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krikket -> RE: How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in (2/10/2007 12:31:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MaryT quote: ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69 How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in a BDSM relationship or session of sorts? I've never had a "session of sorts" but it sounds kinky. Can you describe it? But do you expect someone will answer, "I spend time here immersed in fantasy because I can't make it happen in reality?" HTH, MaryT Well rats, MaryT, ya stole my answer right from under my fingers...lol Actually i'm here because there's always something interesting going on. i've met the greatest people in the forums, and even the ones who's kink and/or experience aren't what i'm about, i love learning from those that do, those that don't or can't, and even those who have little interest in WIITWD. It's also a great way to while away the time until my date is here :) cheers, jimini

Verinda -> RE: How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in (2/10/2007 12:35:47 PM)
I play WoW too. Horde alll the way. Though one of my friends wants me to play an Alliance so I'll probably make a Draenai Mage. shudders

RavenMuse -> RE: How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in a B (2/10/2007 12:52:08 PM)
Much of the time I am 400 miles away from My girl and with time on My hands to wander into forums like this one. Currently I am about 10ft away from her and she is sleeping sweetly catching up on the fact that she needs more sleep than her Master.[:)]

windchymes -> RE: How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in a B (2/10/2007 1:46:11 PM)
I come in here frequently, AND I'm not currently in a BDSM relationship, but I'm not here BECAUSE I'm not in a relationship.

MaryT -> RE: How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in (2/10/2007 2:36:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: krikket Well rats, MaryT, ya stole my answer right from under my fingers...lol Actually i'm here because there's always something interesting going on. i've met the greatest people in the forums, and even the ones who's kink and/or experience aren't what i'm about, i love learning from those that do, those that don't or can't, and even those who have little interest in WIITWD. It's also a great way to while away the time until my date is here :) Have fun!

toservez -> RE: How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in (2/10/2007 2:49:22 PM)
I come to message boards because I like to. I have done so when I have been owned and when I have been free. The message boards I read and/or post to be on things that I cannot get real life conversations that interest me in. So for me it is message boards about this life, politics and my favorite TV shows. Posting has nothing to do with if I was owned or not. I live a fairly complete life with a job, friends and hobbies but I will not pretend that my life is so fabulous that I do not spend significant hours watching TV and/or in front of a computer. Everyone fills up their free time in their own way. One of mine that I enjoy very much is message boards. It has nothing to do about needs and everything to do about being intellectually stimulated on subjects I am interested in and just entertainment.

KeirasSecret -> RE: How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in a B (2/10/2007 3:03:39 PM)
I come to the forums because there are certain questions Sir can not answer for me and to spare him from my incessant analytical thinking and babble, otherwise I fear I would find myself sitting in the corner gagged or kneeling before him doing something else to keep me from talking. ;) I’m also hoping to make friends eventually. Be well,

thetammyjo -> RE: How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in (2/10/2007 3:10:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69 How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in a BDSM relationship or session of sorts? Ross I'm here because this was recommended to me by someone I respect. We lost our local community a few years ago and I had become rather lonely as a result. My vanilla friends are all cool and they love my family, then ever "get" that Fox is my slave but it isn't the same as talking to others in the scene. However I hope I find a job for 2008 in a place that has a friendly stable scene community because online just isn't the same at all as face-to-face munches, workshops, and parties. On the other hand I was deeply hurt then happened in the old local scene, it hurt my family in fact, so I'm cautious about getting involved again.

Quivver -> RE: How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in (2/10/2007 3:21:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69 How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in a BDSM relationship or session of sorts? Ross this tends to imply that by being here I ~am~ getting a relationship or session of sorts? i dont think so........................ [&o]

ExSteelAgain -> RE: How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in a B (2/10/2007 3:37:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KnightofMists so far one of two that has posted to this thread... I will let others decide who that is Hahaha, I got it.

ExSteelAgain -> RE: How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in a B (2/10/2007 4:16:15 PM)
I’ve always enjoyed studying history by reading biographies of historical figures. I learn more about a subject when I see the various personalities interacting as we do here. Plus, the regular posters usually possess a consciousness, sensitivity and responsiveness that’s fun to be around. The board has sifted down to those I find valuable. Once I learned these people, it was an intriguing experience to see the debates, jokes and relationships as they unfolded. Posting would often become frenzied late into the night as the chum was poured on the boards. It is human nature to admire those who come across in noble and serene ways, while wondering about those who are desperate in the ways they have to fight one battle after another. There are also the practical techniques revealed, the lessons learned by others and the subtle therapy of being with others in the lifestyle provides.

Zsuzsanna -> RE: How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in (2/10/2007 5:31:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wideeyes i spend time in the forums because i'm somewhat of a newbie and find it helps me bring a little more to the conversation between my master and myself (as well as my own internal conversation about bdsm). its also just nice to have a place in my otherwise vanilla life where these things are freely discussed. i'd say i'm very, very fufilled :) but that the forums are a nice addition/resource. I feel this way also. I enjoy being someplace where BDSM is freely discussed among intelligent people.

adaddysgirl -> RE: How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in a B (2/10/2007 6:09:52 PM)
i'm not in a relationship right now and have no people in RL to talk with about any of this, so this kind of keeps me 'connected' to 'the lifestyle'.....particularly since i am not into the munches/public scene stuff either. DG

SimplyMichael -> RE: How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in a B (2/10/2007 6:31:00 PM)
Some people come here to post thoughful questions, others do it simply to attract attention and who otherwise have little to add.

crouchingtigress -> RE: How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in a B (2/10/2007 6:32:59 PM)
[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m25.gif[/image]Me.

myobedience -> RE: How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in a B (2/10/2007 6:42:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69 How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in a BDSM relationship or session of sorts? Ross is this a poll? after much ...am telling you much thought.... i get more wankers and wannabes than i do serious mindly Doms who reply...so yes, i will spend sometime in forums just me PS i dont believe in sessions...just like i dont believe in wannkers sleep tight ya all

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in a B (2/10/2007 9:12:19 PM)
I have a less than desireable BDSM scene where I live...hence this is my only venue for the moment ,to learn, listen or to relate in some way...It is my BDSM fix so to speak...[:D]...Tempting

MistressSassy66 -> RE: How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in a B (2/10/2007 10:39:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69 How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in a BDSM relationship or session of sorts? Ross I come to the forums to read new info that gets posted. Sometimes I can offer an experience of My own to post about.

ownedgirlie -> RE: How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in a B (2/10/2007 10:44:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KnightofMists quote: ORIGINAL: BitaTruble Well, I don't know that I'd call it a 'need', more of a 'want'. I want to grow, to expand, explore. I want my ideas to be challenged, tested, to review what's out there, learn new things from a variety of sources, interact with a diverse population. There is only such much that can be learned from a single source and while Michael is an excellent source, he is, ultimately, still a single source. The forums (and munches and books and events and all the other venues I attend etc) are diverse, if nothing else. At times I'm humbled by the words I read here, other times I'm stunned by the depths and substance of the thoughts of some of the posters. There's silliness, cleverness, ineptitude, sarcasm and profound thinking ... I mean, it's all here for the taking. My universe is minute, this one is expansive. My universe has but two souls within it, this one has multitudes. I take from here (greedy bitch that I am) and bring what I read into my world, share it with Himself, it allows us to continue our own exploration by communicating ideas we had not thought of ourselves. I learn from here and, on occasion, I believe I teach a thing or two. In the end it's the old adage.. two heads are better than one and I've got this 'thing' for hydras. ::grins:: Celeste lovely words... damn near as lovely as the girl that wrote them. I absolutely second this!!

swtnsparkling -> RE: How many here spend their time here in the forums because they are not getting what they need in a B (2/11/2007 2:49:39 AM)
quote: windchymes I come in here frequently, AND I'm not currently in a BDSM relationship, but I'm not here BECAUSE I'm not in a relationship. Same here Even if i were I would still visit the boards- I dont surf the web or chat. I enjoy reading the posts some are quite interesting and some make me laugh.

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