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MzMia -> February Roll Call Ladies/How is the New Year Going? (2/3/2007 9:55:38 PM)

I thought a monthly roll call would be a nice idea, ladies.[:D]
Okay...its February now, well into the New Year, what have you done different so far?
What is new on the BDSM front?

I have had a great New Year so far, I have a lot of projects that I am working on. {too many}

I still don't have a submissive, but hopefully I will have one by Thanksgiving. ROFL
I am learning to be kinder to myself and that is making it easier to be kinder to others.

I am happy and my soul is at peace, so all is okay in Mia's world.
Maybe the subbie will turn up eventually...time to go wabbit hunting! LOL[sm=mrpuffy.gif]




canupleaseme -> RE: February Roll Call Ladies/How is the New Year Going? (2/4/2007 12:04:35 AM)

Hi

So far this year i have finally gotten over my extreme phobia and gone to the dentist
Im quitting smoking (its  a bit rocky)
Im trying to be more confident in my approach with cetain play aspects with my boy
Im getting into the whole kicking about thing with him
Im still searching for a maid/ butler  (not very sucessfully)
And im making more of an effort to make friends in my local bdsm community
Im not as happy as i would like to be yet this yera but im working on it [:D]




KarbonCopy -> RE: February Roll Call Ladies/How is the New Year Going? (2/4/2007 2:29:10 AM)

- well i've ended a 4 year relationship
- had to rescue my best friend after he got into a car wreck out in the middle of nowhere on his way up north for school
- Lost my job
- Health is failing.

2007 is teh rokz!




ShiftedJewel -> RE: February Roll Call Ladies/How is the New Year Going? (2/4/2007 2:53:56 AM)

I hate Feb.... January was great though.
 
Jewel




LadyMarmalade1 -> RE: February Roll Call Ladies/How is the New Year Going? (2/4/2007 3:14:05 AM)

The year started out good with my sub home for the holidays.  Now we are both back to work, which sucks, but it has to be done.
I'm trying to enforce more control over him despite the long distance stuff, and he's getting into a system with specific duties, and we are in better contact now more often throughout the day.
While we are apart, I am spending more of my time writing, which İ had planned to do all along, finally I've got my butt in gear.
I'm sensing that this is going to be a very long year:)




DianeB269 -> RE: February Roll Call Ladies/How is the New Year Going? (2/4/2007 4:58:54 AM)

Lets see,
I just paid off my third house.
One of my subs bought me a new car. (why? I don't know)
I'm going to Palermo for a few months.
I sold 2 of my dirtbikes.

I would say the new year is going pretty well so far.

Diane




KaramelGoddess -> RE: February Roll Call Ladies/How is the New Year Going? (2/4/2007 6:37:40 AM)

Mia you start some of the best positive threads, thank you. [;)]
 
I'm starting year 4 with My devoted online boy. [sm=crop.gif]
The renovations on My new house are finally done and I am all moved in.  Now it's time to decorate!
I'm starting this year feeling more financially secure than I ever have.
I am loving My new job more and more each day.
Still on the lookout for a compatible real time submissive - keeping fingers crossed for that one! All the good ones seem to be in the states or UK!
 
With kind regard,
~Kara




thetammyjo -> RE: February Roll Call Ladies/How is the New Year Going? (2/4/2007 7:52:08 AM)

January was rough, actually this semester has been rough.

I can't believe I'm teaching the same classes and there is such a big difference. The class is more organized and every student has a manual with all the in-class and homework in it. And yet, this group is like the definition of clueless come to life. We are about to start week five of the semester and some of them still don't have their manuals.

Also the research team I joined is not nearly as well organized as I had been led to believe. I have neither the time nor the authority to better organize it. Poor organization is one of my pet peeves.

Finally I found another passage that no one who has studied the topic my dissertation is about has found. While that might be great on some level I'm just trying to revise the bloody thing!

BDSM wise and writing wise though things are great.

Fox drove me for 7 hours yesterday back and forth to a great club in Ohio where I did a reading, talked, and was fed good food. I even made a lot more than I spent to get there and back.




Lorelei115 -> RE: February Roll Call Ladies/How is the New Year Going? (2/4/2007 9:32:13 AM)

January was a hell month for me financially this year. *Sigh* I really am thinking of taking up pro-domming on the side to pay some bills. So far, this month is a bit better, but still struggling uphill.
Emotionally, January was kinda blah, ups and downs, but February (so far) has been incredible! Every so often I just have to ask myself how I got so damn lucky.
On the BDSM front, I've been exploring and expanding myself. Trying to take the focus off sex and the physical aspects and move it to other, more mental areas, see if it makes me as happy as I think it will.
Job wise.. meh. Things are kind of sliding downhill. Its winter so there are very few hours to be had, and that contibutes a lot to my problems. (See top.)

Same shit, different year. But I'm working and moving forward, and I have a feeling spring this year is going to bring many positive changes. [:)]




DiannaVesta -> RE: February Roll Call Ladies/How is the New Year Going? (2/4/2007 11:50:13 AM)

Why not do phone domination? I know it’s competitive but it’s really a lot of fun. I make good money with my businesses and of course the dreaded “financial slaves” (laughing) that I have keeping me living large and Goddess like, however I enjoy exploring new people, making extra money and I feel that I am helping a lot of people explore when they have no other venue or feel lonely.
  I am happy to help you with advice, resources or anything else you need.   Dianna




DiannaVesta -> RE: February Roll Call Ladies/How is the New Year Going? (2/4/2007 11:52:54 AM)

:::rasing hand::::: oh yeah and I'm around. I pop in to read what I can but to be honest I've been swamped. I set up a huge greenhouse and been growing a lot of great stuff & learning new organic systems. So I work work work all day then head down to the greenhouse at night (I have lights). I'm also training quite a bit and having a great time. 2007 is definately going to be my year!




MzMia -> RE: February Roll Call Ladies/How is the New Year Going? (2/4/2007 12:31:05 PM)

It's nice to hear how everyone is doing....we tend to proclaim so many things around the first of the year, and then forget them!
I think it is important to keep that NEW YEAR spirit throughout the year.
 
Canupleaseme-congrats on quitting smoking! and going to the dentist...good luck on finding a sincere quality maid/butler...
I am not giving up my quest for a service minded submissive, I refuse to.

{{{KarbonCopy}}}  I hope things begin to improve for you. [&o] Hopefully you will get a better job that you enjoy and
I hope you are able to become healthier.....we are only 2 months into the New Year...keep your spirits up and hopeful.
 
 
Jewel--dang February just started, LOL  I am wondering where the hell January went, it flew by...way to damn fast.
 
LadyMarmalade- Glad you saw your subbie over the holidays, is either of you planning to move?  I moved to Florida 8 years ago
after I married a man I met online--I made him marry me before I moved. [;)]  We divorced, but I don't regret it at all, we are still great
friends and I loved living in Florida, something I will never forget.
 
DianeB--We are all jealous [:'(] LOL  I am hardly a gold digger but I have NO problem acquiring a dedicated a serious submissive that
has deep pockets and can afford to spoil me. [:D] You go Diane!
 
Karamel! Thank you, I thought a monthly role call would be a fun idea to see how we are doing instead of waiting until next NewYearsDay!
Congratulations on your home!!! That is a lot of work, that is exactly what I am doing now, not renovating but more of fixing up an older

family home.  It is a lot of time, money and work!!  Enjoy your new place!
I hope you meet a real time submissive this year, anyway the online submissive can turn into the real-time submissive?
 
TammyJo-thanks for posting. It is nice to hear how a Dominant woman can be successful and also have a serious dedicated submissive
to assist in that success!!  Inspiring.
 
Loreliei--sorry about the financial difficulties....sigh...I KNOW how you feel, and financial difficulities weigh heavily on your mind.
I hope you get some financial blessings SOON, and things are brighter for you soon!

DiannaVesta!!! Our resident "SuperStar"!  Hello and thank you for posting!!
I love your websight and we are honored by your presence!
As someone rather new to this lifestyle, I admire all that you have contributed to Female Supremacy!![:)]

Good luck on the greenhouse, I need to THINK about landscaping in the Spring---but it is very time consuming, but I know it is rewarding.
Maybe next year for me......
 
Goodluck Everyone**Its still not to late to have a wonderful New Year**
 
 
 




Lorelei115 -> RE: February Roll Call Ladies/How is the New Year Going? (2/4/2007 12:37:42 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

Why not do phone domination? I know it’s competitive but it’s really a lot of fun. I make good money with my businesses and of course the dreaded “financial slaves” (laughing) that I have keeping me living large and Goddess like, however I enjoy exploring new people, making extra money and I feel that I am helping a lot of people explore when they have no other venue or feel lonely.
I am happy to help you with advice, resources or anything else you need. Dianna


That sounds like a great idea! Thank you very much. [:D]




KarbonCopy -> RE: February Roll Call Ladies/How is the New Year Going? (2/4/2007 12:44:55 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia
{{{KarbonCopy}}}  I hope things begin to improve for you. [&o] Hopefully you will get a better job that you enjoy and
I hope you are able to become healthier.....we are only 2 months into the New Year...keep your spirits up and hopeful.


Hehe, i got brackets :p

Thanks, I hope things get better too, kinda a rough way to start the year, but its not really abnormal in my world. As for a job, i'm a welder, so its only a matter of waiting around untill there's a call out for my level.




DiannaVesta -> RE: February Roll Call Ladies/How is the New Year Going? (2/4/2007 1:14:05 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

DiannaVesta!!! Our resident "SuperStar"!  Hello and thank you for posting!!
I love your websight and we are honored by your presence!
As someone rather new to this lifestyle, I admire all that you have contributed to Female Supremacy!![:)]

Good luck on the greenhouse, I need to THINK about landscaping in the Spring---but it is very time consuming, but I know it is rewarding.
Maybe next year for me......
 
Goodluck Everyone**Its still not to late to have a wonderful New Year**
 


Thank you! You should stop by The Ladies Garden at FemSupreme, especially spring. lol- yeah thats right we have a garden forum on a  femdom site.  I gte teased about that a lot.




DiannaVesta -> RE: February Roll Call Ladies/How is the New Year Going? (2/4/2007 1:16:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: canupleaseme

Hi

So far this year i have finally gotten over my extreme phobia and gone to the dentist
Im quitting smoking (its  a bit rocky)
Im trying to be more confident in my approach with cetain play aspects with my boy
Im getting into the whole kicking about thing with him
Im still searching for a maid/ butler  (not very sucessfully)
And im making more of an effort to make friends in my local bdsm community
Im not as happy as i would like to be yet this yera but im working on it [:D]




I feel the same about the dentist. I hate things shove in my mouth while I lie there helpless. lol

Here is what I do after a trip back from the dentist & relieve my frustrations:

http://www.diannavesta.com/sissy.gif

lol- sorry had to share that one.

Congrats on quitting smoking. That is a tough one.




MistressDoMe -> RE: February Roll Call Ladies/How is the New Year Going? (2/4/2007 3:42:13 PM)

One month into a new year, and life is going fairly well.
Great thread.




spidrwomn -> RE: February Roll Call Ladies/How is the New Year Going? (2/4/2007 5:46:03 PM)

MzMia, Your rollcall prompted me to post... and I will go back and give an introduction also!
 
February is my birthday month... so it's a great one. It's also the month of O/our annual play party here at Spidrsden. A small affair still. My girl rowdy, is growing into a fine intelligent submissive. And My naughty little boy is, well... naughty! a lot of the time! I'm so proud of both of them!
 
Finances will be better this year; I'm ready for a new  house boy/girl to present her/himself and I'll be heading off to Greece for 3 weeks with my sister later this spring!
 
I look forward to getting to know some of you more. Would someone PLEASE tell me how to get rid of the vanilla ice cream cone next to my avatar!
 
[sm=whip.gif]




DianeB269 -> RE: February Roll Call Ladies/How is the New Year Going? (2/4/2007 6:04:56 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: spidrwomn

MzMia, Your rollcall prompted me to post... and I will go back and give an introduction also!
 
February is my birthday month... so it's a great one. It's also the month of O/our annual play party here at Spidrsden. A small affair still. My girl rowdy, is growing into a fine intelligent submissive. And My naughty little boy is, well... naughty! a lot of the time! I'm so proud of both of them!
 
Finances will be better this year; I'm ready for a new  house boy/girl to present her/himself and I'll be heading off to Greece for 3 weeks with my sister later this spring!
 
I look forward to getting to know some of you more. Would someone PLEASE tell me how to get rid of the vanilla ice cream cone next to my avatar!
 
[sm=whip.gif]



It will change after you make 98 more posts.


Diane




MzMia -> RE: February Roll Call Ladies/How is the New Year Going? (2/5/2007 3:13:31 PM)

Thanks for the update and Happy Birthday Spiderwoman! now you need to keep posting to get rid of the ice cream cone!




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