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RE: Are you a Good Mistress or a Bad Mistress? - 2/1/2007 1:40:09 PM

LadyRope

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for those of you who remember....(said with a May West voice) ohhh, When Im good Im bad,and when Im bad Im better,ohhh....think that sais it all..LOL

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RE: Are you a Good Mistress or a Bad Mistress? - 2/1/2007 1:45:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: MiladyElaine

This was a good question!
I am in the middle - understanding and patient up to a point, but find it hard to be strict and polite at the same time. Usually end up being strict.
Not sadistic enough for a maso, but more than some want.
I seek companionship and romance but not marriage.

I think I've mastered the art of being strict and polite. I've been accused of being .....Curt!!!!!!

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RE: Are you a Good Mistress or a Bad Mistress? - 2/1/2007 2:05:49 PM

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My favorite reply... I am really,really good at being bad.
Or I'm really,really bad at being good...

2 cups honesty
3 cups humor
4 cups pervert
= 1 great Mistress

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RE: Are you a Good Mistress or a Bad Mistress? - 2/1/2007 4:30:47 PM

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I can be nice or I can be cold as ice. It depends on who I am with, and how I feel.
If I had to make a choice, I would say I am a nice bad mistress.

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RE: Are you a Good Mistress or a Bad Mistress? - 2/1/2007 5:03:29 PM

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Depends on my mood...have you pissed me off? If you've pissed me off you can expect me to be as cold as ice to you...a chill you can feel across the room...and there is no way in hell I'll play you that way.

Otherwise I'm pretty laid back and nice...but I can beat you to bloody with a smile on my face and giggling the whole time...it throws a lot of people to watch me laughing while beating someone...but if you can't have fun while doing this...why are we here?

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RE: Are you a Good Mistress or a Bad Mistress? - 2/1/2007 8:51:29 PM

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I am glad to see a variety of attitudes, those reading this can see we are all different.
It is amazing that so many expect "us" to be the stereotypical Domina.
But we ALL know that ALL of us sit here and type in catsuits or expensive fetishware,
in full make-up, in our 6 inch thigh high boots, with whips and toys near by.
LOL

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RE: Are you a Good Mistress or a Bad Mistress? - 2/1/2007 8:55:53 PM

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I am most definately the good Domme type. I can be overly polite, I request things, i dont demand... however my pets know better than to piss me off. I am not always as cute and fluffy as I may appear. If I am pissed, I can be damn scary.

I am not this way becasue it is what someone i am with wants or likes, however. This is who I am. I am the same way in my more vanilla pursuits as well.

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RE: Are you a Good Mistress or a Bad Mistress? - 2/1/2007 9:37:50 PM

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"Worst Mistress ever" - Comic Book guy

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RE: Are you a Good Mistress or a Bad Mistress? - 2/3/2007 9:42:16 PM

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Being a biatch can be a lot of fun, and it helps keep little subbies in their place.

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RE: Are you a Good Mistress or a Bad Mistress? - 2/4/2007 10:51:38 AM

TexasMaam

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I walk softly and carry a big whip.

You decide.

; )

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RE: Are you a Good Mistress or a Bad Mistress? - 2/4/2007 3:14:15 PM

SCDommie

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I am too good of a Mistress sometimes. I am working on being a bad one! LOL
She is coming out. I cannot wait to get my slave into chasity, and then I am going to get the wand. Then I will call myself a bad Mistress.

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RE: Are you a Good Mistress or a Bad Mistress? - 2/4/2007 3:21:28 PM

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I am the perfect Mistress. I am just what many of the boys deserve.

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RE: Are you a Good Mistress or a Bad Mistress? - 2/4/2007 7:15:44 PM

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Stern.

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RE: Are you a Good Mistress or a Bad Mistress? - 2/4/2007 8:10:09 PM

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I'm usually nice and run on an even keel, I also request and don't usually order. I've always expected my requests to be met, the final say. I guess this may be one of the reasons I've had such confusion trying to place labels on myself.

I could take all Lorelei115's comment and apply it directly to me.

It takes alot to get me upset, however, I'm also menopausal and there are a few occasions if they do upset me, there's no place they're gonna be able to hide and things are gonna get ugly. They'll get the cold as ice treatment and later the lash of my tongue.

I prefer to reward rather than punish. I think I see the alternative as a reward for bad behavior. I wouldn't want to do the power struggle day after day. That's too much like work and I don't think it would work in a long term relationship that I would want to have. They either agree to it, or they don't.
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RE: Are you a Good Mistress or a Bad Mistress? - 2/5/2007 4:54:09 PM

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Margaret Hamilton stole that movie. What a great actress.

I think I am a little of both sides of the coin. But if I ever get as "sweet" as Glenda, I' am going to chew thru my own wrists.

mam

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RE: Are you a Good Mistress or a Bad Mistress? - 2/7/2007 5:22:58 AM

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I rarely post here but i felt i must tell you all that ShiftedJewel is a bad Mistress and a bad example.

Why just last night around 10 pm i wanted to go play in the foot or so of new fallen snow.

Not only did she not stop me she joined me, in her nightgown( i was in pj's) fuzzy boots and leather jacket and actively encouraged me to stomp in the snow after dark!

Lmao.....I love you, i had a ball. Grins, from snow bunny #2

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RE: Are you a Good Mistress or a Bad Mistress? - 2/7/2007 6:01:28 AM

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Lorelei, I just want to know - did you write this joke? That kills...

"Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in their shoes. That way, when you criticize them, you're a mile away and you have their shoes."

Mae West, on being a good, bad woman:

"When I'm good, I'm very, very good, but when I'm bad, I'm better."

"I used to be snow white, but I drifted."

"When faced with the choice of two evils, I usually pick the one I haven't tried before."

In "She Done Him Wrong":
Cary Grant: You baaad girl!
Mae West: Mmm, you'll find out.

- Mae West

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RE: Are you a Good Mistress or a Bad Mistress? - 2/7/2007 7:15:08 AM

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There is no screaming of commands, no gnashing of teeth, no queenly pronouncement. *

There is a core. There is passion, which is an animal only to be unleashed, in its unadulterated self, upon the right person, the one who welcomes and loves and needs to be with that side of me.

Perhaps this is the iron fist in the velvet glove, sometimes mentioned. Some people think that I’m too polite or nice, to be a dominant or a sadist. They are mistaken. There’s no need to yell.

* There is, however, the wearing of classically dommely, wholly impractical, and purely recreational apparel. I like it.

“You only hurt the ones you love.”

“If his love is to be called perverse, then let it be so, for maybe love is too great to be normal, too intense to be sane.”

- from a review of the Japanese film, “Sasayaki,” by screen name myownpteidaho, here: http://imdb.com/title/tt0208178.

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RE: Are you a Good Mistress or a Bad Mistress? - 2/7/2007 7:17:44 AM

Lorelei115

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MadameMarque

“If his love is to be called perverse, then let it be so, for maybe love is too great to be normal, too intense to be sane.”

- from a review of the Japanese film, “Sasayaki,” by screen name myownpteidaho, here: http://imdb.com/title/tt0208178.

Wow. That is a GREAT quote. Thank you for sharing it.

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RE: Are you a Good Mistress or a Bad Mistress? - 2/7/2007 8:18:24 AM

MistressMonet2u

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I've been accused of being "so sweet its hard to imagine you're a Mistress" ---said before they see me play

then they say "to be so sweet, you sure as hell arent to be toyed with" ----after they see me play

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