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RE: The Best Intro you've encountered from a slave - 4/1/2005 6:12:46 PM

MistressJude

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To beat a dead horse - spelling and grammar are my BIGGEST pet peeves. While I'm not perfect and make my own mistakes I can understand minor ones from others. But when I see the same words consistently spelled incorrectly or the whole letter is littered with mistakes it becomes an eye sore and headache. Spell check features are everywhere these days, even for those overseas.

With that said I'll just state the key points that I look for in a well written letter. DO NOT COPY YOUR PROFILE! Sorry, but I just had to get that out. I'm so incredibly tired of getting an email that seems somewhat interesting only to discover it's their bloody profile! If you can't take the time to send something even remotely personalized, then don't expect me to take any time on you (generic you). I operate on the basic principle that you (generic) are not my slave/sub just because you emailed me so I don't want a groveling mass of filler and one sentence of who you are. Further, I can't stand "role play" in emails. Don't tell me you're kneeling and waiting, or bowing and leaving. If I want RPG I'll join a group for it. Further, I'm rather bothered by the laundry list of things the sub wants and needs. While any potential relationship must discuss these matters do NOT come at me (especially in an introduction) with what YOU want and how I can give it to you. Sorry, but it doesn't work that way - at least not with me.

Tell me your age, any special skills you have, if your employed or go to school. Tell me if you like to read (if so, what), listen to music (what kind), if you like to travel, or if you're a homebody. BDSM interests are a dime a dozen but YOU are different - I want to know what those things are that make you different and why you should stand out among all others.

That's my 50 cents (since this post was a bit long).

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RE: The Best Intro you've encountered from a slave - 4/1/2005 7:03:24 PM

kc692

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Then only problem is, the morons wouldn't catch it, and would still e-mail the hell out of you, and the enlightened ones would actually consider your instructions, and hesitate to respond!!

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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For those of you who aren't determined to make me out to be a horrible person just because I have no need to see my admittedly insane father shoot our boys

Now here is an interesting twist I didn't expect to this post.

You know, I've dated perhaps every shade of skin possible. Easy to do in a cosmopolitan city such as Montreal. My mom once asked me if I was going to start my own branch of the UN. ;) Race was never a big issue in my family. Neither was gender. So when I brought home a Chinese girlfriend, it was all good!

I do have a friend who has been dating a black man for the last 5 years. When she met him, her brother threatened to shoot him. Five years later, it's all talk still. Is it one big happy family? Nope. Does she care? Yes. Is he worth it? You bet.

I have no idea of the mental state of your father and it's really none of my business, nor do I expect a report. Except for the fact that you posted it on the boards and now it's up for public discussion. Is there no way to set boundaries with him? Then again, if you are not attracted to people outside your race, that's fine. No need in broaching the subject with him.

It's not a prejudice to have a preference. If your profile would have said "<insert prejudicial word for blacks>. <insert prejudicial word for hispanics>. <insert prejudicial word for arabs>. <insert prejudicial word for asians>. <insert prejudicial word for any other nationality or race> need not apply", then I'd call you a bigot and I’d be dead on. But to specify what you are looking for is not prejudicial. It is up front.

Which got me thinking… I was going to modify my profile for it to say "no morons". Perhaps I should say "enlightened people only" ;)

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RE: The Best Intro you've encountered from a slave - 4/2/2005 5:30:59 PM

LadyAngelika

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RE: kc692's above post --

How is the quote from a post I made in another thread related to this one? I'm curious.

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RE: The Best Intro you've encountered from a slave - 4/2/2005 6:02:29 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

RE: kc692's above post --

How is the quote from a post I made in another thread related to this one? I'm curious.

- LA

Actually LA - it is from this thread .... go back one page, and there it is.

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RE: The Best Intro you've encountered from a slave - 4/4/2005 11:39:08 PM

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quote:

submission is a gift of respect and love

Ha, ha, ha... my dominance is a given? When one says, 'submission is a gift' one is implying that another's dominance isn't. Might want to check that attitude at the door, or there won't be many dommes or doms gifting you with their dominance in respect and love either.

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RE: The Best Intro you've encountered from a slave - 4/5/2005 8:54:07 AM

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The best introduction I ever got went like this:

Hello siamsa,

I am ________ from Cleveland, Ohio. I saw your profile and have been watching your "life updates" for a week or so. I find you to be witty, smart and full of life.
I am just looking to meet new people and talk and would love to get to know you better if you are willing. If you are interested please let me know.

We are still together

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RE: The Best Intro you've encountered from a slave - 4/5/2005 2:45:32 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: siamsa24

The best introduction I ever got went like this:

Hello siamsa,

I am ________ from Cleveland, Ohio. I saw your profile and have been watching your "life updates" for a week or so. I find you to be witty, smart and full of life.
I am just looking to meet new people and talk and would love to get to know you better if you are willing. If you are interested please let me know.

We are still together

Awwwwwwwwwwww thats lovely.

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RE: The Best Intro you've encountered from a slave - 4/5/2005 3:04:14 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LoneGoddess
Ha, ha, ha... my dominance is a given? When one says, 'submission is a gift' one is implying that another's dominance isn't. Might want to check that attitude at the door, or there won't be many dommes or doms gifting you with their dominance in respect and love either.

~LG

No one said that your dominance is a given ... just because submission is a gift doesn't mean that dominance isn't and I'm not sure why you feel that it does mean that. To us, it's a mutual giving - the boys give us their submission, we give them our dominance. Their submission is a gift to us because they don't give it to just anyone, and vice verce with our dominance. I see no need to check the attitude of "submision is a gift" at the door, as you said, because it IS a gift and it is one that should be given out carefully.

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RE: The Best Intro you've encountered from a slave - 4/5/2005 3:05:42 PM

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that is fantastic siamsa - and very sweet

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RE: The Best Intro you've encountered from a slave - 4/5/2005 3:36:56 PM

siamsa24

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If we go to the zoo for my birthday (he has hinted that we are and I am very excited) I will have pictures of us and I will post a success story with the pictures.

And thanks Oumae and SweetDommes, he is a real sweetheart and so far we have been doing well

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RE: The Best Intro you've encountered from a slave - 4/5/2005 5:02:42 PM

SweetDommes

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Heeheehee, we just went to the zoo ... something that we've been meaning to do for ... well ... over a year ... and it was fabulous. Would have been better if there had been 4 of us there instead of 3, but still.

I hope you have a great time

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