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RE: Myth Busters? - 2/6/2007 3:59:14 PM   
openmindedslave


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RE: Myth Busters? - 2/6/2007 4:08:47 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		being openminded means being willing to change all your interests to fit that of the dominant who takes control of you

you dont really need to get along with a dominant outside of a scene.

If someone isnt willing to call you the first day they exchange messages wth you, then they must be fake.

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RE: Myth Busters? - 2/6/2007 4:27:46 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ToServeIsToLive
So many negative sterotypes.
These are myths, and the wankers like to think of us as dirrrrrrrty cheap bad girls dontcha know?    M

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RE: Myth Busters? - 2/6/2007 5:19:24 PM   
PsyVamp


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

quote:

ORIGINAL: ToServeIsToLive
So many negative sterotypes.
These are myths, and the wankers like to think of us as dirrrrrrrty cheap bad girls dontcha know?    M


oh oh oh!  You mean I'm a good girl? 

Okay, okay, you're right, I'm a very good girl....lol



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RE: Myth Busters? - 2/6/2007 5:20:45 PM   
PsyVamp


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

being openminded means being willing to change all your interests to fit that of the dominant who takes control of you

you dont really need to get along with a dominant outside of a scene.

If someone isnt willing to call you the first day they exchange messages wth you, then they must be fake.


Dominant women ALWAYS want people they don't know to call them "Mistress"

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RE: Myth Busters? - 2/6/2007 8:34:14 PM   
cloudboy


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God that's sour in tone.

When I finally got to peek around the curtain and meet real Mistresses, what struck me was:

1. Mistresses are just ordinary people like everyone else and that normalcy plays a great role in their lives and world outlook.

2. Mistresses have insecurities and emotional vulnerabilities notwithstanding being "dominant."

3. Mistresses have a sense of humor and don't always take themselves or what they do that seriously.

All these things contradict the imperial, all-knowing, Queen-Goddess achetype.

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RE: Myth Busters? - 2/6/2007 10:57:21 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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ORIGINAL: PsyVamp
oh oh oh!  You mean I'm a good girl? 
Okay, okay, you're right, I'm a very good girl....lol
Yes, I'm giving us up, and disappointing those with fantastic ideas by admitting we're simply women.
quote:

cloudboy
All these things contradict the imperial, all-knowing, Queen-Goddess achetype.
Now wait just a minute!   Where's the face with hands on hips wagging fingers to emphasize "I may not always be right, but I'm never wrong."      M

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RE: Myth Busters? - 2/7/2007 10:37:19 AM   
VeryMercurial


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Status: offline 		I agree with most of what has been posted here.  But, I have another angle.  Are there really that many myths?
I think many submissive males are living in fantasy land, they create a lot of things and situations in their minds,
and are looking for a woman to fulfill their desires.  This is my opinion, from talking to so many men online.

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RE: Myth Busters? - 2/7/2007 11:27:55 AM   
hereyesruponyou


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Status: offline 		And don't forget you now "OWN" them. These people you've never met. Who have no idea who you are. and they will prove it to you by doing insane and assinine things. 

Come on now ladies, admit it. You really do want a rude, pushy, impatient, obnoxious slave who can't spell or write a complete sentence to tell you just what to do, right? 

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RE: Myth Busters? - 2/7/2007 10:14:27 PM   
Lorelei115


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Status: offline 		A dominant woman has oodles of spare time to think up elaborate scenes, and on the drop of a dime is ready to disclose every detail of what will happen in said scene to a submissive male.

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RE: Myth Busters? - 2/7/2007 10:54:24 PM   
MstrssScarlet


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Status: offline 		All dommes know (better yet, own) lots of female slaves who are just sitting around waiting to scene with whatever male sub/slave you bring home.

All dommes are looking for male subs/slaves who are "orally talented".  Judging from the number of offers, we MUST be!

All dommes are really men haters.

Mistress Scarlet

P.S.  All you dommes who have been hogging more than your share of the female slaves, send one to me! 





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RE: Myth Busters? - 2/7/2007 10:55:42 PM   
MstrssScarlet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lorelei115

A dominant woman has oodles of spare time to think up elaborate scenes, and on the drop of a dime is ready to disclose every detail of what will happen in said scene to a submissive male.


Love this one!

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RE: Myth Busters? - 2/8/2007 1:22:07 AM   
mons


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oh we never fall in love with our slaves ! or have feeling for them

mons

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RE: Myth Busters? - 2/8/2007 7:43:03 PM   
DreamyLadySnow


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Status: offline 		SCDommie,

BRAVA! That's exactly what I find - too much porn, too little reality.

LS

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RE: Myth Busters? - 2/8/2007 7:47:39 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		You know, I was told im a fake becasue I dont like being refered to as Mistress?

I think we may have forgotten that we all want to dress our men as women, to make them more submissive. That and we want to cuckold them.

Now, I wonder, do we want to cuckold them with other men who are also dressed as women for us?

HMmmmmm

DV (can you tell I need sleep, or caffiene... one of the two)

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RE: Myth Busters? - 2/8/2007 7:54:09 PM   
MistressTruth


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Status: offline 		Thank you for making light of "subs" who make up sh*t in their heads about what they think a female dominant is.

I once asked a "sub" what he thought a female dominant was and he could give me this real distinct answer of what he thought a female dominant should be. Yet when I asked him to come up with a definition for what a male dominant was he (surprise surprise) couldn't think of a damn thing. Submission does not entail defining what the dominant is like, in fact, defining what someone "should" be like is actually dominance on a grand scale.


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RE: Myth Busters? - 2/11/2007 1:41:51 PM   
openmindedslave


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Status: offline 		I was talking to one Mistress who is going through a death in her family so she is not really focused on play so much but does have slaves who did call her everyday because of  the promise to serve.So when she is not that strong  ,"beat your ass" Mistress to them , the value or promise to serve disappears. She is not hearing from her special slave for a while now, even though he promised to be there for her........ -I guess Mistresses are suppose to be uneffected by real lifes events...

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RE: Myth Busters? - 2/11/2007 2:16:12 PM   
wyldsubmissive


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Status: offline 		I'm not a Mistress but I've heard multiple misconceptions about them.

1. All Mistresses are bitches.
2. They all want to fuck male sub/slaves with strap-ons.
3. Latex and PVC is everyday wear.
4. They ALL call themselves Goddesses. And normally the Goddesses call themselves such due to *ahem* weight.

Just my $.02!

-Wyld

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RE: Myth Busters? - 2/11/2007 2:20:39 PM   
ServeMeInVA


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Status: offline 		Why am I not surprised? I hope she isn't either.

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RE: Myth Busters? - 2/11/2007 2:40:50 PM   
SCDommie


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Status: offline 		I would say the biggest problem people have reading me on the internet is that I am very real time.   It could be because I have not found the right group for me.  I really love the groups because it helps me learn.
They confuse new Mistress with inadequate Mistress.  I have been in the life four years now.  I am getting ready to start my slave in Chasity.  I have come a long way in a short time period.  I have learned from local people as well as the internet. 
I am happy to say that people I know are beginning to accept me as the Mistress I am becoming.
Let's face it.  Sometimes myself included, lifers can be very cruel to each other. 
The best thing is to accept each other for what we are and try not to judge. 

SCD

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