starshineowned
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Are you telling us that you are legally mandated to send your child to a school which has mandatory dress codes? What the fuck is going on down there in Texas? I know of no other jurisdiction than yours where this is the case. Um no..that was an example because some schools do require this based on "good intention" when really all that was needed was to enforce the school code that was probably already on the books. Point of it was does anyone see a difference in the schools as a result of such..hence the question "Anyone seen any real promising changes with some of these enforcements or attempts there of? " I'm sorry, but I think this boils back down to the individual parents of such kids wearing clothes that are against school dress codes, and not a even more stringent code that affects All students and parents who did not have a problem with being compliant to begin with. Again..there is stupid, and there is real harm. Again to reinterate..there are already standing laws on the books for abuse, and what constitutes abuse, physical, mental, sexual, emotional. There are laws on the books alread regarding harrassment, inwhich the racial slurs of any magnitude would come under. There are also laws on the books regarding false imprisonment which might even cover being detained and not allowed to proceed forward to destination. All of these standing laws covered all of the 1-3 examples NG Sir gave. So here we go attempting to add on more laws when the current laws aren't even enforced which already cover such. What was the prime thing that stood out in that article to me? The money!..The imposing of up to a $500.00 fine for being found guilty of saying the N word. I'm sorry..why doesn't the person bothered by this word being said to them simply sue if it bothers them that much? Why is there a reason to attempt to involve Everyone over it? As far as "our daughters being called such names as slut or bitch"? I think it would be better to raise the daughters to not be affected by such. Maybe try and teach them what the real world is like out there instead of trying to baby them so much and shelter them from it. Now I don't know about you but I grew up being called names by other kids, and did the same back. Even got into some knock down drag out fights over it all. Ya know what? Us dealing with those issue's and problems ourselves, and our parents allowing us to and telling us like it is just made us figure it out a heck of alot quicker that it just wasn't worth it, and we didn't require anyone else's butting in to do so. I don't know about you but I got spankings growing up. The worse was Grandma and her switch, which you had to go select yourself. This was a extremely Rare event for me with Grandma because it made a lasting impression the first couple of times. Didn't dig having my mouth washed out with soap either but it happened a few times as well. It to made an impression, and the same offense's didn't happen again. Never once did I ever think of my mother or my Grandmother as abusers. Ya know why? Because they weren't. You honestly think that imposing a new law against "spanking" when abuse laws are already standing is going to stop those that would and truely do like or enjoy abusing their kids or others? No, but now the parents who use these discipline tools are being targeted as well who use them not to abuse but to teach, and guide. You don't solve problems by adding on more restrictions. You only suppress it until it festers into something else. Well Wishes starshine Happy slave of Master Delvin
< Message edited by starshineowned -- 1/26/2007 11:55:07 AM >
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