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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/27/2007 1:28:39 PM

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You'll be happy to know you made water come out my nose. ~smile~

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i asked the clerk at Home Depot & Lowes if they have and spray cans of poo teflon but they didn't know what i was talking about. Where can i find some?

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/27/2007 1:33:34 PM

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Personally I love anal, but I do tend to worry about the mess with any new partner. Once I am comfortable with my partner, I am able to relax, not worry about it and just enjoy. Sex is messy...it's a fact of life and if you worry to much about the mess or anything for that matter, your not going to be enjoying it. Just my personal experience and opinion.

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/27/2007 2:17:42 PM

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Just remind her that she is human and all humans poo, if she didn't poo there would be something wrong.

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/27/2007 4:41:56 PM

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i found that starting anal play in the bath after a good cleaning helped me to get over the mental aspect.

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/27/2007 4:51:16 PM

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I would have to agree with you SimplyMichael Sir. And might I add that keeping a box of baby wipes handy so that any mess that might occur is taken care of easily and quickly. Possibly even before she notices there was a "mess" to begin with. If you don't make a big deal of it, eventually she won't either, but it is gonna take time. And whatever you do, don't jump up and do a surgical scrub the minute you are done or that will just reinforce that whole eww factor in her mind.

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Ooooh yes. Please do not leap up and run to wash yourself. That is a huge self esteem crunch!! Towels, a towel on the bed, hot wet towels for wiping afterward..those are good things. Massage is a wonderful way to distract and 'ease' into things. Have fun! LOL or you could keep her blindfolded and she won't know if there is mess or not!

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/27/2007 7:06:02 PM

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i also think enema would be a bad idea. At least from my perspective it would have been. Just take the time and it should be fine

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 1/27/2007 10:18:33 PM

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"anal beads"....another bad frigging idea flowing freely out of this crappy thread.

Yeah, lets shove something DEEP up her anal cavity...the only time I have really had to deal with serious fecal matter was pulling out a string of those things. Didn't say a thing, simply put it somewhere safe and went on playing.

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 4/18/2007 7:17:39 AM

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Ok, so for those who havn't read my other thread for the day, I have a new slave, she's new, it's fun, yay. Now, one of the things I'm looking to train her for is anal play. She loves anal, but get totally freaked out about pretty much any bodily process possible. My previous attempts to get her more comfortable with anal have lasted on average about 5 minutes, and she gets extremely worried about getting messy. Granted, this was before her submission, however, there must be a better way. Any ideas? Thanks.

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 4/18/2007 8:08:02 AM

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I'm gonna have to agree with SimplyMichael. Enema, bad idea, the problem she has is with fectal matter, causing her to have angery diarea before anal play is gonna make it worse not to mention regular enemas can have health effects. I'm sorry but I don't feel cleaner after a case of raging diarea, and I defitally do not feel sexual afterwards lol. Shoving more thing is her ass..BAD idea. This is something that is mental. You need to be nurturing, and understanding. Take time and help her get her head around it. The baby wipes are VERY good idea. And make sure she knows that she should not feel embarassed or uncomfortable, and that it doesn't gross you out or anything.

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 4/18/2007 8:26:07 AM

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I wonder how many people associating enemas with diahrrea have had enemas.
A fleet enema costs about $.97 and will basically flush the lower rectal cavity of any fecal matter. Having an enema is not ANYTHING like diahrrea. As a submissive, knowing that a cock, finger, or toy shoved in my ass will not come out "fudgy" and covered with fecal matter is, however, a HUGE mental relief. I do not always do an enema before anal play, and I do not recommend daily enemas because of how it flushes out the normal flora and fauna that belon in the rectal cavity. However, if you aren't doing anal play daily, having her do an enema an hour before play or so may relieve her mind greatly.

I wholeheartedly concur on the subject of use a glove or condom. It may relieve her mind to know that the scent or any residue will not remain on you after play.

Another wholehearted hell yea is do NOT freak out. Do NOT jump up and scrub afterwards.

The first time I ever gushed I was appalled and mortified. The reason I came to terms with it so easily is that my lover held me, kissed me, snuggled with me, and gave me aftercare from what had been a very intense sexual session as well as semi-scene. Afterwards we showered together. His simple acceptance of this made it much easier for me to accept.

Sometimes I cum so hard that shit comes out during the orgasm. The first time this happened Sir's reaction was very detrimental to me. It wasn't intentional and he and I have come to terms with it and deal with it much differently now, but at the time time he lost interest, couldn't play, and sent me straight to the bathroom. I was appalled, ashamed, and horrified. Now if that happens Sir will simply cover it up with an edge of a towel, keep doing what we are doing until there is a lull, and then send me to the bathroom to wash up and then come right back. It is much easier to deal with that way.

If she freaks out about any bodily processes I would suggest this. Get naked. Get in the shower together. Ask her to pee on you. She'll probably refuse, but that's fine. Pee on her. Wash up together and talk about it afterwards. Get to where peeing on each other in the shower is ok. It might not turn her on but she will most likely come to accept it as ok. (There is water coming down, the scent shouldn't stay, you are washing with soap afterwards.) When you think she is ready, progress to stripping naked, getting in the bathtub together, no water, and have her pee on you. Vice versa. Be very loving and appreciative of her as she does this. Show her that her bodily processes do not disgust you, that you accept them as simply another part of who she is. When she accepts your piss speak to her "good girl, that's right, I like pissing on you, I'm proud of you for doing this for me, thank you." Praise her and make this a warm and loving experience.

Good hygiene for both of you, loving acceptance w/out flinching for her bodily processes, and exposing her to your bodily processes might be effective. You are the master, only you know how she'll react best.

Good luck!

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 4/18/2007 8:28:38 AM

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Thank you for bringing this up. I wanted to ask this question today, esp. of the sub/bottom girl types.
I have been seeing a few profiles where ass play was listed
under 'loves', and enemas as a hard limit.   I am curious to hear how these 2 things can both be true, or as Mr. Spock might say,
"I find that illogical".

onto YOUR question, a little bit of glycerin, solid or liquid,
up dabutt 45-90 minutes prior to play can help.   And that
package of pop-up diaper wipes can be kept near by.

if it really is no big deal to you, she will Grok.

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 4/18/2007 11:49:35 AM

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But what do you do if it's the Master who wants to try it, but is worried about the mess?

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 4/18/2007 12:10:00 PM

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make sure YOUR ass is clean, if she smells shit when she is sucking on your balls she is going to assume that is what YOU smell. Stop stressing about "shit" stop focusing on "shit" and go slow.

LMAO!!! That's the first time I've seen that one on the many "How to do anal" threads...but it is a great point.

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 4/18/2007 4:30:07 PM

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My initial introduction to anal play was after a brief, clear water enema. The enema was fairly humiliating but was administered by my Dom in such a loving and friendly way, that my embarassment was a bit of a turn on I think. Afterward, not only did I feel very clean but my sphincter was much more relaxed than I had EVER known it to be making that initial entry very pleasureable for me. So put an X in the Pro enema column for me..

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 4/18/2007 6:08:42 PM

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greetings torturedevice,

i got over my skittishness about mess and weird sounds and things i would usually consider embarrassing mainly because He was very calm, encouraging, and not at all weirded out. realizing that it didn't bother Him made it bother me a LOT less. perhaps if you consistently show her that it is not an issue for you, she will eventually be able to get over her skittishness.

edited to add: just to comment on what has been said about "training" for anal sex...if we had NOT done plenty of fingering and anal plugs before we had anal sex for the first time, it probably would have been a scary experience rather than a very pleasurable one (for me).

annabelle.

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RE: cleaning the pipes - 4/18/2007 6:27:02 PM

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A simple fleet enema can definately ease someone's mind who is worried about mess. It's not a lot of fluid (it's only about a cup I would think), not uncomfortable, the tip is tiny and lubricated and is good for giving someone who is nervouse about mess, peace of mind. I would reconsider your strong response to that particular sugestion. :)

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more lube.
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