LadyAngelika
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Let me say for starters that I know very little about SSC and/or RACK. I don't pay much attention to it or any other set of rules. I use common sense when I play. That's all I need. quote:
What do you think about acts of "extreme sadism"? As GentleLady said, what is extreme sadism to one might be child’s play to another. I don’t actually consider myself to be an extreme sadist because I’m not into it for extremes. I have nothing to prove to anyone but myself. I may have had moments that I have considered extreme and what qualifies as extreme for me now might be nothing later on, once I get past another boundary. First off, I have to say I’ve never had the opportunity to play with a *heavy* masochist. I think for many (certainly not all), between the fantasy of masochism and the reality of what they can endure is a huge gap. I’m not saying that gap cannot be bridged with someone trustworthy. In fact, I know it can. I have masochistic tendencies and I have gone way beyond what I originally could endure with someone that I trust. Second of all, I have this policy of not doing to anyone what I have not had done to me before. That may change in time if I ever meet someone more masochist then myself ;) But to date, that has not happened. Though I have met people who have had a higher tolerance for certain activities, such as breast/nipple torture – I have the world’s most sensitive nipples but the rest of my body can take quite the beating. quote:
ORIGINAL: LadyTantalize Sooooooo, I know I've got a few tales of "extreme sadism" to tell...... Let's hear some of Y/yours!!! So now to answer LadyT’s original question, what have I done that I consider “extreme”… no wait, I’m going to say “hard core”, not extreme. - Figging is always fun. I like mixing it up with a hogtie so that not only is the sensation intense but they can’t squirm out of it. - Along the same lines, after a long session, allowing a submissive to masturbate him/herself but with toothpaste as a lubricant. Funny how that makes it a little harder to cum… - Caning is what I like to do best. Usually when I take out my cane, I see the look of fear on their face. Just that is a turn on. I have caned very few as most subs I’ve played with have made it a hard limit early on. - Clothespins seem like such harmless little things, but I have so much fun with them. I like putting them on, a few at a time, a few dozen at time, taking them off with my teeth (a Dom friend of mine saying that was one of the hottest things he’s ever seen), taking them off with the snap of a crop whip, having them beg me to take them off then putting them back on at exactly the same place 2 minutes later… ha! - CBT I enjoy very much, binding, slapping, scratching, teeth grazing, sand paper, weights, clothespins of course… - Mental torture is grand as well. I like to play with POW/Interrogation type scenes. Face slapping, spitting, verbal humiliation all falls into this. - I find predicament bondage to be deliciously sadistic as well. Watching them teeter between one particularly uncomfortable, perhaps even painful position to another. Or to put them in a situation of conflicts of desire. As Sirensong said, I love when they glare at me, not always, but sometimes. Some of them actually have cute little pouts. I’ve topped a Dom friend a few times and now and then he’ll say “you bitch”, which of course gets him in a whole hell of a lot more hot water but sometimes I think he does it on purpose. I also like Sirensong’s “mental verbal restraint” which I use a lot as well. I’ve also used simulated restraints such as paper handcuffs or raw egg gags where the sub has the added pressure of restraining him/herself. In the end, no matter what I choose to do, I always tailor my scenes in function of my desires at that particular moment as well as with my submissive’s fears/desires as well. - LA
< Message edited by LadyAngelika -- 3/9/2005 8:30:21 AM >
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