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cleaning the pipes - 1/26/2007 1:44:09 PM   
torturedevice


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Status: offline 		Ok, so for those who havn't read my other thread for the day, I have a new slave, she's new, it's fun, yay.  Now, one of the things I'm looking to train her for is anal play.  She loves anal, but get totally freaked out about pretty much any bodily process possible.  My previous attempts to get her more comfortable with anal have lasted on average about 5 minutes, and she gets extremely worried about getting messy.  Granted, this was before her submission, however, there must be a better way.  Any ideas?  Thanks.
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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/26/2007 1:45:56 PM   
torturedevice


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Status: offline 		I should clarify, I'm not looking to get her to be perfectly clean as someone in a previous receint thread was.  I just want her to be able to be more confident about taking it and not get so freaked out about the possibility of getting messy.  Thanks.

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/26/2007 1:46:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		Mine just commanded me to chill and washed off any mess that happened to get on him while teasing me about where he had just been. If she's very fussy about it you can always try enemas.

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/26/2007 2:06:05 PM   
torturedevice


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Status: offline 		Enemas would seem to be the generally accepted way to go, and that's probably the way that her training will proceed.  I'm just trying to figure out how to get her less skiddish about it in general.  Like, she can take getting her ass fucked with less problems than getting it fingered.  I guess the only real way to get her more comfortable is going to be to just have her do it often until it just doesn't bother her any more, I'm just trying to find some tips or tricks from a sub/slave's perspective as to how that could be done most effectively.

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/26/2007 2:57:49 PM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		You know, it's nice that you are concerned about your sub, but you seem to analyze things overly much.  Follow Nike:  Just Do It

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/26/2007 3:05:01 PM   
SlaveAkasha


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Status: offline 		I agree with bandit on this one..just keep doing it and eventually she will get over it.  It bothered me in the worst way..but what I found what that Master never made a big deal of it, I keep wipes near the bed and clean him afterward.  If you keep letting her see that it doesn't bother you, she will accept that you are getting enjoyment from it and not allow herself to be bound by thoughts of gross thing so much.
 
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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/26/2007 3:12:10 PM   
MistressDiane


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Status: offline 		The more you do it and make it a pleasurable experience the more comfy she will get. Use of an enema will also work to relax her mind about the mess. Just take your time with her and she will get over it soon enough.

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/26/2007 3:17:46 PM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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Status: offline 		I agree with most here an  enema will help the process along,give her an enema make her hold it as long as possible.After this she will feel "CLEAN"  and more open to play....WILLIAM

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/26/2007 4:13:24 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		If there is a bit of a mess you could take her to the shower after.  Ther are plenty of fun things to do in the shower.  Let her se it is no big deal oi was worried about that too at first but i got over it with time.  Maybe she just need a little time to get her head around its no big deal.

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/27/2007 6:09:25 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		The idea of an enema grosses me out more than anal play.  Rather than a full enema your slave can buy a bulb-type anal syringe that cleans nicely without the dangers associated with too many enemas.  Also, lube acts like poo teflon and i have not seen any mess on a nicely lubed toy or body part.  

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/27/2007 6:21:35 AM   
Aileen68


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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

poo teflon


Poo teflon.  That's funny!

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/27/2007 7:01:45 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		i just hope to all gods that was the post that gave me the "perverted" status!  LOL

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/27/2007 7:11:32 AM   
KaramelGoddess


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Status: offline 		You could also use a condom or glove...that bit of latex between skin might make her feel a bit more comfortable about the messy side of it.  I always use a glove or condom during anal play...and only wouldn't in a completely monogamous relationship.
 
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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/27/2007 7:16:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		Poor frigging girl

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/27/2007 8:53:51 AM   
TopinPa


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Status: offline 		An enema is the cleanest safest way to go.

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/27/2007 8:56:44 AM   
aimtopleaseyou22


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Status: offline 		i asked the clerk at Home Depot & Lowes if they have and spray cans of poo teflon but they didn't know what i was talking about.  Where can i find some? 

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/27/2007 9:07:44 AM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		You guys are frigging nuts.  Give a girl who is worried about anal sex and the "mess" an enema and you are going to tie anal sex and fucking diaria together in her mind.

You don't "train" someone for anal sex by stretching the muscles with buttplugs, enemas or any of that crap, that is fetishistic bullshit.

Get her to relax about it in her HEAD, make sure YOUR ass is clean, if she smells shit when she is sucking on your balls she is going to assume that is what YOU smell.  Stop stressing about "shit" stop focusing on "shit" and go slow.  The harder you push, the worse it is going to get.  You need to let her mind slowly come around to where it is no big deal.  This takes patience.

Just ask a parent who rushed a kid on potty training and ask what happens.  Take your time, make it as stress free and tension free as possible and good things will flow from that.

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/27/2007 9:14:54 AM   
Aileen68


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

good things will flow from that.

No pun intended, right?

I happen to agree with just about everything you've just said.  It's all in the head.

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/27/2007 12:26:12 PM   
simplyangelic1


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Status: offline 		I would have to agree with you SimplyMichael Sir.  And might I add that keeping a box of baby wipes handy so that any mess that might occur is taken care of easily and quickly.  Possibly even before she notices there was a "mess" to begin with.  If you don't make a big deal of it, eventually she won't either, but it is gonna take time.  And whatever you do, don't jump up and do a surgical scrub the minute you are done or that will just reinforce that whole eww factor in her mind.

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/27/2007 1:21:55 PM   
Sirtimothyk


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Status: offline 		I very rarely have a mess.  I wouldn't worry about it.  Another concern of hers is being comforatable with anal.  A plug or anal beads might help.  and lots of lube.

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