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viperess -> RE: Is a limit defined by hard limits or the person you are with? (2/5/2007 11:23:00 AM)

Greetings Sir,

Yes Sir it did not take long for Master to accomplish pushing my envelope which as i see it was a good thing as my trust in Him grew very quickly. As He says He may hurt me but will never harm me. After being hospitalized a couple times due to Masters harming and not taking care of their property it is nice knowing you can place total trust in your Master. For me at least i am His to do with as He sees fit as i belong to Him totally mind, body, soul and heart. As He likes to say "Why would I want to break My toy, then I could not play with it any more". To me how can i have limits on something that i have no control over. Plus for me slavery is an ever evolving and learning process which makes life that much more fun and makes you want to wake up to enjoy each new day.

Respectfully,
viperess slave of CTDOM4sub



justfortheforums -> RE: Is a limit defined by hard limits or the person you are with? (2/5/2007 12:33:46 PM)

i like to think that within a good relationship....soft limits are pushed and the once hard limits become soft limits until they are pushed also....the circle of limits gets bigger and bigger as the relationship builds trust and the two entwine....like a pebble being dropped into the water.



sexyone4you -> RE: Is a limit defined by hard limits or the person you are with? (2/5/2007 4:49:36 PM)

I have to agree with justfortheforums.  I have experienced the same thing



BalletBob -> RE: Is a limit defined by hard limits or the person you are with? (2/5/2007 6:30:28 PM)

I also base my Limits on myself. It doesn't mater who I am with, I stil have the same Limits.

Sincerly, Sub BalletBob



SirDiscipliner69 -> RE: Is a limit defined by hard limits or the person you are with? (2/14/2007 2:02:14 AM)

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ORIGINAL: viperess

Greetings Sir,

Yes Sir it did not take long for Master to accomplish pushing my envelope which as i see it was a good thing as my trust in Him grew very quickly. As He says He may hurt me but will never harm me. After being hospitalized a couple times due to Masters harming and not taking care of their property it is nice knowing you can place total trust in your Master. For me at least i am His to do with as He sees fit as i belong to Him totally mind, body, soul and heart. As He likes to say "Why would I want to break My toy, then I could not play with it any more". To me how can i have limits on something that i have no control over. Plus for me slavery is an ever evolving and learning process which makes life that much more fun and makes you want to wake up to enjoy each new day.

Respectfully,
viperess slave of CTDOM4sub


I do not think they were of proper mindset if they sent you to the hospital.

I wonder how many will disagree with that statement.

Intentionally within consent and limits physically hurt but not emotionally hurt..but harm is a perception is it not?

Ross
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Seatonstomb -> RE: Is a limit defined by hard limits or the person you are with? (2/14/2007 8:09:30 AM)

With me there are things that are out totally (on health and safety ground) and others that depend on who I'm with and how long I've known them. e.g. need to know they can hit a barn door at two paces before I let the use the cane on me (first person to use one on me was a poor shot).



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Is a limit defined by hard limits or the person you are with? (2/14/2007 8:13:03 AM)

Just for the forums-

That's true to a certain extent.

But there are simply things (give normal life circumstances) I won't do, no matter who orders me to do it. 



SirDiscipliner69 -> RE: Is a limit defined by hard limits or the person you are with? (3/9/2007 12:05:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Seatonstomb

With me there are things that are out totally (on health and safety ground) and others that depend on who I'm with and how long I've known them. e.g. need to know they can hit a barn door at two paces before I let the use the cane on me (first person to use one on me was a poor shot).


What was the result in the poor accuracy of the cane?

What do you ask now when screening potentials?

Ross
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szobras -> RE: Is a limit defined by hard limits or the person you are with? (3/9/2007 12:28:39 PM)

I do not seperate my limits by level. Some will not change. Others may in time, given the person, and the level of skill and comfort attained.



raevnn -> RE: Is a limit defined by hard limits or the person you are with? (3/9/2007 4:00:15 PM)

I'm no longer entitled to hard limits (before anyone goes all 'Safe, Sane and Holier than Thou' on me, I consented to a lack of limits) but, coming into this relationship, I had oodles of them. Tons and tons.

I never wanted my skin to be broken by anyone, ever. Now, however, that I am safe and sound and well love and utterly trusting of my owner, I just adore being pierced... ooo goody, yes I do. I used to swear up and down that it would never happen, however.

So, my vote is that it definitely does have to do with the person and not the limit itself. There are a lot less things to fear when one is with someone they trust, in my opinion.



xxxWENCHxxx -> RE: Is a limit defined by hard limits or the person you are with? (3/9/2007 5:55:03 PM)

Master has told me that the limits of the slave/sub are the limits of the Master .... my "threshold" is constantly changing as this slave becomes more and  more of a painslut ... so the limits will change as well .... she knows too that her Master will stop just not where .... W/we use no safe word for there is blind faith and trust that He will not ever put His slave in the hospital ....

as it has been stated so well by so many, it is different for each of us ... so does that mean we're snowflakes ?? (forgive the pun)

i learn by posting and the postings teach in return so thank Y/you all for being open



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