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bludemonn -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.. (2/10/2007 9:35:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy That wasn't the question Glad you said that cos im losing patience brother! READ the goddam post before you comment Michael!

MasterKalif -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.. (2/10/2007 9:35:31 PM)
I think its silly to assume that on bdsm sites overweight people come to hide....def. not the situation, as some people have rightly pointed out. I don't think there are any more overweight people represented here than on vanilla sites or on any other group online or offline. Being overweight is just that, not ugly or with no lives.

dcnovice -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.. (2/10/2007 9:35:57 PM)
quote: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? Are there? I hadn't noticed.

MBETWO -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.. (2/10/2007 9:36:14 PM)
I think that simply the overweight women here have more confidence and a comfort level that allows them to submit photos. They're not afraid of their sexuality and the 'lifestyle" is pretty tolerant of "whatever floats your boat" 5-9 200lbs

bludemonn -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.. (2/10/2007 9:36:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hot1 ummmmmmmmmm ok..i got some cherry cheesecake in the fridge..anyone want some? Do you got any mascarpone cheesecake for 'tis heavenly.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.. (2/10/2007 9:36:53 PM)
then the OP should post some of his theories that made him so stumped ...don't you think?

hot1 -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.. (2/10/2007 9:37:53 PM)
no..I just make the one kind.....well the topping could be anything.....but this is so good..rich.....almost as good as my famous chocolate cake with boiled icing beth

Invictus754 -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.... (2/10/2007 9:38:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: touchthesky does this seem that way to others? in lookin thru pix it seems like there is a signifcantly higher proportion of overweight femalesin this lifestyle, both tops and bottoms that in the general population. Any theories? i m stumped Your stats list a height of 5'3" and weight of 153. Your BMI is 27.1, showing that you are overweight yourself. Why is that? http://www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/bmi/adult_BMI/english_bmi_calculator/results_overweight.htm?pounds=153&inches=63

domiguy -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.. (2/10/2007 9:39:31 PM)
It actually is an insightful question if you can view it as not being offensive...For instance if there was a grant given to sexual therapists or sexologists or scientist to answer the question posed they would look into it without bias...without being sensitive or insensitive to someones feelings....The question is......Now let's find the answer. It isn't out of being shallow or insensitive but it didn't take long out here till the same thought occurred to me ....And I'm sorry but I did ask myself the exact same question.

bludemonn -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.. (2/10/2007 9:42:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl then the OP should post some of his theories that made him so stumped ...don't you think? Well.... I think its the old 'post a controversial and already done thread and watch everyone scramble to beat me up' trick! Darn it we been had! hey heres a new topic ' Why is women fat and are they just plain lazy?'...ok perhaps not, I gotta admit i'm just having fun interacting with y'all!

sensualmagirl -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.. (2/10/2007 9:43:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bludemonn I think its everyones right to choose dont you? If a guy simply dosent like big women then whats wrong with that? If a lady dosent like Big men whats wrong with that? There is no such thing as a template for what is sexy only what is sexy to that individual, you may think a guy is gorgeous and another may puke over him just as its everyones right to choose, its NOT however everyones right to abuse, thats just pointless, true some slender people have relationship issues, this could be due to the fact they have more choice or it could be due to thinking they are more attractive than they are (delusional), we are all guilty of judging but as far as im concerned its everyones right to choose. Yes, exactly... But, as far as why are there more heavy people, etc. I don't know... I honestly couldn't tell you. I, as a "curvy" woman ended up here at this point in my life for my own reasons, non of which had anything to do with my weight. Well, I could point out, when I was looking for my Master, I would say to myself why are there so many "American" men here... where are all the good-looking foreign men I so adore? [;)] Seemed like a lot of all too white-bread red-blooded american boys for my tastes. This was simply my observation, and this is what I noticed. You are going to find patterns in almost anything in life... you may notice too many fat people, I noticed a serious lack of ethnicity (until the right guy from Chile *found* me... lol)... *Ok, who's got the Guiness and chips?* ps... don't flame me about the white-bread american thing, I was born in the USA too.... just, my "choice" tends to be towards men with a nice accent and some hot blood [;)]

bludemonn -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.. (2/10/2007 9:43:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hot1 no..I just make the one kind.....well the topping could be anything.....but this is so good..rich.....almost as good as my famous chocolate cake with boiled icing beth Are you trying to seduce me hmmm HMM? Come to papa...with that cake!

domiguy -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.. (2/10/2007 9:44:48 PM)
What if the op asked if there was a relationship between child abuse and bdsm? What would the reaction then be?

RobertCloud -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.. (2/10/2007 9:45:21 PM)
Okay... Here is an issue.. The issue of being overweight is over inflated... I once weighed 475 lbs on my 6'-1 frame.. No one ever guessed me to weigh over 350.. Now that I weigh 350, no one guesses me to weigh more than 275. So what.. I intend to lose another 125.. but NOT for how I look, but for my health. I do not care what someone thinks about my appearance. My weight was put on due to an autoaccident and I am unable to exercise. I have lost the weight by shear will power. Fasting sometimes up to four days with nothing but water. Now I am on a more controlled diet of my own design but losing an average of 2.5 pounds a week. Now.. I know a woman on here that is lovely at her 5'-8 and 240 lbs, and yet people treat her like she is worthless because of her weight. She is one of the sweetest ladies I have known and she deserves a lot of respect, her weight should not be an issue. Her heart should be the issue. I know another woman that is 5'-0 and 98 pounds and her friends have her convinced she is fat, she wanted to lose 20 more pounds, I had to almost get in a fight with her to get her to agree to stop where she was. She still feels fat but she is maintaining her weight because she respects my opinion and has realized that her friends were leading her on a road tht could have killed her. Basically... here... on collarme the population of overweight people reflects the general populace with maybe a slightly elevated amount more, but I really do not think so. For I see just as many thin and slender, but they are usually already taken, or they are scamming people, or they are cam-pimping for some other site. But we have to be careful judging overweight people.. because they are lovely and wonderful people.. It is the heart of the Dom and submissive, not the body.

touchthesky -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.. (2/10/2007 9:46:15 PM)
yes domiguy, i have also thought low self esteem plays into it. In fact i would say my self esteem went up as a result of being in this life style and thus being more " in demand " than when i was in vanilla world. Also i have thought perhaps we just go farther than others, are thrill seekers and sensaton cravers thus if food is out thang we can overdo it. but i was interested in hearing other opinions because my thoughts were by no means conclusive. also to the intelligent individual who wanted to skewer me... i m not a guy, LMAO. i rather like getting skewered tho if its with a nice thick cock

domiguy -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.. (2/10/2007 9:46:35 PM)
There is a common thread between the two just not going to find it out here on the forum....probably just to hard of a topic to discuss rationally without personal bias or people feeling like they are getting attacked.

hot1 -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.. (2/10/2007 9:46:51 PM)
lol.....the whole thing? gee greedy little thing aren't you? strange usually first thing is boiled icing? was thinkng it was a New brunswich thing...now thinking it is an english thing beth

BBBTBW -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.. (2/10/2007 9:47:17 PM)
This lifestyle is about being WHO you are WITHOUT the fear of OSTRIZATION and REPRISAL. When questions such as the OP comes up, WE who are targeted feel OSTRISIZED. This goes for any topic that targets a specific group of people. It is only natural that we come out on the defense. Why can't we just accept people for who they are without wondering why they are a particular way? As long as no one is getting hurt in the process just let people be. If you see someone of interest, show them your interest. If they don't fit your particular interest, leave them alone.

bludemonn -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.. (2/10/2007 9:48:46 PM)
Exactamundo! We ALL look for things, we ALL notice things we dislike, no one and i mean NO ONE is innocent of being biased! I have my tastes and they are varied and although certain observation are not welcomed i.e. 'why are there so many over weight etc etc' I do feel you have to show abit of character when addressing these questions otherwise some other clever person will ask the same thing...again.

juliaoceania -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.. (2/10/2007 9:49:06 PM)
quote: asubmissiveheart You and all the other fat people have a right to be fat. We also have a right to talk about fat people if we want. Now back to the topic. [sarcasm]This is clearly an example of how to win friends and influence people [/sarcasm] Hey, next can we talk about shallow people? I would not want you to be left out, even though I have better things to do than talk about you

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