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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/11/2007 12:08:28 AM   
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Well, tomorrow you may look through this thread and see that with all the 'batting eyes' you did at obey1, he didn't respond to you at all.  He probably thinks you're fat so he can't be bothered....lol.
 
But it's all good, isn't it?  *snickers*
 
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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/11/2007 12:09:21 AM   
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People who base health on weight make it very difficult for me to be kind and compassionate to all the skinny people who have strokes, heart attacks, diabetes, and drop dead while looking skinny...  Well not really; I'm not going to stop being the person I am because some people suck, and others will die of illness no matter how much they weigh, but you get the point, I hope...     M

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/11/2007 12:09:39 AM   
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Well, tomorrow you may look through this thread and see that with all the 'batting eyes' you did at obey1, he didn't respond to you at all.  He probably thinks you're fat so he can't be bothered....lol.
 
But it's all good, isn't it?  *snickers*
 
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:) <winking>

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/11/2007 12:11:04 AM   
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perhaps, heftynorwegian???
High fives lil for a sense of humor. 
 LMAO,   M


thank you, thank you very much  *bowing*


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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/11/2007 12:13:10 AM   
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at least people wont comment on how fat they are at the funeral. :)

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/11/2007 12:15:14 AM   
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People who base health on weight make it very difficult for me to be kind and compassionate to all the skinny people who have strokes, heart attacks, diabetes, and drop dead while looking skinny...  Well not really; I'm not going to stop being the person I am because some people suck, and others will die of illness no matter how much they weigh, but you get the point, I hope...     M


at this size, i'm actually quite healthy & rarely go to the Dr nor take meds for much including OTC meds...i watch what i eat & try to get enough exercise...my Dr told me that i had the cholesterol levels of a tri-athlete....


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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/11/2007 12:15:50 AM   
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Off to bed with me, as soon as I send BitaTrouble the Baileys recipe



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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/11/2007 12:18:17 AM   
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Lets start the next thread on why people are so nasty on here, regardless of what the topic is.
:)


Yes, i think that would be a great topic.  Some may be surprised at things they say that are considered nasty
 
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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/11/2007 12:18:32 AM   
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at least people wont comment on how fat they are at the funeral. :)
LOL, I bet not...  How about the stupid "he/she looks really good comments" about the person in the coffin?   I always want to say but...     M

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/11/2007 12:19:03 AM   
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Anyone notice we're in "random stupidity" now?

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/11/2007 12:21:02 AM   
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oooh!!  oooh!! & as for the idea that it's easier for a fat girl to get attention in the bdsm community, i've been in both at this size & as my skinny persona...didn't seem to make any difference what size i am or what community i'm hangin out in, i've always had all the attention i've ever wanted, leading me to believe it truly is more about the insides than the outsides...

back to your regularly scheduled thread....


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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/11/2007 12:33:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: adaddysgirl

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ORIGINAL: asubmissiveheart

Lets start the next thread on why people are so nasty on here, regardless of what the topic is.
:)


Yes, i think that would be a great topic.  Some may be surprised at things they say that are considered nasty
 
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I couldn't agree more

edited to add: speaking ill of the dead is always nasty business as well as down-right "mean"

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/11/2007 12:38:28 AM   
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So little they know the better.

:) <winking>


i suggest you ask him what he means before 'winking'.  You just might be surprised.
 
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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/11/2007 12:40:35 AM   
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Okay, I started reading this thread ready to shove a spit into touchthesky & roast him (as I found the idea of fat people eating the skinny ones quite amusing), but instead I would rather just clarify a few things for him.  I am a big girl.  Wearing an 18/20 (at least on bottom because big girls like me have huge GG tits), 2-3 sizes larger than the "average" woman who wears a size 14, I came into this lifestyle right after an ugly breakup (for those curious he was a big guy).  I had finally come to terms with what I wanted sexually, and I have found the lifestyle to raise self-esteem in many people - large, small, hung like a horse, hung like a fire ant, short, & tall.  I have become comfortable with my body, and I assure you that I am NOT hear because I can't get a date or someone to fuck me. 

The short-sighted idea that every fat bitch is ugly disturbs me.  As a BBW, I am beautiful, inside and out, which at this point I can say doesn't apply to some of the people who have responded to this thread thus far.  I have played with some of the sexiest men I have ever met, and, yes, they were sexy by even the most stringent cultural standards.  Larger men tend to "let off" when it comes to being ugly because they are overweight, as many have that sexy "teddy bear" quality.   Here is a wake up call to all the people that think fat women are ugly just because they weigh more than 125 pounds: Both men & women (not all but a large majority) like thick girls.  They like nice tits & a round ass they can grab onto.  They think big girls are sexy.

It's easy to say that overweight people are in the lifestyle because they want to be used as a sex toy & are less likely to be in a relationship.  That implies self-esteem issues.  How many slender women do you know with low self-esteem?  You say that there are all kinds of skinny bitches on dating sites.  What does that say about skinny people?  Doesn't that tell you that there are more slender people not in serious relationships?  You noticed this, yet it didn't strike you the same way on here.  I am curious as to why.




very well put, well, I might not have called myself a fat bitch, I prefer "curvy" actually, but, I agree with what you had to say  I'm hoping that the comments about fat women can't get a date is purely satire, because, I haven't gone without a date (or 2 or 3) since 1992....


I apologize if I offended anyone with the "fat bitch" comment.  My mouth does get me into trouble.  The fat women not being able to get a date came from someone else though.  I was just responding to it.

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/11/2007 12:47:29 AM   
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oh, yes, no worries, I was not upset about fat bitch, it's fine with me... well, coming from someone else who refers to herself as such, of course

And I made a goof myself in my post... I know the comments about heavy women not being able to get a date came from others, and I was hoping they were being sarcastic about it... because, it seems like they must have their head up their a@@ because you and I don't know what the heck they are talking about

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/11/2007 12:49:51 AM   
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I think it matters cos this thread is about the topic, I think the original message wanted to know theories on it, not to attack anyone cos they are overwieght.


While the intention may not have been to attack anyone, pointing out a group of people on a physical trait is usually perceived as an attack.  Most of the curvy (there you go, sensualmagirl) people I know have been picked on about their weight since they were little.  As an adult BBW, I think it's time for superficial people to grow up.  You don't hear me complaining about the number of bleach blondes out there or the number of people claiming to be nymphos when they aren't?  That is because I don't give a shit.  Who really cares?

Oh, and btw, why hasn't anyone offered ME any donuts?

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/11/2007 12:55:35 AM   
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We weren't sharing donuts, we were sharing chocolate covered strawberries by Godiva, and I'll happily share mine.    And I refuse to call any of those men who love my fat ass to do me so I can prove myself lovable to people who think bigger people can't get any.   M

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/11/2007 1:04:58 AM   
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I thought we were sharing a homemade Bailey's recipe. I still haven't seen it posted. Sigh....Who was it that had that?

As for chocolate covered strawberries I'm in...I have dark, milk and white chocolate for melting!

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/11/2007 1:05:57 AM   
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yes, and feel free to help yourselves to some home-made irish cream liquor (baileys) to go with the chocolate-covered strawberries... lined up in a pattern that spells out "Kiss My Fat Ass"

edited to add: http://www.collarchat.com/m_805984/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#806105

you can find the bailey's recipe over there... as well as other cocktail recipes

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RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing ph... - 2/11/2007 1:10:40 AM   
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We weren't sharing donuts, we were sharing chocolate covered strawberries by Godiva, and I'll happily share mine.    And I refuse to call any of those men who love my fat ass to do me so I can prove myself lovable to people who think bigger people can't get any.   M


  high fives ya back!!!


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