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Most Embarrissing Bdsm moment You had to face~ - 3/9/2005 2:05:48 PM

knees2you

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Ok Folks I was thinking of my most Embarrissing
Moment in bdsm. It was when i was Being trained by a Mistress,
She Spacificly told which bag was Hers out in the hallway by the door.

Needless to say I got the Wrong bag, {Opps}`{Discipline and More Disc.}
I now not only had 1 Mistress mad {Mine} I had another.

I was told this other Mistress would do play with me and that I
Would Like It!

Sincerely, ant

I was A nice shade of Red~

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RE: Most Embarrissing Bdsm moment You had to face~ - 3/9/2005 2:09:51 PM

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Here's a very old thread you might enjoy:
most embarassing moments

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RE: Most Embarrissing Bdsm moment You had to face~ - 3/9/2005 2:17:05 PM

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ProudSub,

Sexually would only cover one Area~
I thought this tread had kinda been there before.

I just thought that there was other types of Bdsm
embarrissing Moments~

Like mine~

Sincerely, ant

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RE: Most Embarrissing Bdsm moment You had to face~ - 3/9/2005 2:35:50 PM

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Since I didn't get in on the previous thread about embarrassing moments, I'll give it a whirl....

One that comes to mind involves a very extreme, intense scene that I did at a public/private party last year. This is probably not that embarrassing to some, but for Me, it truly was..... ok, a hint, I'm too damn vain for My own good!!

Granted, I am NOT an exhibitionist and I don't play in public that often. But, I was in the mood.... we were on a stage above a dance floor converted to a playspace with some equipment in various corners, and others were also involved in scenes, folks lurked way in the back of the club, but I felt nice and alone up there with My sub. I had him hooked to a chain hanging from the ceiling and there were some low spotlights on the stage preventing Me from seeing out into the club, but since others were somewhat in front of Me, I felt My play was a bit private although I knew a few others might be out there watching....My point, I felt a certain degree of privacy existed. So, I commence to scene..... some serious verbal humiliation, single-tails, cigarette-play, hard-core corporal with a sjambok, I was WORKED UP and this guy could take it well - talk about adrenalin rushing us both - it was WOW!! I was a whirlwind, I spilled some Coca-Cola on My top, I'd dropped to the floor a few times to tease a sub assisting Me - yes I was crawling around in the floor, so I was dusty and dirty! I was sweating My ass off, I had bitten him a few times, and at one point, I kicked off My shoes, ripped My wig off and just went at him no holds barred. Long story short....... when all was said and done, I got a round of applause which freaked Me out a bit as I hadn't realized how many had stopped to watch Me. So, trying to be cool but oh-so-Dommely, I did a "Queen Mother" wave and a silly, little bow. OK, yep, I confess, I then got a bit of the "big head"!! Yep, the head swelled and the ego inflated! I took a stroll around the stage, grinning like a Cheshire Cat as I preened, gathered My goodies, and began to lead My sub away for some private aftercare. Then I was walking off a ramp from the stage, I passed a mirror - OMG --- the gastly, horrific, wild-eyed, lipstick-smeared-to-chin, mascara-dripping-down-face, sweaty, smelly, Coke-dried-on-My-cleavage, ashes&dust-covering-my-clothes, dirty-kneed and nasty-feeted-pantyhose, slimey-matted-hair-sticking-up-in-one-Alfalfa-front-cowlick, silly Woman that stared back at Me sent Me running to the restroom in shame! Talk about deflating an ego quick!! *chuckles* And the worst was yet to come......

Yep, days later folks emailed Me some photos taken!! YIKES!! I demanded for all to be destroyed but I know My dear friends kept copies to mortify Me with occassionally!

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RE: Most Embarrissing Bdsm moment You had to face~ - 3/9/2005 3:04:36 PM

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thats Easy for me!!!

It was the first time on a cross after I had found out what an orgasm was.

(I was 40 before I found what an orgasm was).

I DIDN'T know until that time on the cross that I was "a squirter"..

I left a pool of cum at my feet, splashing the Top, the toy and the equipment. I could have died from embarrassment.

The Top, however, was absolutely thrilled.

smiles remembering~
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RE: Most Embarrissing Bdsm moment You had to face~ - 3/9/2005 4:54:48 PM

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Yes, mine is very similar - my first time with Master, a very shy newbie sub. He told me to turn round, grab the arm of the couch and lean forward. He inserted His fingers into me from behind and began a rapid in-and-out movement - I felt this "OH my God I have to PEEE" sensation and began to wiggle and squirm and tell him to please STOP (in the moment I forgot my safeword

) - and I squirted on the floor. Oh I was so embarrassed, that had never happened before, I really thought I'd wet myself. He had to help me sit down, my legs were like rubber and He had a great big grin on His face as He explained what had happened to me!

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RE: Most Embarrissing Bdsm moment You had to face~ - 3/9/2005 5:51:22 PM

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This is easy. W/we were at Spanksgiving in St. Louis, huge dungeon room and were about to scene (SJ, I and shay) with a large amount of observers in the room. You just have to be sorta proud at that point in time. We couldn't get the scaffold we intended on, but one of the St. Andrews crosses were open, so I figured that would be fine. Having scoped out the dungen earlier I had made sure we had not only our ample supply of toys, but the various hardware we would need to chain up the subby (aka victim...muhahaha). What I had not considered was the change of where we would be at. It is somewhat awkward to be ready to chain up your recipient only to find out that the connection points are very very different than what you were prepared for. What's worse..is you don't want to sound distressed at the time of that discovery, since your sub is standing politely and bare ass naked with a blindfold on, waiting to be connected..lol. Luckily..I did have a couple spare clips and along with some very fast creative improvising (read scrambling) we managed to give the impression (lol) that our flogger target was indeed well secured (well except the one time the leg cuff sorta fell off, we managed to sneak it back on). Needless to say we mentioned something like..."don't wiggle too much" in her ear..which was probably an interesting task for her to do while being flogged and such...lmao. Anyway..we pulled off the scene without a hitch but until I really got into it I am certain there was some embarrassment showing in my face. Like they say...alls well that ends well.

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RE: Most Embarrissing Bdsm moment You had to face~ - 3/9/2005 7:08:51 PM

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I adore that story. I also prefer privacy and have not often done a scene at a dungeon but I sure know that I get so wrapped up in what is going on that I totally forget the audience. I think I would have died of embarrassment as soon as I heard the clapping.

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RE: Most Embarrissing Bdsm moment You had to face~ - 3/9/2005 7:49:51 PM

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The most memorable at least was actually a private scene with a previous owner. He had me on my back on the back, my wrists cuffed to my ankles and my ankles cuffed to a metal spreader bar such that it was resting between my upper and lower legs. Then he put a TENS on my clit and ass and started to play.

It felt really awesome and I kept encouraging him to go higher. He started to get concerned since I DONT like pain but he was ramping it up very high. Then I shifted position and SHRIEKED as this huge jolt went through me, practically hit the roof.

I looked at him and said WHAT DID YOU DO? and he said "I didn't do anything, what did YOU do?" and we realized that as I had shifted, the metal spreader bar had lost contacts with my legs. The current had been dispersing through the bar and once the connection was broken, it all went DIRECTLY to the clit and ass.

He was laughing for days over that.

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RE: Most Embarrissing Bdsm moment You had to face~ - 3/10/2005 8:48:26 AM

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Access denied. Not allowed to have personal information to throw in my face at a later time.

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RE: Most Embarrissing Bdsm moment You had to face~ - 3/10/2005 3:12:10 PM

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((( covering my face with my hands as i type this )))

farting in my Mistress' dungeon with my Master by side.

She went running for a crop yelling "faux pas! faux pas!"

i was absolutely mortified!

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RE: Most Embarrissing Bdsm moment You had to face~ - 3/11/2005 7:56:38 AM

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ok i can't believe i'm telling this story.
Master and i had just gotten together and He had used a few or His favorite bats as paddles on me (plastic and foam covered bats. i'm not a huge fan of spankings and tears were streaming down my face as Master helpped me up from my knees. After i whiped the tears away for some reason i glanced down at my legs which were parted. i blushed right away and started lauging like crazy.

Master looked at me in confusion until He saw where i was looking. Part of me obviously liked the spanking because i must have been dripping a lot. i had a web between my legs like you wouldn't believe.

i was totally mortified but Master was very proud. So much so that He loves to tell that story. i blush like crazy everytime He tells it and try my very best to hide

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RE: Most Embarrissing Bdsm moment You had to face~ - 3/11/2005 11:35:08 AM

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Not really embarrassing for myself, but made my lovely sub blush a wonderful shade of red the next morning while discussing it...

We were playing in the dungeon for a weekend long conference we were attending last year. We had started our scene later in the evening after a suitable station became available. I can't recall everything from the toy bag I had out and used on her as I worked her up gradually warming her up but I do recall that I did have the ErosTek 312 hooked up in the tri-phase (bonded common) formation with contacts above the pelvic bone and to either side of the labias. I was working it up gradually and had it at one of the higher settings she's been able to take before so I was checking in to make sure she was still with me. We use a "green", "yellow", "red" system so I leaned over and asked her what color she was at. To my surprise she just replied "More", so I asked her the question again thinking she didn't hear me. To which she began chanting in a much more insistent manner "MORE!". So I let things go further until she finally seem to collapse on the table from exhaustion.
I let her stay there while I gathered our things then carefully and gently helped her get off the table and wrapped in her blanket and over to the recovery area. After making sure she was okay and had gotten something to drink I went back to clean up the station for the next couple waiting on it and returned to her side while she recovered. Eventually she gained enough alertness and the party was ending so we made our way nimbly back to the hotel room. The next morning we were talking about the party the evening before and I was telling her what I had done and her responses. She had gone so far into her headspace that she didn't realize or remember most of it after the scene had started. She appeared shock and embarrassed when I retold her telling me "More" when I asked her what color she was at. She still blushes a pretty shade of red when we talk about it with friends.

Also during this weekend conference after another night of playing, in which I'd included a bit of knife play that left some nice fine lines in cute symbols on her butt, we were at the street fair. She wanted to go to one of the booths and get a beating for charity donations so she asked me if she could after we'd watched a few others take their beatings. So I made the donation and one of the female dominants giving beatings at the booth took her in and hooked her up to the cross they had. The lady raised her skirt and tucked it in behind the waist band and picked up a paddle and began giving her some nice strong swats. Being the lil pain slut she is,, after the lady stopped after prolly no more than five minutes she looked over at me as I'd come up along side after being waved over by the lady administering the swats and she asked me "Why did she stop?" to which I had to explain that the nice lil knife marks from last night had started to open up and we were cleaning the blood on her ass off. I braced her and said this will sting a bit as they used some alcohol to wipe up a few of the lines that had a trickle of blood coming from. She enjoyed walking around in a bit of a spacey mood for the rest of the day. Side note to this was the previous year she'd asked to get another charity beating at another booth. When the lady about to administrate the spanking had her her bent over a bench and showed a flogger and paddle and asked which one she preferred she replied "Both!"

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