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ORIGINAL: dougieboy

               i'm new to this forum so first of all hi 
since Dominant Women have fascinated me since childhood i just couldnt resist but start out in the "ask a Mistress" forum.

anyway, my question is related to a recent experience with a Domme.  we had been seeing eachother for a couple years, casually but on a fairly regular basis.  she enjoyed smacking me around and humiliating me and in return i was a good little bitch

the only thing i ever really craved aside from our normal activities was having her use and humiliate me in front of her female friends.  i had always fantasized about her having some girlfriends over, me serving them, performing for them, that sort of thing.

i gently brought it up to her one time.  i made sure to emphasize that i didnt want to do anything with them, but that i just wanted to be her bitch in front of them.  it think it would heighten the feelings of humilation and submissiveness alot to be submissive to her in front of other people.  it would feel much safer to me with Women as opposed to men.

well, she wasn't into it, and of course that was fine.  she said that she didn't like "sharing her toys" with other girls.  well, being a good sub i didn't push the issue and i accepted her word as final.  subsequently, she did do things to me in front of her gay male friends.  nothing really wild, but just casual bossing me around and stuff.  of course this was humiliating but closer to a bad humiliation than the good kind i was seeking with her female friends.  but i was happy for the abuse nonetheless.

anyway, i just thought i would pose the question to the Women of this site.  are you reluctant to "share your toys"?  and if so why?  i will humbly await your responses or being  completely ignored

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ORIGINAL: MistressTaboo

It's a pretty common fantasy. And it really depends on what you mean by serve. If you meant serve them drinks while in nothing but shorts and a bow tie...there are parties for that. If you meant sexually...I don't know of any Domme's that share their toys that way. It's only in men's fiction are they made to service multiple Domme's with their tongue.

But it's it's just service or talents I've been known to loan mine out. For example many Dom/me's in the local scene call my slave Dratt for tech support. And last summer when we were on vacation I loaned our house pet out to a friend that was moving. He didn't have anything to do while we were gone and she was semi laid up and needed the help.

When we host a dinner, my slave and the house boy are expected to cook and clean and serve.

Ms Taboo

Well stated MsTaboo, fantasy land.....next stop Oz.
I am very willing to "share" him--as I stated he will cook, serve, clean for a large group of people!
How is that for "sharing"?  Oops I forgot! He will also buy the food.


 

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