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It's a real shame that not all profiles have pictures a... - 2/5/2007 6:14:20 PM   
seekstofasn8adom


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Status: offline 		To be able to associate/put a name to face.But what does everyonelse think about this please?Thanks again for any replies here ta very much indeed..
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RE: It's a real shame that not all profiles have pictur... - 2/5/2007 6:20:46 PM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		You know, of course, that not everyone CAN put a picture on their profile.  Could be due to family pressures, job, etc.

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RE: It's a real shame that not all profiles have pictur... - 2/5/2007 6:21:51 PM   
DianeB269


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RE: It's a real shame that not all profiles have pictur... - 2/5/2007 6:23:47 PM   
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RE: It's a real shame that not all profiles have pictur... - 2/5/2007 6:29:59 PM   
HarleyKitty69


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Status: offline 		looks good on a post but as pointed out so well allready..... some just can't ..
I have a different problem they would not aprove the picture I wanted to post.
me on Nightmare flipping everybody off...
WHAT ??  Was it something I said ....

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RE: It's a real shame that not all profiles have pictur... - 2/5/2007 6:36:42 PM   
FullCircle


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RE: It's a real shame that not all profiles have pictur... - 2/5/2007 7:01:14 PM   
seekstofasn8adom


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ORIGINAL: RobertCloud

Many people have jobs that if they were discovered here they would face immediate termination, even though their peronal lives should be separated from their work lives they are not.

               No sorry i really have to disagree with you here if people are scared to put a picture onto their own idividual profile.Cause just incase someone from their works might see me on here attitude and i might lose my job.That is a really silly attitude to take i think really,it is.As what you do in your own time is completely upto you,and it has nothing at all to do with what company you may work with.

As it really has nothing at all to do with them,as if someone from your works is looking at your profile.Well then either he or she has got to be into the bdsm scene aswell,so you really have nothing to worry about i don't think,at all really.As this person at your works certainly can't report you,for what you are doing on Collarme.com,without not dropping themselves in it lol.

So come on you lot all who have'nt got pics on your profile please kindly do so,as it is really lovely to be able to put a name to a face.I could'nt care less who see's my pic on here as Collarme.com is a way of life for me.You must'nt worry to much about other people, as life is really to short.To worry about what everyonelse may or may not think about you..
                     

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RE: It's a real shame that not all profiles have pictur... - 2/5/2007 7:09:15 PM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		Wrong.  Maybe in the UK, but not necessarily here in the States.  In a privately owned company, you can get fired if the owner doesn't like the perfume you're wearing.  Please get your facts straight BEFORE you post.



< Message edited by bandit25 -- 2/5/2007 7:10:26 PM >

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RE: It's a real shame that not all profiles have pictur... - 2/5/2007 7:12:48 PM   
Aileen68


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edited to add...just remembered.  Turned down twice.
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RE: It's a real shame that not all profiles have pictur... - 2/5/2007 7:13:36 PM   
smirkingsheep


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quote:

ORIGINAL: seekstofasn8adom

quote:

ORIGINAL: RobertCloud

Many people have jobs that if they were discovered here they would face immediate termination, even though their peronal lives should be separated from their work lives they are not.

              No sorry i really have to disagree with you here if people are scared to put a picture onto their own idividual profile.Cause just incase someone from their works might see me on here attitude and i might lose my job.That is a really silly attitude to take i think really,it is.As what you do in your own time is completely upto you,and it has nothing at all to do with what company you may work with.


What if you're a grade school teacher, and a parent that just happens to be curious about BDSM (although hasn't learned the etiquitte) finds out you're into this?  A lot of parents are really crazy and don't want to expose their children to that.  There are parents that don't want their children in a classroom with a homosexual teacher. 
It's not necessarily about ridicule from the company, it could be about ridicule from clients a person my have.

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RE: It's a real shame that not all profiles have pictur... - 2/5/2007 7:16:08 PM   
TreSwank


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Status: offline 		You should thank whatever God you pray to, seekstofasn8adom, that everyone on CollarMe doesn't have a picture on their profile.  See......on CollarMe you've got the good, the bad, and the hideously ugly that shouldn't leave their homes on account of being accidently shot down by hunters enjoying the moose season.

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RE: It's a real shame that not all profiles have pictur... - 2/5/2007 7:35:55 PM   
Lorelei115


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Status: offline 		I dunno, after a while I just associate people's avatars with them. Its gonna be a damn shock if I ever meet LAM and he ain't an elephant. Or if benji doesn't have a halo. Or if Tre is wearing a different shirt.

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RE: It's a real shame that not all profiles have pictur... - 2/5/2007 8:11:07 PM   
smirkingsheep


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RE: It's a real shame that not all profiles have pictur... - 2/5/2007 11:33:18 PM   
lilsubl


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Status: offline 		may i just say, seeks, that you are a tad bit naive & that i wish i could live in your world...what color is the sky there????

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RE: It's a real shame that not all profiles have pictur... - 2/5/2007 11:38:30 PM   
TreSwank


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ORIGINAL: Lorelei115

I dunno, after a while I just associate people's avatars with them. Its gonna be a damn shock if I ever meet LAM and he ain't an elephant. Or if benji doesn't have a halo. Or if Tre is wearing a different shirt.


*Laughing:  I haven't even seen that hoodie in close to a year, and my hair is jet-black nowadays.  People that KNOW me don't recognize the Swankster when I change my hair color.

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RE: It's a real shame that not all profiles have pictur... - 2/6/2007 12:05:42 AM   
quietkitten


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Status: offline 		Not interested in posting my mug on here... this place occasionally hits international news and I don't feel like trying to explain myself to a whole lotta friends and family thanks:)

Edited because I just hit the quick reply.. sorry treswank

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RE: It's a real shame that not all profiles have pictur... - 2/6/2007 12:06:57 AM   
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RE: It's a real shame that not all profiles have pictur... - 2/6/2007 12:12:56 AM   
Vendaval


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Hey, your situation in your country is different from here in
the USA.  Many occupations have certain behavioral expectations
of their employees - i.e. moral conduct.  A person who works
with children in any capacity, a civil servant, a member of the
clergy or simply someone who live in a small town has to be
careful about being publically recognized for Kink.
 
If you want to find out how bad this situation can be,
ask some of the divorced parents here if their ex-spouses
used their sexual preferences in custody fights.  Hell,
ask some of the people whose private parties, homes,
and dungeons have been raided by the police and whose
members have been arrested.  I suggest you do a Web-search
on the NCSF, National Coalition for Sexual Freedom and
the court case of The San Diego Six.
 
 
 


quote:

ORIGINAL: seekstofasn8adom

              No sorry i really have to disagree with you here if people are scared to put a picture onto their own idividual profile.Cause just incase someone from their works might see me on here attitude and i might lose my job.That is a really silly attitude to take i think really,it is.As what you do in your own time is completely upto you,and it has nothing at all to do with what company you may work with.

As it really has nothing at all to do with them,as if someone from your works is looking at your profile.Well then either he or she has got to be into the bdsm scene aswell,so you really have nothing to worry about i don't think,at all really.As this person at your works certainly can't report you,for what you are doing on Collarme.com,without not dropping themselves in it lol.
          



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RE: It's a real shame that not all profiles have pictur... - 2/6/2007 1:10:48 AM   
NorthernGent


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lilsubl

may i just say, seeks, that you are a tad bit naive & that i wish i could live in your world...what color is the sky there????



I think there's a cultural difference here and quite possibly a legal difference.

My understanding is, in Britain, company law protects workers' freedom of choice in relation to private matters (there will be no resulting dismissal, unless you are breaking the law). I suppose this is one the benefits of living in a culturally, less conservative environment.

I do take the point that the post in question was made by an American relating his experience.





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RE: It's a real shame that not all profiles have pictur... - 2/6/2007 1:14:46 AM   
NorthernGent


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ORIGINAL: smirkingsheep

What if you're a grade school teacher, and a parent that just happens to be curious about BDSM (although hasn't learned the etiquitte) finds out you're into this?  A lot of parents are really crazy and don't want to expose their children to that.  There are parents that don't want their children in a classroom with a homosexual teacher. 
It's not necessarily about ridicule from the company, it could be about ridicule from clients a person my have.



The above makes sense. If you're a teacher, do you want to open yourself up to ignorant parents........probably not. Whether or not ignorant parents read this site is a different matter but I can see that maybe it's a risk not worth taking.

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