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Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 12:12:51 PM

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I've noticed that many dommes smoke? Even in Los Angeles where smoking is slowly being outlawed and smokers are rare. Is there a reason for this?

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 12:24:58 PM

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Because they like to smoke? If you're looking for an epidemiological assessment, I'm afraid you're going to end up disappointed.

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 1:57:35 PM

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Cuz I wanna!!!!(what stef said!!)

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 2:19:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy
I've noticed that many dommes smoke? Even in Los Angeles where smoking is slowly being outlawed and smokers are rare. Is there a reason for this?

Many Dommes smoke, but so do a lot of submissives and male dominants. I'm not convinced that the percentage of Dommes who smoke is any higher than for subs or male doms. When I look at the outside smoking areas at BDSM events, I see all groups well-represented. I am a non-smoking Domme, and I have owned subs in the past who smoked.

Why do Dommes smoke? For the same reasons anyone else does. Some enjoy it, some would like to quit but it's a hard habit to break, and I'm sure others have their own reasons.

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 3:01:33 PM

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Because only the COOL dommes and doms smoke....DUH!!

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 3:29:36 PM

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Because they get endless streams of one line emails from unreal people, and it drives them to smoking to ease the stress.

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 3:32:07 PM

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Hmmm, I Dommed for 8 years and never ever smoked ... must have missed another darn memo.

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 3:36:02 PM

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No smoking here either. And I don't enjoy being around those who do -and- are, as it invariably gives me a headache, watery eyes and a nose that's running so much I'm sure it's signed up for a marathon when I wasn't looking.

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 4:03:01 PM

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I have never smoked, I grew up with parents that smoked like freight trains. I personally hate it and the smell gives me migraine headaches. I won't date anyone who smokes either and I do not allow it in my house or automobile.

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 4:18:05 PM

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same reason so many slaves are fat!!!

((rolls her eyes))

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 4:53:37 PM

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I'm pretty sure there are various reasons why some Doms/Dominas smoke (their "choice" to do so would come to mind), I'm a non/never smoker and though I know people who do smoke, it's not allowed in my presence, nor will I interact w/subs or cucks who smoke.

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 5:36:20 PM

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Because stupid questions like these eventually drive them to smoke

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 5:41:42 PM

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Now that is a sight to see!!!!!

HELLO!!!! I'M DOWN HERE!!!! LOOKIT MEEEEEE!!!!

In reply to the OP..... ummmmm....

LASADISTA!!!! I'M HERE!!!!!! HELLLLLOOOOO?????

That is what this thread is worth to me. Stupid questions, waste my time, will you? grmblgrmbl.....grrrrr

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 6:19:31 PM

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I began smoking to have something to do (while my date was getting drunk/stoned/arrested for being stupid in a no stupid zone and ruining everyone's fun) when I began dating. I kept smoking so I would have something to do during vanilla sex so it wasn't a total waste of my time (lol), I continued to smoke when it became politically incorrect because 1: I am not a politician-- so screw political correctness in favor of truthful accuracy and 2: in self defense of all the igmos who think because cologne is a lighter scent than parfum they must douse themselves in odiferous concoctions of the hugely offensive kind and now I have quit because even I am offended by it. Yet most of the male slaves who contact me write : "Please tell me you are a smoker... " and go on to tell me why they seek a smoking Domme; so I would say there are many reasons for that Domme smoking a cigarette outside at a meeting; she could be driving her slave wild by being the sexy cigarette puffing fem fatale he sees Her to be and she may just need a carbon clogging just to keep from slapping someone. I figure if it isn't being blown in my face, I don't care if other adults desire to smoke.
The great thing about life in America, I don't have to smoke to make you happy and I don't have to not smoke to make you happy because I don't have to make you happy. I am not responsible for your happy levels.
But I am glad I have quit smoking.

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 6:24:36 PM

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Twue Dom/mes must smoke... it is rule # 347 in the Twue Dom/me handbook and cheese grater edition.

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 6:28:58 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CucholdsLady

I began smoking to have something to do (while my date was getting drunk/stoned/arrested for being stupid in a no stupid zone and ruining everyone's fun) when I began dating. I kept smoking so I would have something to do during vanilla sex so it wasn't a total waste of my time (lol), I continued to smoke when it became politically incorrect because 1: I am not a politician-- so screw political correctness in favor of truthful accuracy and 2: in self defense of all the igmos who think because cologne is a lighter scent than parfum they must douse themselves in odiferous concoctions of the hugely offensive kind and now I have quit because even I am offended by it. Yet most of the male slaves who contact me write : "Please tell me you are a smoker... " and go on to tell me why they seek a smoking Domme; so I would say there are many reasons for that Domme smoking a cigarette outside at a meeting; she could be driving her slave wild by being the sexy cigarette puffing fem fatale he sees Her to be and she may just need a carbon clogging just to keep from slapping someone. I figure if it isn't being blown in my face, I don't care if other adults desire to smoke.
The great thing about life in America, I don't have to smoke to make you happy and I don't have to not smoke to make you happy because I don't have to make you happy. I am not responsible for your happy levels.
But I am glad I have quit smoking.

quite possibly the funniest thing ive heard today. thank You.

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 6:30:20 PM

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Of course I smoke.

With all the money I extract from stupid male subs online, how else am I meant to spend it all?

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 6:37:21 PM

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Of course I smoke.

With all the money I extract from stupid male subs online, how else am I meant to spend it all?

E

Permission to send you lots of cash Goddess? ...Oh and to be your ashtray? (smoking fetish is soooooooooo good!).

Long live the smoking Domme!!!

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 6:39:25 PM

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 6:43:23 PM

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