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How to find you ?! - 1/27/2007 2:22:54 PM

BlackSnow

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Really, Im two years trying to find a Mistress in my country Jordan-Amman, so I want to ask the professional Mistress , How can I found a Mistress here ?!

Should I stop searching ? :(

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RE: How to find you ?! - 1/27/2007 3:10:21 PM

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I would suggest that you consider relocation to a country populated by infidels.

You live in an Islamic Theocracy - A"Dominant Women" would justifiably lose her head for making such an offensive claim as being superior, or even equal, to a man.

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RE: How to find you ?! - 1/27/2007 5:18:14 PM

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BlackSnow,

I know how you feel. I am living in Parkersburg, West Virginia right now and been searching for a Mistress for along time! I know a bunch of websites that you can possibly go and find one, but a lot of them are not good.

Good luck

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RE: How to find you ?! - 1/27/2007 5:39:49 PM

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great first post mr spin, i totally agree.

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RE: How to find you ?! - 1/29/2007 12:32:57 AM

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ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

great first post mr spin, i totally agree.

I only partially agree with you, MrSpin.

I agree that relocation would increase the chances. And I agree that female dominance would run against the strongly male dominated society there.

To me, your response seems to be driven by prejudice, and is one not as much intended to respond to the OP but to criticize the OP's country. I don't agree with the spirit of your post.

I also don't agree with your use of the word justifiably and am puzzled by its use for I think it conflicts with the criticism you attempt to deliver.

I do not know enough about Amman to know how much a claim to equality would create problems for a woman. I expect that like many other places, there is a spectrum of views and urban areas and educated segments of the population will think differently than rural and uneducated populace. I think it helps relatively that the OP lives in the capital and not a small town or a village.

I think that even in countries with strong male domination, gender related status is secondary to status due to socioeconomic reasons. I expect there are women who exercise power everywhere.

I think an interest in BDSM is distributed across population all over the world. What differs is how easy or difficult it is to pursue those interests. Indeed societies that are sexually conservative or repressive make such a pursuit difficult, near impossible.

To the OP: I think relocation is indeed an option that would better the odds. Without that, I would suggest what I would ordinarily for seemingly vanilla circumstances. You might find online communities based in your country that have more liberal thought. You might look for personalities that seem more open to the role (confident, non-conventional) and test the waters. The water can be tested by humorous references to power exchange aspects, or by references to books or films that have femdom overtones. Another way a femdom relationship is known to occur is when a woman does not actively pursue dominance but has enough potential for interest that she is willing to do it for a partner.

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: How to find you ?! - 1/29/2007 12:47:58 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackSnow

Really, Im two years trying to find a Mistress in my country Jordan-Amman, so I want to ask the professional Mistress , How can I found a Mistress here ?!

Should I stop searching ? :(

There should be means via the web to find what you need.

If you feel you are worth it then the search should go on.

Ross

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RE: How to find you ?! - 1/29/2007 12:54:22 AM

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ORIGINAL: MrSpin

I would suggest that you consider relocation to a country populated by infidels.

You live in an Islamic Theocracy - A"Dominant Women" would justifiably lose her head for making such an offensive claim as being superior, or even equal, to a man.

I am susoect of your intentions here and your post. Strange how you would pick a name that would contrast to the OP and you both have a single post to your credit.

I find offense to the fact that you wish to stir up racial/social/slurs in your remarks.

No doubt if the mods were to check your IP address I would beat a weeks worth of lunches that you are the same person indeed.

With that in mind I would request the mods do so and would ask others not to reply to the inflamitory remarks until verification has been done.

I can just see this turning into a flame fest.

My appologies to those of contrasting perception but maybe I am just too sensitive at 3:30 in the morning and just damn tired of having people singled out for religious personal beliefs\culture.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,

Ross

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