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Neck play - 1/31/2007 3:51:23 AM   
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RE: Neck play - 1/31/2007 6:31:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Watch

Any women into erotic asphyxiation?

YUP, not me though.

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RE: Neck play - 1/31/2007 6:48:18 AM   
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LOL I quite loved your answer... kinda says it all doesnt it? lol

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RE: Neck play - 1/31/2007 8:11:00 AM   
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Namaste, Sir Dominic

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RE: Neck play - 1/31/2007 8:12:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: onestandingstill

quote:

ORIGINAL: Watch

Any women into erotic asphyxiation?

YUP, not me though.


I second this.

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RE: Neck play - 1/31/2007 8:24:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Watch

Any women into erotic asphyxiation?


It's a truism that for any question that starts out "Any women" or for that matter "any men," the answer is always "yes."

That said, I recommend reading Jay Wiseman's essays on breath play at http://members.aol.com/OldRope/breamain.htm



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RE: Neck play - 1/31/2007 8:35:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		It depends to what level you are meaning, if its in  a very trusting relationship then it can be an interest of mine 

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RE: Neck play - 1/31/2007 8:35:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		i am an avid fan of asphixiation, but wouldnt trust anyone but my Master to do it.

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RE: Neck play - 1/31/2007 8:56:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		Not me either...though a hand ON my neck is sexy as hell...and sends me right into la la land.
 
I recently had a dominant friend, who knew my reaction to the hand-on-the-throat thang wrap his arm around my neck while I was restrained on a cross.  I passed out!  OMG
 
I thought he knew I didn’t do that…so this was a first.  I remember only coming-to…feeling my knees straighten (I’d been hanging in my wrist restraints) and experiencing the strong feeling I was going to throw up; and I was completely laced into leather hood!  Ugg…it was creepy and I couldn’t get the hood off fast enough; though I’m happy to say I didn’t actually get sick.  Blechhhhh!!!
 
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RE: Neck play - 1/31/2007 9:12:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		Bearlee, did you pass out from fear or pressure?  If he knew how you felt, why did he do that... i sure would have been angry as hell. 

i'm glad you didn't get sick, but it might have been what he deserved if you had you puked all over him!

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RE: Neck play - 1/31/2007 9:25:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Watch

Any women into erotic asphyxiation?


My owner and I do breath play, including with my neck.  I would only trust him with breath play let alone with breath play and choking involving my neck but I absolutely love it.  If you are interested in it I would definitely strongly urge getting educated on it from all perspectives, starting with Jay Wisemans essays (which I notice has already been mentioned).

C~


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RE: Neck play - 1/31/2007 11:14:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		It's not something I would participate in with just anyone.  But when my Dom puts his hand around my neck, yeah it's pretty hot.

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RE: Neck play - 1/31/2007 11:42:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sure, i love it.

My first intro to it was via a good friend years upon years ago.  i remember coming too and staring at hiim thinking "who is this guy and why the hell is he laughing his ass off" i remember looking around the room.......  and wondering where the hell i was.  It was massively strange. 

With Master, we do it, rarely and not for ages, but i love it.  Never passed out, never had a bad reaction and i think it rocks.


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RE: Neck play - 1/31/2007 12:02:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		i wanted to add, we only play around the neck [generally] sometimes when i am spunky He'll put His hands over my nose and mouth but this is a serious mind fuck for me and very little play like this occurs.

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RE: Neck play - 1/31/2007 5:48:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		I love breath play but only with someone I trust implicitly. There is one dominant who can do just about anything he wants to me and has including wrapping his hands around my throat, yum! Although he's never had me pass out.

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RE: Neck play - 1/31/2007 5:51:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		i enjoy breath play, but would not do it with anyone other than my dominant, and he is very careful about it - he generally doesn't do it for long periods of time and definitely not long enough for me to pass out. we're pretty light when it comes to this...nothing more than several seconds of pressure/choking, generally, and only on the neck. i'm not sure how i'd feel about going further, especially because of the medical risks and my preexisting medical issues, but i'm comfy with the little amount of it we do now and we both find it really enjoyable :)

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RE: Neck play - 1/31/2007 5:52:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Watch

Any women into erotic asphyxiation?


My cousin, Michael, died doing it.. so.. NOPE not me.

breath control, yes,, asphyxiation NO.

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RE: Neck play - 1/31/2007 6:22:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		With my current Dom, it is amazing, and I do enjoy it.  He is skilled and I have never passed out from it.  I do have a hard limit about my larynx not being compressed, carotid pressure is fine though.  I did read Wiseman's essay after He first introduced it into our play and we talked about it in depth afterwards and set the limits.  It has worked for us and I love the euphoria it produces.

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RE: Neck play - 1/31/2007 9:00:50 PM   
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RE: Neck play - 1/31/2007 9:05:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mixielicous

i wanted to add, we only play around the neck [generally] sometimes when i am spunky He'll put His hands over my nose and mouth but this is a serious mind fuck for me and very little play like this occurs.


There is something rather sensuous about driving a penis into her throat and blocking her airway.  Holding her head against it until I can feel her start to panic about having no air...

Although I imagine this is just me and I am probably wrong.

Sinergy

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