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RE: What is your style of driving and do you think it r... - 1/29/2007 9:24:48 AM

MasterC46910

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Interesting topic. I think my driving does reflect who I am in some part. I am laid back, never in a hurry, never tailgate, polite of other drivers, mostly happy, forgiving of poor drivers, like to look around and see the sights. The guy you hate to follow on the roadways.

Off road, very aggressive, daring, forward charging and competely happy with a big grin on my face. The guy you want to stay away from.

I drive a SUV and a beat up old pickup truck. Just depending on my mood or need of the day.

Filling the need as it comes along.

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RE: What is your style of driving and do you think it r... - 1/29/2007 9:40:24 AM

Falcon40

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I tend to drive cars which are in the sport sedan category, and which are fun to drive on weekends, on long twisty roads, and still can do normal service every day around town. They tend to take more work to run at their best performance, are usually acquired with some maintenance deferred by the previous owner, and getting them back in top driving condition is part of the fun of ownership. I hate to see them covered with salt in the winter or mud in the summer. When parked, I like to keep them in plain sight of a window. My cars occasionally acquire pet names, and I tend not to part with them easily, or let my friends behind the wheel. No connection to my Dominant/Control Freak personality what-so-ever... <LOL>

Seriously, the discussion over how Dominance or submission affect choice of car, sport, home, career and so on are not really new. Aside from practicing common courtesy on the road, I don' think what or how you drive says much about you or about D/s.

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RE: What is your style of driving and do you think it r... - 1/29/2007 9:46:39 AM

Coupleseeking321

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I drive a 1988 Honda Accord who I have named Foxy Love. I don't like to drive at all but I love my car. I tend to be overly cautious and hesitant when I drive. However, I'm pretty nice to other drivers and try my damndest not to cut anybody off. I never speed, ever.

My Dom on the other hand has a Audi A4 and he is insane. If he doesn't hit 100 everyday he's cranky.
I don't think that really says anything about our relationship, but it sure does make for a hair raising adventure when he drives.

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RE: What is your style of driving and do you think it r... - 1/29/2007 10:45:20 AM

fufured

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i am a sub/slave in every aspect but my driving. i love to drive fast and get very agressive in traffic or on the freeway though i am not a reckless driver. i used to own a jeep wrangler and that thing would go over medians, cut thru dirt lots, etc. now i have a Malibu and it can move when i want it to. i guess it's all those years of living in Los Angeles and trying to find the shortest route possible!

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RE: What is your style of driving and do you think it r... - 1/29/2007 12:26:56 PM

Missokyst

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Interesting...
I drive a 95 Saturn, which has a very showy graphic from front tire to the back tire. It is practical, showy, speedy yet safe. I am a chess playing driver. I plot my move by what I see around me. The quick response on the car insures I can maneuver my way out of potential hazards. I do drive over the speed limit but I have never gotten a ticket, largely because my eyes are always aware of what is around me, and what the risks are while driving. If a cop is driving faster than the speed limit, I don't mind keeping up. I do move aside so that speedier regular drivers can pass me. Here in Cali, it isn't unusual to see people doing in excess of 80 MPH.. whereas I am comfy around 75. Although I don't mind that people want to drive faster than I, it pisses me off when they ride my bumper. For those people, I deliberately slow down.
As a sub, I am practical and showy. I am more of a Risk aware sort of person rather than a safe and sane type. I tend to submit to people who are confident but not "in your face". When I am in the company of pushy people, I stand firm and do not comply.
What an amazing little comparison you have presented.
I wonder how others compare?
Kyst

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RE: What is your style of driving and do you think it r... - 1/29/2007 12:44:28 PM

SirKenin

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Why does everything have to relate to BDSM? Does how you take a shit reflect on your BDSM personality too?

The way anyone drives has absolutely nothing to do with BDSM. Certainly it has to do with personality traits, but they exist equally in every human, vanilla, kinky or otherwise.

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RE: What is your style of driving and do you think it r... - 1/29/2007 1:25:07 PM

griffn

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At first I learned to drive in Boston Ma. I was then known as a fucking M asshole driver. As I got older and became aware of what happens to aggressive drivers. It caused me to slow down but still drive aggressively. Then I got my CDL and began driving up to 80,000 lbs around the country. That in itself slowed me down and basically forced me to be as submissive a driver as possible. So its no wonder that I really enjoy being dominant outside of driving. If I am as aggressive driving as I am dominating then very bad things can happen. I cant help wanting to say back the fuck off you stupid 4 wheeler when cars try to cut me off. It's when people say things like you have air brakes so you can stop faster or you have 18 wheels so you can stop faster but most of all other trucks who ride my ass knowing what can happen. Now I'll stop ranting and just say It's a good thing that I'm able to remain calm courteous and considerate when people like that are on the road.

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RE: What is your style of driving and do you think it r... - 1/29/2007 5:43:50 PM

petdave

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I'm aggressive, courteous, and careful. I suppose you could say that's some of my personality, but I think it's more that I learned to drive in New Jersey.

You learned to be a courteous driver in New Jersey?!? Why didn't anyone else in the state?

And it occurred to me... my pickup has BIG bondage rings on the back bumper (3/4" steel shackles), and has a pile of rope and ratchet straps in the toolbox, so it does reflect my D/s tendencies

...dave

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RE: What is your style of driving and do you think it r... - 1/29/2007 8:05:12 PM

BRNaughtyAngel

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I drive an 06 Mustang vrooooom vrooooooom!

I am not submissive when I drive, but there are traits associated with submissiveness that carry over into my driving.

I am safe, courteous and polite, but I am most definitely an aggressive driver. I drive offensively and defensively. I pay attention to everything going on around me without it being obvious to anyone in the car with me. I do everything smoothly, with little fuss, quickly and efficiently.

My two careers, past and present, both required specific driving skills, although now, I drive for a living.

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RE: What is your style of driving and do you think it r... - 1/29/2007 8:30:34 PM

hisannabelle

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i don't drive. i think that means i'm a doormat. :P

just kidding. i don't drive because...1) it terrifies me, 2) i think it's silly to pollute the air when i can get around semi-fine on my own (okay, so the bus takes 30 minutes extra, but i survive) 3) i really am not in a financial position to go buying a car. i make just enough money to pay my bills and live comfortably, and as a university student at the moment (and with a dominant who lives close by - as in 5-10 minutes - and drives, and so that takes care of our traveling back and forth to each other) i really don't feel the need to learn to drive. most people think i'm just crazy.

which really isn't all that different from me and d/s. most people i know who know about my relationship think i'm crazy, either because i'm a submissive or because i'm in an age gap or because i'm poly or all of the above :P but seriously...i think it shows that i just...tend to prioritize differently than many people. in some ways, like the fact that i only own a small tv that was given to me as a gift and i only use cable cause it's included in my rent, i think it reflects on my ability to put money where i feel it is important...and i think a car is an unneeded expense for someone single and my age unless the public transportation system is completely shot, or nonexistent. which really shows one of the ways in which He and i are alike...although He does drive, etc. (He's had various jobs and living situations over the years that required at least one vehicle), He prioritizes things differently than many others as well when it comes to money, etc. in terms of how i react to traffic, it DEFINITELY relates a lot to how i react to people as a submissive. He has a tendency to get upset and snappish about things - for hours. i have learned to let it roll off my back and not let it make me feel terrible about myself as it used to. i'm similar when it comes to the whole issue of transportation...i really don't care to rush or be impulsive or get mad at people who are driving, etc. because i tend to have an easygoing mentality where that's concerned.

besides, my bussing time is very important to me. i get to do crossword puzzles and read and actually think, which i don't get much time to do during the rest of the day, hehehehe.

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RE: What is your style of driving and do you think it r... - 1/29/2007 9:07:26 PM

ChainedExistence

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I'd say my driving is somewhat reflective of my personality:

*If I could, I would rather let someone else drive. I much prefer to be a passenger. (I'm a slave....figures)
*The driving I do like involves scenic routes where you can roll down the windows and let the wind blow through your hair, and listen to music as loud as possible...OR...quiet drives through a balmy summer night. ( so I like it hot and wild, or steamy and slow!)
*I'm generous about letting other drivers cut in, and I'd much rather yield than push my way into the lane. (I'd rather give in)
*I get lost A LOT when driving someplace new, but give me enough time, and I can find my way around anywhere..finding shortcuts, or interesting side roads that few people know about. ( It takes me some time to get comfortable with new things, but when I do, I'm enthusiastic!)
*I don't enjoy the interstates at all...they make me sleepy, or anxious depending on the traffic. (Some sense of consistency is nice, but it can lead to boredom or an intense desire for change- I like the way the D/s is always leading me off in an unexpected direction)
*I like to take a road now and then..just to see where it goes. (slightly adventurous)
*I enjoy driving more with I have someone to talk with ( EVERYTHING is better with someone you love to talk and listen to)

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RE: What is your style of driving and do you think it r... - 1/29/2007 9:11:17 PM

all4yourplsr

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I saw this and it hit me. I'm a sub. I don't drive. I guess that is just another way of showing that I need help geting to where I need and want to go. :)

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RE: What is your style of driving and do you think it r... - 1/29/2007 9:19:12 PM

xGoddessx

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I am a careful driver, but I also drive at pretty high speeds. I am always alert to things and others around me though, and I think that makes a difference.

It kills me now that I have to let Daddy drive all of the time... I can't wait till I can do it again. I miss the control and freedom that it gave me, even being able to just take a long drive in the country.

Drea

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RE: What is your style of driving and do you think it r... - 1/29/2007 9:42:09 PM

domiguy

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I once drove my car through a woman's nipple.

out.

D.G.

p.s. Jesus please protect me from your followers.

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RE: What is your style of driving and do you think it r... - 1/29/2007 9:52:45 PM

cloudboy

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I hate driving and wish I could get around entirely on trains, subways, and foot.

The automobile has been the death of our society and a boon to the suburbs.

For a true aesthetic driving experience, tho, I get around on a 125 cc motor scooter during the warm weather months.

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RE: What is your style of driving and do you think it r... - 1/29/2007 9:55:51 PM

cloudboy

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirKenin

Does how you take a shit reflect on your BDSM personality too?

I'm sure LA has some direct thread links on this one. I like to moisten the toilet paper before I use it, which is classic submissive-with-switch-tendencies BM behavior.

< Message edited by cloudboy -- 1/29/2007 9:56:58 PM >

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RE: What is your style of driving and do you think it r... - 1/29/2007 10:02:26 PM

SirKenin

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quote:

ORIGINAL: cloudboy

quote:

ORIGINAL: SirKenin

Does how you take a shit reflect on your BDSM personality too?

I'm sure LA has some direct thread links on this one. I like to moisten the toilet paper before I use it, which is classic submissive-with-switch-tendencies BM behavior.

lmao. I have that thread cop blocked so I would not know, but how do you keep the tp from crumbling in your hands? I would think the true submissive trait is to wipe your Master's ass and to ask for permission to wipe your own. lol

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RE: What is your style of driving and do you think it r... - 1/29/2007 10:07:08 PM

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I have a 99 Ford Escort ZX2 - a car best termed as cute, but definitely practical as well. Since cute is the adjective I most often hear to describe me, it's funny that it also does a good job of describing my car. I have five bumper stickers on my car, which sort of lets my outspoken personality be known to all. As for how I drive.. I speed moderately, but go slow when I know I am in a treacherous position. I am careful about watching the other drives around me, and I do get angry when they are stupid, but I don't let it affect my ability to concentrate and I generally just try to get away from them, whether by letting them fly around me, or by passing them up.

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RE: What is your style of driving and do you think it r... - 1/30/2007 12:54:00 AM

Vendaval

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I drive a compact economy car with great gas mileage.
It is also very reliable and does fine with the tune-ups and
oil change every X number of miles as recommended by
the manual and the mechanics at a friend's garage.

I am courteous and careful when driving; speeding when
necessary in the highway insanity of a metro area
to avoid being rear-ended.

So yes, the courteous, careful, stable and good economy
personality traits apply to my D/s life as well. I am much
more about substance and reliability than flash and bling-bling.

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RE: What is your style of driving and do you think it r... - 1/30/2007 6:43:55 AM

asassylilslave

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What I drive, and how I drive has nothing to do with D/s and everything to do with my family and safety.

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