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mixielicous -> sub drop? excuses (2/8/2007 6:51:58 PM)

i see a lot here, girls wrestling with the ideas of subdrop - while after a scene w/o cuddling yea i guess i can understand but if your drop goes on and on honey, you're just looking to sugar coat your depression with pretty words that make you feel more like a slave and less like a human with emotional needs - like anyone else[sm=river.gif].



MaryT -> RE: sub drop? excuses (2/8/2007 6:59:10 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mixielicous

i see a lot here, girls wrestling with the ideas of subdrop - while after a scene w/o cuddling yea i guess i can understand but if your drop goes on and on honey, you're just looking to sugar coat your depression with pretty words that make you feel more like a slave and less like a human with emotional needs - like anyone else[sm=river.gif].


I think there is truth in your words Mixie, and a nice helping of moxie too.  [:)]



justinasamerk -> RE: sub drop? excuses (2/8/2007 7:08:52 PM)

AMEN to that Mixie.....:)



HarleyKitty69 -> RE: sub drop? excuses (2/8/2007 7:15:44 PM)

Whatever....
I disagree with you in so many level I don't even know where to start....
I respect your opinion but your are dead wrong

~greed~
Single, Free and Loving it



twicehappy -> RE: sub drop? excuses (2/8/2007 7:19:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: HarleyKitty69

Whatever....
I disagree with you in so many level I don't even know where to start....
I respect your opinion but your are dead wrong


I do not see the person you are replying to, did this get posted in the wrong thread?



mixielicous -> RE: sub drop? excuses (2/8/2007 7:20:13 PM)

i think it was to me [[shrug]]



HarleyKitty69 -> RE: sub drop? excuses (2/8/2007 7:22:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mixielicous

i think it was to me [[shrug]]


yes it was
next time I'll be more specific , my apologies

~greed~
Single, Free and Loving it



mnottertail -> RE: sub drop? excuses (2/8/2007 7:26:37 PM)

You subs go around getting dropped alla time, somebody is gonna put a fuckin eye out here----

Let's play careful out there kids, use mattresses and everything, forget the ice cubes and the Vietmanese spin fuck chairs....know whadda mean, Vern?


SafetyMaster



MaryT -> RE: sub drop? excuses (2/8/2007 7:31:11 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mixielicous

i think it was to me [[shrug]]


quote:

yes it was
next time I'll be more specific , my apologies


Look at your previous post.  It shows that it was in reply to justinasmerk, who has not posted to this thread.

Odd.

Mary T

edited to fix messed up quoting



MaryT -> RE: sub drop? excuses (2/8/2007 7:32:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail
Let's play careful out there kids, use mattresses and everything, forget the ice cubes and the Vietmanese spin fuck chairs....know whadda mean, Vern?


Nope, but boy are you showing your age ... to those of us old enough to get it.



mixielicous -> RE: sub drop? excuses (2/8/2007 7:33:29 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MaryT


Look at your previous post. It shows that it was in reply to justinasmerk, who has not posted to this thread.

Odd.



she did - 1st or 2nd reply



Aileen68 -> RE: sub drop? excuses (2/8/2007 7:36:38 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MaryT

quote:

(in reply to justinasamerk
quote:

ORIGINAL: HarleyKitty69

quote:

ORIGINAL: mixielicous

i think it was to me [[shrug]]


yes it was
next time I'll be more specific , my apologies


Look at your previous post.  It shows that it was in reply to justinasmerk, who has not posted to this thread.

Odd.



Actually, justinasamerk posted right here



justinasamerk -> RE: sub drop? excuses (2/8/2007 7:38:20 PM)

aww  mixie don't worry about it, sometimes things are posted just for the sake of responding...*shrugs*..just love how she respectfully thinks that either you or myself are dead  wrong....




MaryT -> RE: sub drop? excuses (2/8/2007 7:39:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68
Actually, justinasamerk posted right here


My bad.  [:o]

MaryT



mixielicous -> RE: sub drop? excuses (2/8/2007 7:40:09 PM)

well to be honest i am surprised more dont agree with her .. i am curious how she disagrees, but didnt feel like getting annoyed over something as trivial as someone disagreeing with me [;)] [lol] .



MagiksSlave -> RE: sub drop? excuses (2/8/2007 7:50:49 PM)

I dont know I think that sub drop can trigger a greater depression in people perhaps more prone to depression.. For me it only takes something like a case of sub drop to trigger my bipoler to go into over drive.

Magik's slave



angelic -> RE: sub drop? excuses (2/8/2007 7:51:46 PM)

i disagree with much of what you say.  my former master never gave aftercare.  After a 'scene', he would leave and within 10-24 hours i became tearful, paranoid (over him), did things out of character for me.  my 'reaction' would cause many many arguments.  i did not know there was a term for what i was feeling until i got here.  A little bit of aftercare would have gone miles.



mixielicous -> RE: sub drop? excuses (2/8/2007 7:55:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: angelic

i disagree with much of what you say. my former master never gave aftercare. After a 'scene', he would leave and within 10-24 hours i became tearful, paranoid (over him), did things out of character for me. my 'reaction' would cause many many arguments. i did not know there was a term for what i was feeling until i got here. A little bit of aftercare would have gone miles.


sorry, but i am not talking just after a scene. of course ending w/o after care would cause a drop in mood.

what i am trying to say is when it is prolonged, into days or weeks, then you have more of a problem than just dropping & trying to pin it on e.g. a lack of snuggles after a scene weeks ago, is ridiculous & you are simply denying the problem at hand . be it your neglectful Dom - which after multiple incidents w.o aftercare - not surprising you have gone beyond sub drop and you are depressed OR some other appifany --it doesnt make you less servile.

edit to add stuff



mixielicous -> RE: sub drop? excuses (2/8/2007 7:59:18 PM)

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MaryT -> RE: sub drop? excuses (2/8/2007 8:03:34 PM)

Edited to camouflage stupidity.



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