so its probably not something that most females do yet seems to be something which males automatically expect from females.

EDIT - I forgot to mention, i have tasted my own on several occasions and i dont really find it repulsive or attracting, i know guys seems to like the thought of it. I havent had a chance to taste another females as yet.


dam... when can we meet for Tea......... ~winks~

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 7:53:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SeveredNeuron

I agree with most of the females who have posted, cum is gross, but its also very fascinating.
For a scientific point of view, it takes sometimes more then 40 million sperm (an average ejaculate) to fertilise one giant ovum (egg), thats like sending the whole population two times the population of Australia to look for one building (bad example i know, just got off work). Plus, each of those 40 million spermatozoa (correct name), have spent more then 70 days maturing within the male..

Taking in account all that, what your swallowing (or taking inside you) is a pretty big part of a male (not to mention being literally half of him... i.e. half of his genetic 'blueprint').

I admit i do swallow and occasionally deep throat, but i think sometimes its more in respect of the noble little spermatozoa who battles through the perilious conditions just to get to one ovum (although if you swallow, i doubt it will make it :P) although i cant say that guys hate it, because all of the guys i have been with have absolutely loved it and were pleasantly surprised that i wasnt disturbed being giving blowjobs or swallowing cum. Granted i dont particularly like the taste (has anyone noticed that different people taste different?.. suppose it could be the different ratios of prostate, seminal and bulbourethreal gland secretions.... i still do it because it appears to make guys happy (even though i have never really been with a Dom... i suppose my submissive nature doesnt really turn on and off depending who i am with).

Hope my babble made sense!

- Ania.

P.S. None of my 'nilla' friends like giving blowjobs or cum.. so its probably not something that most females do yet seems to be something which males automatically expect from females.

EDIT - I forgot to mention, i have tasted my own on several occasions and i dont really find it repulsive or attracting, i know guys seems to like the thought of it. I havent had a chance to taste another females as yet.


Sets out two gallons of iced sun tea and waits patiently.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/27/2007 7:58:59 PM   
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I have tasted my own and had no problem with it. I have tasted it on a woman's lips and again no problem with it. I have tasted it mixed with our juices going down on her after sex, and again no problem.

I love the taste of a woman, and I have found every woman tastes different and yes even from day to day and the foods you eat can affect the taste.

Avoid garlic, onions, pepper for at least a day before one if you can, and drink lots of pineapple juice. This applies to men and women. That will give you the best taste.

But even then each person will still taste different because each person's chemistry is different. And for a woman the time in her cycle also affects the taste.

Now, I have never tasted another man, nor will I. Yet, I have studied and read about it, even the nutritional value, and the caloric value and you would be surprised, and I am not kidding. However, I will not go into it, just to say.. It does not bother me to taste my own, and I love the taste of a woman, and to taste myself mingled with a woman is a thrill as well.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/28/2007 4:04:34 AM   
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I am sorry powerman40, your on the otherside of the world  :P

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/28/2007 6:44:26 AM   
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Once upon a time, I was afraid of swallowing his cum.  The thought of those swimmies swirling around in my belly just grossed me out.  So, I'd run to the bathroom and spit.

Then one day, I got brave and I swallowed and it wasn't too bad.  So, I kept doing it.  Of course, he wanted no part of kissing me or tasting himself in anyway, but, other fish are other fish.

I once had a lover cum on my belly, lick it off and then drizzle it from his mouth into mine and I wondered if I might die because it was so incredibly hot.

Another enjoyed licking himself from me.

Yet another couldn't stand his own and didn't want it touching himself in anyway and I literally had to beg for him to cum on my face, in my mouth, etc. 

People just have different thoughts and preferences.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/28/2007 7:02:01 AM   
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ORIGINAL: feastie

I once had a lover cum on my belly, lick it off and then drizzle it from his mouth into mine and I wondered if I might die because it was so incredibly hot.



Now THAT is hot :-)

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/28/2007 7:36:33 AM   
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It has a little bit to do with homophobia and not wanting to be percieved as gay. Female/female action has been eroticized more by the mainstream than male/male action.  As one of my friends told me, 'I really didn't understand why men like it when girls make out until I saw Brokeback Mountain.  Between Jake Gyllenhal and Heath Ledger, yeah I get it.'

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/28/2007 7:40:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: feastie
I once had a lover cum on my belly, lick it off and then drizzle it from his mouth into mine and I wondered if I might die because it was so incredibly hot.
People just have different thoughts and preferences.


....Where were you in August of 06?  Have we met? =P

Nuts, now i need to come up with a NEW unique kink...*goes to his drawing board*

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/28/2007 8:38:57 AM   
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It makes total sense to me that we all taste different... genetics, chemistry, etc would make that so.

As far as tasting myself - I love my own juices (usually) but notice that they change in flavor at different times of the month, and dependent on my diet (same as with men).  I have also tasted other women as well, and find their taste different, yet in some ways similar.  None of which are disgusting or repulsive to me at all.

But then again, I can mentally push myself past a lot of things... being a nurse you have to be able to do that.

Sir says that's one of the things that he really likes about me... I can get beyond the obvious and enjoy the "act" itself.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/28/2007 8:41:11 AM   
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Hey. look---all you girls can blow me and swallow my candy, tell me how it tastes....I am content to live vicariously thru you in this matter.


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RE: Why do men..? - 1/28/2007 8:42:26 AM   
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Man, you gotta dictch that avatar.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/28/2007 9:06:01 AM   
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When I became sexually aware and throughout My 20's the thought of tasting My own cum would severely gross Me out.  I don't know how or why, but My attitude has done a complete 180.  I have tasted Myself while kissing her after a BJ, licked My cum off her body, and out of her after cumming inside; I've tasted other guys while eating her after they have cum in her or on her, or while kissing her after she's given them a BJ.  I don't have a problem with tasting My own or anothers cum at all, in fact I find it very enjoyable and a huge turn on.  she finds it highly erotic and it turns her on to no end.  

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